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MissPiscesForever
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posted May 08, 2014 03:12 PM
 
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Originally posted by LionFish:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by hannaramaa:
[b]And yeah Libra placements…BLEH. I attract Libra moons which isn't too bad but I can smell their level 5 clinger/ marshmallow center from 5 miles away
You make me giggle Hanna 
I hope I find that! Btw is he very sexual (I'm wondering because I have scorpio mars)
I'm a Pisces sun, Aries Venus, sag Mars...
I do this, too. I lose interest very quickly. Its amazing I've ever been in a long term relationship honestly and the fact that I'm engaged... epic.
My fiance is an aqua sun, merc, Venus, and Jupiter with mars in Scorpio.
There was all sorts of mutual chasing there and well, he got me to say yes so he must've done something right  [/B][/QUOTE]IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 08, 2014 03:15 PM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by hannaramaa:
[b]And yeah Libra placements…BLEH. I attract Libra moons which isn't too bad but I can smell their level 5 clinger/ marshmallow center from 5 miles away
You make me giggle Hanna I'm a Pisces sun, Aries Venus, sag Mars...
I do this, too. I lose interest very quickly. Its amazing I've ever been in a long term relationship honestly and the fact that I'm engaged... epic.
My fiance is an aqua sun, merc, Venus, and Jupiter with mars in Scorpio.
There was all sorts of mutual chasing there and well, he got me to say yes so he must've done something right [/B][/QUOTE] i try… but let's pose this: do aries venus ever find it difficult to get themselves CHASED? IP: Logged |
Newrise
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posted May 08, 2014 03:17 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
what do you mean you chase to make an emotional bond? like you ask them about themselves constantly or what?
Well I am always interested in them. I don't make a point, however, to ask too many questions. It just comes naturally. Then if I really really like them, then I want to make the bond spiritual, again Venus in pisces, to actually have any chance for a relationship. And it's naturally a slow process. So 1 of the two things happen, they fall for me before that stage and I lose my interest. They get into that stage too early. And I am not ready for a relationship. I do have to have a strong person, but also a soft person to sustain a relationship with me. If they are too hard, I don't even bother. If they are too soft, that's even worse. Most of it happens subconsciously. But after above experiences, I now tread very carefully, it's not cool to make someone think I have more interest than I actually do, so I try to be as honest as possible. IP: Logged |
MissPiscesForever
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posted May 08, 2014 03:28 PM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by hannaramaa:
[b]And yeah Libra placements…BLEH. I attract Libra moons which isn't too bad but I can smell their level 5 clinger/ marshmallow center from 5 miles away
You make me giggle Hanna I'm a Pisces sun, Aries Venus, sag Mars...
I do this, too. I lose interest very quickly. Its amazing I've ever been in a long term relationship honestly and the fact that I'm engaged... epic.
My fiance is an aqua sun, merc, Venus, and Jupiter with mars in Scorpio.
There was all sorts of mutual chasing there and well, he got me to say yes so he must've done something right [/B][/QUOTE] I wish I had that! Is he every sexual? (I'm wondering cuz I have the mars scorpio) IP: Logged |
MissPiscesForever
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posted May 08, 2014 03:30 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
i try… but let's pose this: do aries venus ever find it difficult to get themselves CHASED?
YES YES YES YES YES! The only guys that chase me are the ones I don't (at the time) like! When I start chasing them, they stop! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 08, 2014 03:40 PM
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Originally posted by Newrise:
Well I am always interested in them. I don't make a point, however, to ask too many questions. It just comes naturally. Then if I really really like them, then I want to make the bond spiritual, again Venus in pisces, to actually have any chance for a relationship. And it's naturally a slow process. So 1 of the two things happen, they fall for me before that stage and I lose my interest. They get into that stage too early. And I am not ready for a relationship. I do have to have a strong person, but also a soft person to sustain a relationship with me. If they are too hard, I don't even bother. If they are too soft, that's even worse.Most of it happens subconsciously. But after above experiences, I now tread very carefully, it's not cool to make someone think I have more interest than I actually do, so I try to be as honest as possible.
Have people ever accused you of being confusing? And do you go for long periods without talking to the person? I had a fling with a Venus in Pisces recently…and I think he was soft on the inside but also trying to appear macho but it wasn't in sync if that makes sense. As an Aries Venus I couldn't read his intentions with me. IP: Logged |
Newrise
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posted May 08, 2014 03:58 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Have people ever accused you of being confusing? And do you go for long periods without talking to the person? I had a fling with a Venus in Pisces recently…and I think he was soft on the inside but also trying to appear macho but it wasn't in sync if that makes sense. As an Aries Venus I couldn't read his intentions with me.
Well whatever I do, I do it light-heartedly. The chasing anyways. If I ever don't talk to other person for long period of time, is because I feel a lack of rhythm in our connection, and also just need some time on my own. I haven't been accused of being confusing, I am an Aries after all, I am pretty straightforward on my approaches despite the piscean bits. I do see why that could happen though. I am not oblivious to my confusedness, but it's something that I have got to do to be Venus in piscean myself.  IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted May 08, 2014 06:38 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
i try… but let's pose this: do aries venus ever find it difficult to get themselves CHASED?
I used to! But then something happened and I felt like my actions were akin to throwing myself at them, which seems desperate and well, guys don't like it. So I toned it back to just flirting with everyone but only actually going after men who showed interest before I was aggressive... if you wait just a little while they can't get enough of you because then your spicy side is like their little secret
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Mercurian Intellect
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posted May 08, 2014 11:02 PM
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Originally posted by MissPiscesForever:
I like people who will hurt my feelings sometimes (but apologize of course) they don't have enough of a harshness for me.
Wtf? There are other ways to gain (negative if you prefer) emotional stimulation... IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 09, 2014 02:23 AM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Wtf?There are other ways to gain (negative if you prefer) emotional stimulation...
Which are? IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted May 09, 2014 02:27 AM
I only have Lilith in Aries but I do have Mars conj Asc and I chase men. LOVE IT!! I can't stand them chasing me though...such a turnoff and I feel all "yucky".IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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posted May 09, 2014 02:53 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Which are?
For negative, you can just look at the bad things about yourself. Or talk about the negative things about yourself with your partner.
You can also do this by yourself if you want to. Just think about the negative things and cry. That's emotionally stimulating. I cry just for emotional stimulation sometimes, lol. Because I'm naturally an unemotional person, so I try to force myself to cry by thinking of negative things.
I'm a Scorpio Mars as well (referring to the OP). For positive, you can look at them as a opportunity to improve upon them, and talk to your partner about it for solutions. Cry if you like as well.
And for most people, especially women, sex is an emotional response as well. IP: Logged |
pinkgh0st
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posted May 09, 2014 04:20 AM
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Originally posted by MissPiscesForever:
Hi, I'm pisces mom, Aries venus and Scorpio mars. I need help. I can't stop chasing guys. I can't. If I do stop, it's because I do like them and I moved on. If I don't chase them I'll move on from them. But guys don't like being chased, what do I do? -_-
what is your mars?
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LionFish
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posted May 09, 2014 05:00 AM
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Originally posted by MissPiscesForever:
I wish I had that! Is he every sexual? (I'm wondering cuz I have the mars scorpio)
He is! And not only does he have that Scorpio Mars, but his entire aqua stellium is in his 8th house...and my 7th
His mars is trine my sun and he is so in tune with me physically its just crazy. I'm very very lucky to have him IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted May 09, 2014 06:10 AM
I am an Aries in venus woman. Its so easy for me to get a guy's attention. But i would chase him away n then i would chase him. Madness. It was fun. But u should confuse them. I would chase a guy and then when he acts smart i would call him a bore. N i would walk away. But i yearn for what i cant have. Thats y i used to chase. Now im happily married. I chase my husband. Loads of drama. Im kinda wild,recklessand crazzzy. Surprisingly i didnt chase my husband. But he is so great,sexy and arrogant. So manly. I love him.
Despite what ppl think most men dont like to be chased. They think women who chase are not feminine enough. I learnt this lesson the hard way.
Aries in Venus men are the only men who like to be chased. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted May 09, 2014 06:14 AM
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Originally posted by MissPiscesForever:
YES YES YES YES YES! The only guys that chase me are the ones I don't (at the time) like! When I start chasing them, they stop!
Story of my teenage life. Sob! IP: Logged |
Sven555
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posted May 09, 2014 08:11 AM
Aries in Venus man here.I do enjoy pursuing after women who I like, but I do like being chased by someone who I believe is decent. Otherwise I feel like i'm wasting time. If the person doesn't respond with the same energy as me, I get bored and find someone else to pursue, there is no time to lose!! Falling in and out of love quickly is sometimes the issue here!
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hannaramaa
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posted May 09, 2014 12:07 PM
Can you imagine Venus in Aries chasing Venus in Pisces with that kind of mindset? I don't know if ViP would be bored or terrified.IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted May 09, 2014 01:37 PM
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Originally posted by Sven555:
If the person doesn't respond with the same energy as me, I get bored and find someone else to pursue, there is no time to lose!!Falling in and out of love quickly is sometimes the issue here!
Great way to say it Sven!
I don't know how many people I've become quickly disenchanted with because they simply weren't on my wave length. The " there is no time to lose!!" Is exactly how my Aries Venus feels when it comes to love! IP: Logged |
Sven555
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posted May 11, 2014 06:29 PM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
Great way to say it Sven!
I don't know how many people I've become quickly disenchanted with because they simply weren't on my wave length. The " there is no time to lose!!" Is exactly how my Aries Venus feels when it comes to love!
Excellent job, Lionfish! 
I guess life is too short to try and stay with people who don't offer similar amounts of energy as you. IP: Logged |
Sven555
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posted May 11, 2014 06:31 PM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
Great way to say it Sven!
I don't know how many people I've become quickly disenchanted with because they simply weren't on my wave length. The " there is no time to lose!!" Is exactly how my Aries Venus feels when it comes to love!
Excellent job, Lionfish!
I guess life is too short to try and stay with people who don't offer similar amounts of energy as you. IP: Logged |
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