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Topic: Questions about Lillith in my son's chart
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panda84
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posted May 09, 2014 04:42 PM
  
Hi Everyone.. I did my my son's birth chart and he has Lilith in IV and Lilith at Gemini at 0*12' can anyone tell me what exactly this means? I'm new to astrology so if anyone can please give me some insight I would really appreciate it. Is this a really a bad aspect?IP: Logged |
panda84
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posted May 09, 2014 05:10 PM
Anyone?IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted May 09, 2014 05:12 PM
Post a chart from astro.comIP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted May 09, 2014 05:16 PM
Which Lilith? the asteroid? Why would this be bad? it isn't.IP: Logged |
panda84
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posted May 09, 2014 05:21 PM
Well I read on a website that Lilith in the 4th indicates a miserable childhood, abandonment, death of a parent??IP: Logged |
panda84
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posted May 09, 2014 05:22 PM
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LeeLoo2014
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posted May 09, 2014 05:42 PM
quote:
Originally posted by panda84:
Well I read on a website that Lilith in the 4th indicates a miserable childhood, abandonment, death of a parent??
Personally, I don't agree with these "biblical" interpretations of Lilith. Lilith as Adam's first wife, the rebel, who didn't want to submit to Adam's will, is the first feminist, so to speak  But of course, such an example was given as a "bad" one by medieval, biblical astrology. Lilith is very modern, an asteroid of independence, originality and true passion. Great passions are like a demon we need to face, it is true.
Apart from that, in a man's chart, Lilith is seen as the woman he craves and fears the most, the temptation, the one inspiring a passion over the edge (of course, one can see the traces of the biblical myth IP: Logged |
panda84
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posted May 09, 2014 05:56 PM
So what would it indicate in his chart though? Does it mean miserable childhood, abandonment, death of a parent??IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted May 09, 2014 06:14 PM
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Originally posted by panda84:
So what would it indicate in his chart though?
Frankly, he is a little bit too young to worry about Lilith But I'd say with Lilith in Gemini square Neptune in Pisces (1st house) he'll have a strong imagination and possibly literary talent. IP: Logged |
panda84
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posted May 10, 2014 12:57 AM
So lilith in his 4th does not mean I (his mother) are going to die and he end up in foster care? I've been worried since i read this: http://plutoinvirgo.blogspot.com/search/label/4th%20House%20Lilith IP: Logged |
panda84
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posted May 10, 2014 01:02 AM
I know I shouldn't worry about this, but I am all he has....if anyone can please give me some more in depth analysis? Or help put my worries to rest...please?IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted May 10, 2014 01:07 AM
heavens no.I have lilith in the 7th and I was not murdered by my lover or anything crazy like that. You should chill about that stuff, Lilith is where he can be empowered in it happens to be in the 4th house. Negatvitly he may reject his heritage or the positive he may be a maverick of sorts. IP: Logged |
panda84
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posted May 10, 2014 01:12 AM
Thank you so much for replying... I know I sound crazy, but that article totally freaked me out! Now I can go to sleep lol. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted May 10, 2014 01:15 AM
remember that article was written by a random person behind a computer screen not a prestigious and renowned astrologer IP: Logged |
sag_stellium
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posted May 10, 2014 01:25 AM
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Originally posted by panda84:
Well I read on a website that Lilith in the 4th indicates a miserable childhood, abandonment, death of a parent??
I have lilith in 4th in Leo. Neither parent is dead or dying. The externalization of my raw behavior ( anger, deep pain) was seen as being the black sheep by extended family. My mom was convinced I'd go and get pregnant any minute lol. That's how it manifested for me. But lilith in 4th isn't going to mean death of parent. Oh I had a very early start sexually stuff as a kid, but I didn't actually have sex until well after everyone else. But I wouldn't worry about that. Some of us became aware at the age of 3. What can you do? lol. My mom had her hands full with setting parental controls online. Every caregiver I had didn't realize what was going on under her roof with me and the other kids. The abuse is not limited to what you do as the parent. It is also able to manifest as what others responsible for your child will do or what other kids will do. Sorry. I didn't mean to raise another area of concern. Just keep an eye on it. These things don't show up when you demand answers. They have to show themselves to you. It's a subtle story. Your anxiety is not the appropriate tool. Your patient alertness is. The best way to deal with it is to proactively equip your children to defend themselves (vocally, physically, emotionally) and being willing to listen... even when you're too tired to listen. I hope your kid doesn't have to deal with anything like this, of course! IP: Logged |
panda84
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posted May 10, 2014 01:39 AM
Thank you sag_stellium.. I'm glad you told me this because my son is in daycare 5 days a week (Im in school full time). I always worry about leaving him with babysitters.IP: Logged |
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