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Topic: Give me your aspects only if you relate.
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Jessica2407
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posted May 19, 2014 09:47 AM
  
You won't verbally acknowledge when someone (a parent, or a sibling or someone that is very close to you) asks you to do something. Your silence means that you are going to do it.You don't see why you have to say yes am going to do it when it wasn't a question.The only times that you will say something will be when you aren't going to acquiesce to whatever is asked of you.Only if you relate please.
I would like to know your mercury aspects. IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted May 19, 2014 10:28 AM
Such an intriguing way to start a thread question.I almost felt compelled to give an answer even though I do not relate to the description IP: Logged |
la_mer
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posted May 19, 2014 12:00 PM
mercury in cancer in 10th, trine to pluto in 3rd, opposite neptune in 4th, sextile asc in virgo - maybe this kind of "quiet acknowledgement" comes from the virgo influence, as it is the sign of service? or maybe the cancer (more listening than talking)IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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posted May 19, 2014 12:23 PM
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Originally posted by la_mer:
mercury in cancer in 10th, trine to pluto in 3rd, opposite neptune in 4th, sextile asc in virgo - maybe this kind of "quiet acknowledgement" comes from the virgo influence, as it is the sign of service? or maybe the cancer (more listening than talking)
Interesting. So no saturn aspect huh? Thank you for replying to my thread. Would you react the same way in a work environment?
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Doux Rêve
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posted May 19, 2014 12:23 PM
I can relate.Mercury Rx in Scorpio, 6H.
Conjunct Sun, sextile Chiron, parallel Saturn. IP: Logged |
la_mer
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posted May 19, 2014 12:34 PM
at work? hm, would say no, but in school I did that to teachers I really didn't like.. ehm, I do have a small aspect to saturn -.- sorry I didn't remember it, ca. 150°, that's the inconjunct/quincunx right?  IP: Logged |
Hanneli
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posted May 19, 2014 01:33 PM
I don't like to give more than a nod of acknowledgement or a "sure" or "yes/yeah". Anyone close to me should know my intentions and whether I'll be able to deliver or not. I'm not a big fan of unnecessary verbal communication because most of it feels cheap. I know too many people who try to lather it on really thick and then don't do it or do a terrible job.Merc in Cancer 7H
trine Moon
opp Saturn, Neptune, Asc
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Emily033
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posted May 19, 2014 02:12 PM
Mercury rx in Libra 12th house square Saturn/Neptune/Uranus Capricorn in 3rd house. I can definitely relate. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted May 19, 2014 02:13 PM
11H Merc. Redundant words bore me to tears. I react the same way at home and work. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted May 19, 2014 03:35 PM
I know one. H12 Aries Mercury receiving the opposition from Sat-Nep conj + square from Uranus. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted May 19, 2014 03:45 PM
Completely relate. It actually annoys me in a way when someone asks me to do anything and expects an answer. It's like they don't know me well enough, like I don't matter as much to them, when they should know and do know me very personally. Hope that makes sense. 12th libra mercury sqaure Mars, Neptune, Uranus and mc. Trines Saturn and conjuncts my ascendant. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 19, 2014 03:58 PM
quote:
Originally posted by la_mer:
150°, that's the inconjunct/quincunx right?
That's right.
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nove731
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posted May 19, 2014 10:27 PM
I relate - sort of.I do this, but the catch is, it's only when I feel really resentful of whatever is being asked but as though I can't say no to the request (work?). I think that I a.) feel like it's futile to voice my objection because I'm going to have to do it regardless, and; b.) prefer to say nothing than to start an argument (that I will obviously lose). I have Mercury in Taurus (8th House) sextile Jupiter and Venus, square my Nodal axis, trine Uranus and Neptune, and opposite Pluto. ------------------
Sun -> Aries
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sunflower-moon
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posted May 19, 2014 10:30 PM
Mostly true for me.Leo Mercury/12th house
Mercury conjunct Jupiter
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Jessica2407
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From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 20, 2014 01:41 AM
Thanks guys.Thought I was the only one I have leo merc in 8th house, square uranus,semi square moon,trine neptune,conjunct sun,venus and saturn,sextile pluto,square NN,semi sextile mars,square chiron,square Jupiter at a very large orb, merc parallel sun,moon,venus,Jupiter and saturn.
I wanted to know the aspects that I share in common with people that relate to the description above since I have too many merc aspects. quote:
Originally posted by nove731:
I relate - sort of.I do this, but the catch is, it's only when I feel really resentful of whatever is being asked but as though I can't say no to the request (work?). I think that I a.) feel like it's futile to voice my objection because I'm going to have to do it regardless, and; b.) prefer to say nothing than to start an argument (that I will obviously lose). I have Mercury in Taurus (8th House) sextile Jupiter and Venus, square my Nodal axis, trine Uranus and Neptune, and opposite Pluto.
I think I do it most when I am being ordered and it's my way to communicate to the other person that I don't like the tone, but will do the task. If the person whines about why I am not answering, I will still not answer. I do it when something is ticking me off, my answers then become monosyllabic. I will also do it when I am kinda harboring a mini grudge against someone. I do it to people I don't like to talk to. But it doesn't mean I don't like words.
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theunknown
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posted May 20, 2014 01:54 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Interesting. So no saturn aspect huh? Thank you for replying to my thread. Would you react the same way in a work environment?
I was thinking moon or venus in capricorn
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Odette
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posted May 20, 2014 02:08 AM
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The only times that you will say something will be when you aren't going to acquiesce to whatever is asked of you.
I usually say nothing either way, unless it's important that I let them know that I won't be doing it. I figure if it's something trivial, someone else will be able to do it. But 90% of the time I do what is asked.. and I don't usually verbally acknowledge that I will, when initially asked. This behaviour really annoys parents (of all signs). I have friends who have done the same thing in front of me - and their mother was like: "Are you going to do it or not?? Is that a yes???" They get so cray cray over it.. It must be an age thing lol or a 'frustrated parent' thing.
They're all the same.. I don't usually generalise.. but with this sort of thing 9 out of 10 parents will react in more or less the same way. quote:
I think I do it most when I am being ordered
Another classic parental thing.. 'ordering' instead of asking nicely LOL Usually done when said parent is extra busy and has other things on their mind - and they're just not thinking. I'm not sure how relevant this is, since I think this is a common parent/child dynamic... but - my Mercury is Pisces 18' deg, in the 10th house.. square Uranus (Sag), sextile Moon (Cap), large conj with Jupiter (Pisc). IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted May 20, 2014 08:23 AM
quote:
Originally posted by la_mer:
mercury in cancer in 10th, trine to pluto in 3rd, opposite neptune in 4th, sextile asc in virgo - maybe this kind of "quiet acknowledgement" comes from the virgo influence, as it is the sign of service? or maybe the cancer (more listening than talking)
I do this, too. Well, sort of. Sometimes I do say yes...but have a tendency to annoy my family by not responding to questions, often because I am just getting mentally prepared for whatever they asked me about. I have a 6H sun and Mercury (service) trine 3H Pluto (often manifests as silence.) Sometimes it just takes me a while to respond...Saturn opposite Mercury. IP: Logged |
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