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lisalisa
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posted May 17, 2014 10:41 AM
  
If a taurus man says "I don't think we should be in touch anymore" but still takes the effort to reply to all of my mails and answers the phone when i call him. Is he testing me or being serious, i'm showing that i won't give up on him and told him i feel love for him..IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
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posted May 17, 2014 10:45 AM
Eh...I'm a Taurus, and I've done this. :/ He's trying to be a 'nice guy'. He figures you'll move on at some point and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. He feels he's made his position clear and anything that comes after that is on you. We're a fixed sign - if he said it, he meant it. I'm sorry...IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted May 17, 2014 10:57 AM
Yeah, a small game, and an asinine one at that I would say, going by your description. He's serious even though he doesn't mind the attention = which doesn't meaning he would get back together. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted May 17, 2014 10:58 AM
And for a Pisces man? His sun is in his 12th houseIP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted May 17, 2014 11:02 AM
I might have hurt his feelings, by things i've saidIP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted May 17, 2014 11:06 AM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
I might have hurt his feelings, by things i've said
Oh, really?  Then, it's a good sign, as to his hurt feelings, getting over it. Still doesn't mean he's bent on romance with you. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted May 17, 2014 11:27 AM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Oh, really? Then, it's a good sign, as to his hurt feelings, getting over it. Still doesn't mean he's bent on romance with you.
What's my best approach now? IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
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posted May 17, 2014 11:41 AM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
What's my best approach now?
Are you talking about with the Pisces or the Taurus with this question? I'll bow out if you want, but I'm telling you I, as a Taurus, have done this; more than once. I'm not proud of it, and I didn't do it out of malice, but it is what it is. He'll keep you around as long as you want to stay, but once those words are out and that bell's been rung, he won't unring it - his feelings won't evolve beyond fond thoughts of friendship and that's very different from love for us. Heck, he might even sleep with you because...well, because you're there and we love sex. The thing that concerns me for you is that you say you have feelings of love for him. Please be careful. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted May 17, 2014 11:42 AM
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. Give it some time. If he's into you, he'll react in some fashion; if not, you'll be able to move without second guessing. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted May 17, 2014 11:49 AM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Are you talking about with the Pisces or the Taurus with this question? I'll bow out if you want, but I'm telling you I, as a Taurus, have done this; more than once. I'm not proud of it, and I didn't do it out of malice, but it is what it is. He'll keep you around as long as you want to stay, but once those words are out and that bell's been rung, he won't unring it - his feelings won't evolve beyond fond thoughts of friendship and that's very different from love for us. Heck, he might even sleep with you because...well, because you're there and we love sex. The thing that concerns me for you is that you say you have feelings of love for him. Please be careful.
Appreciate your insight, doesnt sound like my guy and our connection.. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted May 17, 2014 11:52 AM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Disclaimer : This post is not sponsored by astrological insight.
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He's not the initiating kind of guy, as i said he has sun in his 12th, and 5 more planets, he's very shy, sensitive, but strong on outside, he's very dream-like, he's like piscean, but he's a taurus.
What if i call him in about a few weeks, would that be good? I've waited for him before, about half a year, and he didn't call me or anything, i called him after 6 months, to find out thar he was waiting for ME..
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ash20
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posted May 17, 2014 11:57 AM
He is trying to not be rude but as long as you give him attention he won't mind recieving it. They do like to have their egos stroked *as well as other things lol* but it doesn't mean he wants to be with you. He will play you if given the chance thoughIP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted May 17, 2014 12:02 PM
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Originally posted by ash20:
He is trying to not be rude but as long as you give him attention he won't mind recieving it. They do like to have their egos stroked *as well as other things lol* but it doesn't mean he wants to be with you. He will play you if given the chance though
I'm sorry, i don't believe it, i can feel his love for me, we have a spiritual connection, his moon falls in my 3rd house and my moon in his 12th conjunct his ASC
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VenusDiSirius
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posted May 17, 2014 12:10 PM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
He's not the initiating kind of guy, as i said he has sun in his 12th, and 5 more planets, he's very shy, sensitive, but strong on outside, he's very dream-like, he's like piscean, but he's a taurus.
Then he'll suffer silently. 
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What if i call him in about a few weeks, would that be good? I've waited for him before, about half a year, and he didn't call me or anything, i called him after 6 months, to find out thar he was waiting for ME..
Did he say "no contact" at that occasion as well?
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ash20
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posted May 17, 2014 12:12 PM
Well maybe you are the exception and not the rule.. That was just my own opinion but you know your situation better than we do. Good luck with thatIP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted May 17, 2014 12:15 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Did he say "no contact" at that occasion as well?
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lisalisa
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posted May 17, 2014 12:17 PM
I think it's because mars is retrograde in his 5th house that he needs some time.. Also we met at scorpio full moon, the transiting full moon conjuncted my venus and his BML, very emotional..IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
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posted May 17, 2014 12:19 PM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
Appreciate your insight, doesnt sound like my guy and our connection..
Best of luck to you. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted May 17, 2014 12:25 PM
You have scorpio venus??IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted May 17, 2014 12:26 PM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
I think it's because mars is retrograde in his 5th house that he needs some time.. Also we met at scorpio full moon, the transiting full moon conjuncted my venus and his BML, very emotional..
Mars Rx shouldn't be used to negate the concept of personal responsibility for one's love life. lisalisa, If he said no this time, take it at face value. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted May 17, 2014 12:31 PM
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Originally posted by ash20:
You have scorpio venus??
Yes, conjunct my ASC in scorpio IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
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posted May 17, 2014 12:36 PM
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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Eh...I'm a Taurus, and I've done this. :/ He's trying to be a 'nice guy'. He figures you'll move on at some point and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. He feels he's made his position clear and anything that comes after that is on you. We're a fixed sign - if he said it, he meant it. I'm sorry...
Damn I so could've used this advice a few months ago before I made an ass of myself..... IP: Logged |
LostTaurus
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posted May 17, 2014 12:45 PM
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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
Damn I so could've used this advice a few months ago before I made an ass of myself.....
Ah, freebrainstorms I'm so sorry... for what it's worth, he probably really does still think of you genuinely fondly; we just tend to...know, one way or the other if we want to actually pursue something with you or just hang out. And it's very easy for us to compartmentalize feelings - once it's done, it's done. The rough thing is, when we do meet someone we actually fall in love with, we move on. We cut those ties. We think of you fondly enough...but very much as a part of the past.
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lisalisa
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posted May 17, 2014 12:51 PM
Could someone tell me about pisces man tests?IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted May 17, 2014 01:00 PM
At their worst, they manipulate. Their emo angst is all that matters. #WaterSignsTaurus is a part of the control axis, the other half being Scorpio. IP: Logged |
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