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posted May 10, 2014 08:06 PM            

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Are there natal or synastry placements/aspects that would indicate someone who is hard to get over or someone who struggles with getting over someone after a breakup?

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posted May 10, 2014 08:09 PM            

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Fixed signs, Pluto, Saturn, Nodes aspects.
Sometimes Neptune.

Depends on the charts.

8H, 12H synastry.

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posted May 10, 2014 09:20 PM            

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The person whose inner planets were hit the hardest in synastry. Sometimes you can predict it based on which houses and axes were affected in synastry. Like 4th hits harder than 5th, stereotypically.

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posted May 11, 2014 02:39 AM            

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By individual
- afflicted moon/mercury/venus : to saturn >pluto>neptune
- some fix sign : scorpio but not taurus and aquareaus.
- water sign : esp. Cancer& scorpio but not pisces . Pisces is mutable . When they're hurt , they can escape happily to another dimension

By synastry ...the hard to forget relatinship might be
- Many planets conjunct Angles ( AC/IC/DC/MC)
- stellium 8th and 12th : I currently have one with my Aqua bf , I have 5 planets in his 8th , although he is aqua , he couldn't run
- for me, venus - pluto in synastry alone aren't deep impact as it said in cookbook.

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posted May 11, 2014 04:08 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyKitty:
By individual
- afflicted moon/mercury/venus : to saturn >pluto>neptune
- some fix sign : scorpio but not taurus and aquareaus.
- water sign : esp. Cancer& scorpio but not pisces . Pisces is mutable . When they're hurt , they can escape happily to another dimension

By synastry ...the hard to forget relatinship might be
- Many planets conjunct Angles ( AC/IC/DC/MC)
- stellium 8th and 12th : I currently have one with my Aqua bf , I have 5 planets in his 8th , although he is aqua , he couldn't run
- for me, venus - pluto in synastry alone aren't deep impact as it said in cookbook.

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How do you find out if your boyfriends planet falls in your 12th or 8th house?

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posted May 11, 2014 10:21 AM            

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Um, are you sure you don't know the answer to that question?

You get a date and time of birth for you and the other person.

Draw a synastry chart and then look where the planets fall.

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posted May 11, 2014 10:28 AM            

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Of course it's hard if you're in love with someone lol..

I don't think I met anyone who can instantly fall out of love after a break up, unless they weren't to begin with.

I actually noticed fixed signs when they feel betrayed they will make it a point to not forgive someone so they break up and stay that way.

I find with mutable signs they are able to forgive very easily so it's harder for them because an on and off relationship probably continues.

I noticed with scorpios their anger consumes them so it's not as hard compared to taurus.
Taurus's placidity gives hardest time as they seem bewildered as to why this has happened to them. so most of them time are in shock since this shakes up their stable comfortable world.

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posted May 11, 2014 11:53 AM            

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I don't think I met anyone who can instantly fall out of love after a break up

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There are plenty such people.
Can't tell exactly what their charts look like but I've found people with Moon/Venus in hard aspect or Uranus in aspect to the Moon or Venus can be that way.

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