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Topic: Our synastry seems bad while composite seems to look good?
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ScorpioBaby
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Split
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 14, 2014 05:10 AM
  
Okay, so me and this guy are planning to get married. He's not interested into astrology, not even a bit while I have been studying this for years! lolAnyways, here's the chart:
 From what I know, synastry shows relationship between 2 people while composite chart shows how relationship works itself. Yeah, there were some quarrels but in the end it would be all fine. Judging using synastry/composite ONLY, what do you think, how would our marriage look like? Good? Bad? Forever? Divorce? 
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ScorpioBaby
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Split
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 14, 2014 11:48 AM
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ariestaurus
Knowflake Posts: 194
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 14, 2014 11:54 AM
Ooh you have so many of the same placements as my guy <3 tell me about yourself!!! lol How long did it take for you guys to get engaged?Anyway, your synastry looks pretty good.. Your angles are conjunct, his SUn/Mercury on your Ascendant is great (lots of attraction, he likes to talk to you). Your Saturn is opposite his Venus, so you may be quite cold or unaffectionate towards him sometimes, or he may not feel comfortable being his playful Venus in Leo self around you. You may be a bit critical of him, or may feel like a parent to him at times.
Your Moon is conjunc this DC, which is great. He really cares about you and is receptive to your feelings. IP: Logged |
ariestaurus
Knowflake Posts: 194
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 14, 2014 11:54 AM
Ooh you have so many of the same placements as my guy <3 tell me about yourself!!! lol How long did it take for you guys to get engaged?Anyway, your synastry looks pretty good.. Your angles are conjunct, his SUn/Mercury on your Ascendant is great (lots of attraction, he likes to talk to you). Your Saturn is opposite his Venus, so you may be quite cold or unaffectionate towards him sometimes, or he may not feel comfortable being his playful Venus in Leo self around you. You may be a bit critical of him, or may feel like a parent to him at times.
Your Moon is conjunc this DC, which is great. He really cares about you and is receptive to your feelings. IP: Logged |
ScorpioBaby
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Split
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 14, 2014 02:42 PM
I thought synastry was bad, like wow, look at amount of squares lol!!!It took us 3 years although I'm a critical, complicated one who analyzes A LOT (Virgo ASC). I say, at least 2 years of engagement before marriage - just to see how things will work out. I don't want everything to be all of sudden. I'm Scorpio, he's Libra. My ASC is Virgo, his is Cancer. My Moon is in Capricorn, his is in Aries. Since it's on 29th degree, would it be more like Taurus? xD
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ariestaurus
Knowflake Posts: 194
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 14, 2014 03:11 PM
Like you, my guy has Sun/Pluto conj in SCorp, SCorp Mercury, and Scorp Venus. He also has Cap Moon. My Moon is in Aries, like your guy  He is so analytical and moves so slowly, so I was wondering how to catch and keep someone like you! My Aries Moon can get a bit impatient!! lolAnyway, your synastry has a few squares, yes, but you need a bit of friction in a relationship to keep things interesting. The angular conjunctions are commonly seen as "soul mate" indicators. Yes, I can see the 'quarrels': your Uranus sq his Mars, Mars sq Asc in Composite.Your Sun/Pluto square his Venus is really intense! Very obsessive, though, he may sometimes feel that you don't value him. IP: Logged |
ScorpioBaby
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Split
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 15, 2014 12:04 PM
I don't know about him, but I know that I sometimes don't feel valued
Conflits are almost always caused by my jealousy. Oh that Venus in Scorpio.He can also be a bit childish which ****** me off. Once I told him how I wanted a serious man, not a child....and then he got angry LOL. IP: Logged |
starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 1172
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 15, 2014 12:46 PM
I am a synastry reader and not composite, so this is just my take on the synastry. I assume you have TOB correct for both people. You have venus opp. saturn, which i don't like to see with couples - it can bind (for a while), but it's very restrictive to the venus person (him in this case), and they feel like the partner is telling them how to act/behave and not allowing them to be their youthful, happy self. Overall the synastry is very good though. At first glance it looks bad; you don't have conjunctions to close personal planets, there are squares, and your overall energy is way too intense for his libra stellium, which would make him more superficial/carefree. BUT, you have wonderful house overlays and everything falls where it should for a long-term relationship. your planets are hitting his 5th/7th, so you'd be someone he'd want to date and have qualities he'd want in a partner, and since it's a cap moon you likely bring him much-needed stability. His stellium clustering around your ASC is great for attraction, as is his moon in your 8th house. His venus and yours are not naturally compatible, so that would be an area to watch out for. it's a synastry where at first glance it looks like trouble, but the house positions support a relationship. it indicates there are qualities each partner has that the other needs/lacks, but they need to be careful not to change the partner in any way because there will also be glaring differences in approaches to life and love.IP: Logged |
ScorpioBaby
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Split
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 16, 2014 02:17 PM
Bingo! Two years ago he used 3 Asian women as his Skype display picture. Hey, one asian woman 3 times?? NOTE: Each was in bikini.
At first two I didn't react at all (although I was maaaaad)but the 3rd one made him meet the devil and I cut him off for a month. Last year he had a random girl cosplaying some characters (it was only her face) and that made me angry as well. Later it was a drawing lol. I turned crazy for those two of course (oh that scorpio love). Yeah, I've always been a bit jealous but now it's going off limit, although I don't show it. If I showed how my jealousy looked like, I think there would be constant quarrels which would result with breakup.
I told him to stop looking at other women. Keeping in mind his Cancer ASC, I think he doesn't do it anymore. But on the other hand, I lost trust in him and I always think there are another women who he pays attention to. Having Venus in Scorpio is like a sin, I tell you lol!!! IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1462
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 16, 2014 05:02 PM
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Originally posted by ScorpioBaby:
Bingo! Two years ago he used 3 Asian women as his Skype display picture. Hey, one asian woman 3 times?? NOTE: Each was in bikini.
At first two I didn't react at all (although I was maaaaad)but the 3rd one made him meet the devil and I cut him off for a month. Last year he had a random girl cosplaying some characters (it was only her face) and that made me angry as well. Later it was a drawing lol. I turned crazy for those two of course (oh that scorpio love). Yeah, I've always been a bit jealous but now it's going off limit, although I don't show it. If I showed how my jealousy looked like, I think there would be constant quarrels which would result with breakup.
I told him to stop looking at other women. Keeping in mind his Cancer ASC, I think he doesn't do it anymore. But on the other hand, I lost trust in him and I always think there are another women who he pays attention to. Having Venus in Scorpio is like a sin, I tell you lol!!!
I'm a virgo with scopio venus conjunct scorpio pluto in relationship with a libra guy with libra venus and cancer ascendant lol! I have never been major jealous at him, I always though that libras would be flirtatious with everyone they met, and he is to a degree, but the nice thing with libras is they always gives you the MOST attention, and they always knows how to say the right things That is the most important thing for us scorpio venus, that whatever those other girls are trying with our charming libra boyfriends, we always know that he likes us the MOST  Keep that in mind and don't be jealous at him, cause libras are very loyal once in a relationship IP: Logged |
ScorpioBaby
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Split
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 17, 2014 05:18 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I'm a virgo with scopio venus conjunct scorpio pluto in relationship with a libra guy with libra venus and cancer ascendant lol! I have never been major jealous at him, I always though that libras would be flirtatious with everyone they met, and he is to a degree, but the nice thing with libras is they always gives you the MOST attention, and they always knows how to say the right things That is the most important thing for us scorpio venus, that whatever those other girls are trying with our charming libra boyfriends, we always know that he likes us the MOST Keep that in mind and don't be jealous at him, cause libras are very loyal once in a relationship
Agreed. But sometimes you just can't handle all the emotions. I'm still working on getting rid of jealousy. Hopefully I'll succeed one day.......one day :P
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