posted May 11, 2014 10:14 AM            

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Thanks. This is interesting. I'm quite similar.

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posted May 11, 2014 10:27 AM            

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I'm curious, would you help a stranger?

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Well, I don't really like to, but it depends on what it is.

posted May 11, 2014 10:42 AM            

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I see. I'm more helpful.

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It's not like I dislike strangers, I just don't have any interest with them I guess. I see that my help will not benefit me in any way, so it's kinda pointless.

I'm a very selfish person as well.

Okay, now that I think about it, I will help someone if it has to do with something to talk about something with, but not something physical. Like doing something for them.

posted May 11, 2014 10:46 AM            

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I kinda have humanitarian impulses.

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I'm not humanitarian in the helping an individual sense, but I'm humanitarian as a whole, universally.
I feel that forwarding Science is helping humanity, by better understanding the world and progressing technology. So that eventually, we have done everything we have wanted, and now it's time to help other alien races with progressing their world and society. And eventually, bringing universal peace and enlightenment.

posted May 11, 2014 10:49 AM            

Sounds sweet but I'd focus first on not destroying ourselves The more our technology progresses, the more it's possible if we don't get wiser.

Btw, I remember you talk about a hypothetical girlfriend. Maybe you don't understand love now but I guess you secretly hope to experience it someday

posted May 11, 2014 10:56 AM            

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If I were you I would read about SPD (schizoid personality disorder). Maybe you'll see yourself in it? Knowing what you're dealing could help you feel less like an alien.

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Thank you.

posted May 11, 2014 11:02 AM            

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Sounds sweet but I'd focus first on not destroying ourselves The more our technology progresses, the more it's possible if we don't get wiser.

Btw, I remember you talk about a hypothetical girlfriend. Maybe you don't understand love now but I guess you secretly hope to experience it someday

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Lol, yeah, I have thought about that as well. That we aren't capable of using that technology yet, as we still need to intellectually and consciously evolve a lot more. I think our society most definitely needs help from advanced aliens, not for technology, but on ways to live, lmao. Then, once we evolve into a more intelligent species, they could teach us moderately, so that we don't go over our heads into destruction with it.

posted May 11, 2014 11:21 AM            

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Is it easier for you to bond with animals?

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Just noticed this.

Yup.
I love all animals, and absolutely hate killing insects.
Sometimes I will try to bring them outside whenever I see them in my house.

posted May 11, 2014 03:13 PM            

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Thank you.

This isn't the first time someone suggested SPD to me before.
My Psychiatrist said I could have PDD (Pervasive Developmental Disorder). I don't think I have that as I do not identify with a lot of the traits. There are multiple kinds as well.
I relate to SPD more.

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And yeah, I am really romantic (which is really weird considering how I am with feelings, lol), and I think I truly don't understand love, as I see sex as primitive. I see intellectual compatibility and learning from each other more meaningful.
I do want to experience love most definitely
Could that be why? Not because I have Venus in Libra conjunct Sun, but because I don't understand it and want to experience it?

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I hope your wish comes true But what do you mean by "really romantic" exactly? Is it liking things that are considered romantic or is it longing for the experience of romantic love?

Have you ever crushed on anyone? There are people who are aromantic. Being aromantic is in short being incapable of feeling romantic attraction (infatuation aka crush, being in love, bla bla). You may want to explore this subject when you're like 30 and still no one has catched your interest this way. Although in your case it might be much more complicated since you're not in touch with feelings in general...Btw, one can have sex without love and love without sex. Or have both. If you want love without sex I recommend you to look for asexual-romantic girls

posted May 11, 2014 03:58 PM            

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I hope your wish comes true But what do you mean by "really romantic" exactly? Is it liking things that are considered romantic or is it longing for the experience of romantic love?

Have you ever crushed on anyone? There are people who are aromantic. Being aromantic is in short being incapable of feeling romantic attraction (infatuation aka crush, being in love, bla bla). You may want to explore this subject when you're like 30 and still no one has catched your interest this way. Although in your case it might be much more complicated since you're not in touch with feelings in general...Btw, one can have sex without love and love without sex. Or have both. If you want love without sex I recommend you to look for asexual-romantic girls

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No, I haven't mentioned SPD with him yet, but I will next time I see him, and see what he thinks about it.

Thank you, Cappy
Romantic as in longing for the experience of romantic love.
Yes, I have had crushes, perhaps an infatuation with one girl. I really liked her, she was ideal for me. She was a Virgo, too, lol. I tried doing romantic things for her; some were subtle, others were obvious. But I was really nervous and don't get how this game of love works, lol. I'm more to the point. Whenever I tried to do something, she said "It's okay" and stuff like that, she seemed uninterested in me anyway.
I really wanted to write a poem for her on Valentine's Day, but the day before that, I realized that she didn't like me, lol. Besides, if I like someone, it's because I like you, not because I want to get in bed with you. So the person would know it's true.

And yeah, that's a thought. I mean, I wouldn't mind sex, just not a lot, as I want her to love me for me, my mind, not for the sexual aspect of it. Just philosophically, I see sex as primitive, and not the true form of love. But if my girlfriend wants sex, I would do it to make her happy.