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Topic: My first Venus in Aries guy - whoa...
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moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1315 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 17, 2014 03:20 PM
This guy is pursuing me like none other. Sheesh. He's a handful. I don't dislike him, he's just very direct and seems kind of in a hurry...?He's a Taurus Sun, Mercury and Venus in Aries, Mars in Gemini I have an Aries moon but with the stellium in Cancer - I have felt the need to duck and cover lol. Any experiences with them? I would imagine they get bored kinda quickly. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 701 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 17, 2014 03:47 PM
I find the same with Aires Mars. Enjoy it while it lasts! I know I would. With a Gemini Mars, yes, I think he likes the chase. Taurus sun, though, he'll stick around if you're the one (and you want him to). IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 54784 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 17, 2014 03:48 PM
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LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 701 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 17, 2014 03:48 PM
opps... whad I do.. I quoted myself. Sorry! IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1180 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 17, 2014 05:10 PM
get bored the minute you give in. it's all about the chase and love games. they like a very flirtatious woman at the start and then an aggressive one as the relationship progresses. just think heat and passion, fighting and making up, being a sexual object for him but not letting him have you. it's more about the getting than the having, and yeah, boredom takes over fairly fast and they move on to a new conquest. I have an aries stellium and I play with cancers and pisces for sport, they are like playthings, so susceptible to my charms but not able to see how I'm messing with them... so just be careful :-)IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1668 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted May 17, 2014 05:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: get bored the minute you give in. it's all about the chase and love games. they like a very flirtatious woman at the start and then an aggressive one as the relationship progresses. just think heat and passion, fighting and making up, being a sexual object for him but not letting him have you. it's more about the getting than the having, and yeah, boredom takes over fairly fast and they move on to a new conquest.
This poor little Libra Venus got caught too soon lol . They're fun though, while it lasts. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7271 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 17, 2014 07:15 PM
Ahem. I'm an Aries / Taurus/ Gemini woman. I don't get "bored" when my interests give in, but it does make me relax. I think there's a worry in Taurus and an excitement in Aries that drives how ardently they pursue you. Do you have his birthday? IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 4308 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 17, 2014 07:26 PM
In my personal opinion the only women who can deal with either a Pisces or a Taurus with his Venus in Aries .. are Cancer - so you're probably perfect for him. Any other woman would leave him. Besides, a Taurus man can stick to a Cancer woman like glue... You will never be able to unglue him. Since you also have Aries Moon conj his Venus, he'll probably propose next week. Most women are more political than Cancer and they take offence at the amount of sexist BS a man with Taurus/Aries spouts out. A Cancer woman won't notice this.. She'll see him as a big teddy bear who brings home the bacon, while she chirpily cooks away in the kitchen. It's a match made in heaven between Taurus and Cancer. The only problem is his Gemini Mars but I don't think this is an issue in terms of commitment. He could commit, but he could also cheat down the track. IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 4308 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 17, 2014 07:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: I play with cancers and pisces for sport, they are like playthings, so susceptible to my charms but not able to see how I'm messing with them...
If you have sadistic tendencies and can't control yourself, you should probably see a psychologist about that. Consensually inflicting harm for sexual enjoyment is one thing.. but actively messing with people for fun (without their consent) - can be abusive. I don't think one placement accounts for sadism.. So this isn't Venus in Aries.. It's just you. Hanna has Aries Venus as well- and an Aries stellium, and she is not sadistic or a sociopath, describing other people as "playthings". *shrug* That shows lack of respect for other people. IP: Logged |
plutomercjup20 Knowflake Posts: 185 From: I live where you vacation Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 17, 2014 08:45 PM
Oh YESS they do chase a lot and are VERY persistent (especially mine that had Taurus sun Leo Mars ) they don't stop until they get bored of you or find someone better IP: Logged |
plutomercjup20 Knowflake Posts: 185 From: I live where you vacation Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 17, 2014 08:56 PM
Oh YESS they do chase a lot and are VERY persistent (especially mine that had Taurus sun Leo Mars ) they don't stop until they get bored of you or find someone better IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1180 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 17, 2014 09:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: If you have sadistic tendencies and can't control yourself, you should probably see a psychologist about that. Consensually inflicting harm for sexual enjoyment is one thing.. but actively messing with people for fun (without their consent) - can be abusive. I don't think one placement accounts for sadism.. So this isn't Venus in Aries.. It's just you.Hanna has Aries Venus as well- and an Aries stellium, and she is not sadistic or a sociopath, describing other people as "playthings". *shrug* That shows lack of respect for other people.
who moderates the mods? chill out girl IP: Logged |
Melodie Knowflake Posts: 74 From: USA Registered: Feb 2012
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posted May 17, 2014 09:52 PM
Not Venus, but I had a guy friend who has an Aries Mars and holy crap, that boy was after me for a good two years. Everyone knew, it was pretty obvious. It gave me anxiety just being around him because he came on so strong. I would consider myself pretty feminine in the traditional sense, but I DO NOT like being chased. He made me feel cornered.But yeah, they're not subtle, lol. IP: Logged |
IV XXIV Knowflake Posts: 139 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 17, 2014 10:49 PM
Well, for one, I would like to congratulate you (although you feel like you want to duck and hide lmao) we are very into the chase, but if there's persistence/long-term chasing.. He sees something in you. I've got very similar placements.. Taurus sun, Mercury/Venus Aries, Gemini moon, Aries stellium in the 12th house (which is also ruled by Aries lol). I definitely agree with what previous posters have said; give him bits and pieces of you, but nothing all at once. Keep up a wall here and a wall there, create some mystery and he'll be like putty in your hands. That's if you want him. If not, just let him down pretty nicely. Many people see the Aries Venus and assume that since we're so direct, we've got a heart of stone, but that couldn't be further from the truth. We're sensitive folk, we just show it in different ways. We do get bored VERY quickly - which is why I say to never let him have all of you. Let him know that there are sides to you he's never seen and there's more to you that meets the eye. Once you've surpassed the "chasing" stage, and he's really in it for the long haul, then give him much more of you. Never all at once, though. That potential for boredom will be like a shadow.. Never really gone.
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Odette Moderator Posts: 4308 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 17, 2014 10:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: who moderates the mods? chill out girl
I am not a mod in Astrology 2.0. And there is nothing about my prior post to you that requires moderation. Referring to other people as playthings and saying that you 'use them for sport'... is sociopathic. This is not a personal attack. It's an observation. Your words show a lack of empathy and complete disrespect for others. Whether I am a knowflake or a mod is irrelevant. Anyone could point this out to you. IP: Logged |
whaaat Knowflake Posts: 196 From: Portland, MA,U.S Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 17, 2014 11:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: In my personal opinion the only women who can deal with either a Pisces or a Taurus with his Venus in Aries .. are Cancer - so you're probably perfect for him. Any other woman would leave him. Besides, a Taurus man can stick to a Cancer woman like glue... You will never be able to unglue him. Since you also have Aries Moon conj his Venus, he'll probably propose next week. Most women are more political than Cancer and they take offence at the amount of sexist BS a man with Taurus/Aries spouts out. A Cancer woman won't notice this.. She'll see him as a big teddy bear who brings home the bacon, while she chirpily cooks away in the kitchen. It's a match made in heaven between Taurus and Cancer. The only problem is his Gemini Mars but I don't think this is an issue in terms of commitment. He could commit, but he could also cheat down the track.
You've just described my mother 
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Nine Moderator Posts: 1874 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted May 18, 2014 12:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: Growing up all I ever heard, was how he's a sloppy drunk, a liar, and a con.
^^You are lyin'!! ...oh, wait. IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1315 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 18, 2014 03:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Ahem. I'm an Aries / Taurus/ Gemini woman. I don't get "bored" when my interests give in, but it does make me relax. I think there's a worry in Taurus and an excitement in Aries that drives how ardently they pursue you. Do you have his birthday?
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Nine Moderator Posts: 1874 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted May 18, 2014 12:29 PM
I know someone born on this day, Moon in Pisces. Sum total, I believe they're darling. But, gawd - combat! combat! combat! never ending combat.Being around 'em I was in a constant state of agitation. Like a grain of sand caught under the eyelid. I hated it!! While I understood where their behavior was coming from, the fighting wasn't my idea of play. Truth - I hate admitting defeat or showing weakness. However, I had to get used to the idea that Venus in Aries was TOO MUCH for me. So, after one of the usual out-of-nowhere upsets I shut down, and cut off communication. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1489 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 18, 2014 12:51 PM
Lol I was at a party once and this taurus sun guy with aries venus and gemini mercury spotted me and was trying so hard all evening lol...I was in a relationship, but because I found it a little interesting that he was a taurus I let him try to chase me that night (also because I was bored) and god he tried hard...until the LAST minute lol, then he was suddenly all gone!! I guess he got bored IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1315 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 18, 2014 12:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: I know someone born on this day, Moon in Pisces. Sum total, I believe they're darling. But, gawd - combat! combat! combat! never ending combat.Being around 'em I was in a constant state of agitation. Like a grain of sand caught under the eyelid. I hated it!! While I understood where their behavior was coming from, the fighting wasn't my idea of play. Truth - I hate admitting defeat or showing weakness. However, I had to get used to the idea that Venus in Aries was TOO MUCH for me. So, after one of the usual out-of-nowhere upsets I shut down, and cut off communication.
That Pisces moon in the mix LOL....... Just seems so ODD!
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moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1315 From: Indianapolis, IN Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 19, 2014 04:07 PM
We are going on our first dinner date tonightI'll be back with how it went lol IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 701 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 19, 2014 05:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Melodie: Not Venus, but I had a guy friend who has an Aries Mars and holy crap, that boy was after me for a good two years. Everyone knew, it was pretty obvious. It gave me anxiety just being around him because he came on so strong. I would consider myself pretty feminine in the traditional sense, but I DO NOT like being chased. He made me feel cornered.But yeah, they're not subtle, lol.
I had an Aires Mars come after me like a bulldozer as well. Once he thought I was into him he lost interest. He really did think I was in love with him though. He has a huge ego! I sort of like being chased. It was fun while it lasted. Thankfully I wasn't in love with him. My Scorpio Venus would still be pining over him. quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: We are going on our first dinner date tonightI'll be back with how it went lol
Oooh! Exciting!! Have fun! IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1817 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 19, 2014 07:01 PM
Yeah they are agressive. I have experienced this with suns and moons. Felt like getting a restraining order.IP: Logged |
mamawolf Knowflake Posts: 29 From: the universe Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 19, 2014 08:53 PM
My bf has those placements except Mars in Pisces..He can seriously be a brat sometimes and throws a little temper tantrum if he gets impatient, especially if he can't get a sentence out in the middle of everyone talking...but it's like definitely ok for him to interrupt I'm clearly a patient person. We've been together 3 years btw.IP: Logged |