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Topic: Seducing a Virgo
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ScorpioRising29
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Registered: May 2014
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posted May 21, 2014 01:47 AM
  
So...he is a Virgo Sun. Virgo Rising. Cancer Moon.I think my Scorpio Rising (intensity) freaked him out and he seemed to push me away. I also have a Taurus Sun and Cancer Moon. He seems calm on the surface, but I can't tell if or what is going on inside. Would love your insight on how to (re)seduce this Virgo. = )
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starlitroad
Knowflake Posts: 398
From: romania,Ns
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 21, 2014 01:56 AM
Well, they are "persistent" in a sort of way....I never really liked this boy , but he kept with his obsession/love or lust for a heck lot of years..dunno much, just that he was a virgo sun
both signs are really obsessed with cleaning( I also lived with 2 virgo girls, with one a year, with one several months)
they really are-so no clichees.
From what I saw, they need security, you have to pay attention to details, to be able to help them,
they may not be mushy mushy, but they are reliable, sometimes cold, but because of being afraid,
they are afraid to reveal their feelings unless they are sure you are over-the-heels with them, but even then they have second thoughts( this boy never really confessed, but he oozed it, and I knew it frm other friends of his feelings for me..creepy)well that's the virgos I lived with, and my close exp with other virgos in friends/colleagues my advice ; be clean, on mental,emotional, physycal level
they hate dirty things ( I am sure in bed it does not apply to all tough) IP: Logged |
KarmicMoon
Knowflake Posts: 98
From: Moon, Milky Way
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 21, 2014 07:36 PM
I'm a Virgo Rising, Moon, SN and Cancer Sun, Mercury and Mars (of course I can only offer a female perspective)....Be clean and well groomed.
Be intelligent!
Usually, Virgo's are interested in health so it wouldn't hurt to learn a little about it. Probably history, too.
He probably won't be very forth coming with how he feels about you until he is certain of how you feel.
In general, they like to plan and don't do lots of things spur of the moment.
A quiet dinner is a better idea than watching a band in a crowded bar.
He won't like flighty girls, he'll want someone dependable.
Virgo's can appear cold, we are very passionate, we just don't show that side unless we feel secure.
You'll probably know he likes you when he starts doing things for you, maybe cooking you dinner or helping you around the house. I always cook and clean for my boyfriends as a way to show I care.
Virgo/Cancer is always doing things for other people, a nice gesture would be for you to do something for them. If you cooked a great dinner or made special arrangements to do something that they really liked that would score BIG points. Good luck! IP: Logged |
ScorpioRising29
Newflake Posts: 5
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Registered: May 2014
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posted May 21, 2014 07:50 PM
Thank you guys so much. The challenge is I already told him exactly how much I liked him and he freaked out and said it was too fast. But, if he was apathetic, I don't think it would annoy him as much. IP: Logged |
starlitroad
Knowflake Posts: 398
From: romania,Ns
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 21, 2014 08:00 PM
Try to be a little more patient. Do not play "I am not interested in you anymore" thing. Just don't rush,they need to be really sure before leapingGood luck!:) IP: Logged |
KarmicMoon
Knowflake Posts: 98
From: Moon, Milky Way
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 21, 2014 08:32 PM
I wouldn't worry about it too much. If he really likes you he is probably secretly pleased! Just back off for a bit and let him come to you.IP: Logged |
KarmicMoon
Knowflake Posts: 98
From: Moon, Milky Way
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 21, 2014 08:40 PM
You can't rush a Virgo/Cancer, they need to analyze and re-analyze before actually making a decision. It doesn't mean he doesn't like you.IP: Logged |
Insilver
Knowflake Posts: 97
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 21, 2014 10:17 PM
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Originally posted by ScorpioRising29:
Would love your insight on how to (re)seduce this Virgo. = )
Be a Taurus. Oh good, I see you are one.  I'm Virg Sun, Merc rising and Cancer moon, my guy is Taur Sun, Cancer rising and Leeb moon. He got me by taking it really slow, and letting me know right away that his interest was not platonic. He let me know he lusted for me but wasn't crude about it. He asked lots of questions to find out what I liked and what made me tick. He always dressed and smelled great, made the effort to look polished. He complimented me a lot, still does. He was very very patient when I needed time to process my feelings and gave me space when I needed it. Generous and kind but no doormat. He let me know early on how I affect him physically, again without being crude. It's like he inspired me to chase him in a way but he was the pursuer no question. Oh and neck kisses. Good luck. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 21, 2014 10:47 PM
Clean his house lolIP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 1474
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 21, 2014 10:51 PM
Oh god, that's such a difficult task. Virgos have so much pride, letting themselves being seduced makes them feel fooled. Like, did i just buy into this guy/girl charming ways? Me?!
So at that point they start acting the opposite of what they feel - detached, unimpressed, cold. Yet watching you like a hawk. Face has no emotional expression but eyes move at 360.
It lasts for a certain period of time, but no less than 2 months, and if the chaser keeps pushing, they soon bait it and quite quickly! btw, Do not flirt with someone else while the process of seducing a Virgo is in progress. Like, evah. Not even an eyelash bat at someone else.
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ScorpioRising29
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posted May 21, 2014 11:28 PM
Thank you guys so much.Patience - while a Taurus virtue does not sit well with my Scorpio rising. He knows I like him deeply and I think that's what freaked him out in the first place since he felt that was "too fast." Did I mention that I moved into his apartment building? I (no longer) show up at this door though. = )- Organge: "Face has no emotional expression but eyes move at 360.
It lasts for a certain period of time, but no less than 2 months, and if the chaser keeps pushing, they soon bait it and quite quickly!" This sounds like him! What do you mean bait it? As in they like the chase or you have to stop the chase? Good to know i shouldn't make him jealous...that's way easy to do with a Scorpio rising. FULL disclosure: Not only was he charmed. I was in another relationship so I think he is dealing with a lot of guilt. I am really fing this up aren't I? lol. IP: Logged |
sag_stellium
Knowflake Posts: 368
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 22, 2014 09:36 PM
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Originally posted by ScorpioRising29:
This sounds like him! What do you mean bait it? As in they like the chase or you have to stop the chase?Good to know i shouldn't make him jealous...that's way easy to do with a Scorpio rising. FULL disclosure: Not only was he charmed. I was in another relationship so I think he is dealing with a lot of guilt. I am really fing this up aren't I? lol.
Argh someone please answer her question. The curiosity is killlllling me!  I have an ongoing situation that resembles this pretty closely. IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 1474
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 22, 2014 10:20 PM
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Originally posted by ScorpioRising29:
This sounds like him! What do you mean bait it? As in they like the chase or you have to stop the chase?
They like to be chased. In a confident, persistent way, but not too intensely, because Virgos don't like lunatics. Just show a persistent interest. Alternate it with short periods of detachment. And don't flirt with other guys. Virgos don't like flirty "loose" women. IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 1474
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 22, 2014 10:37 PM
btw, I am a Virgo female and I would push chasers away for two reasons - one would be if I was too attracted, overwhelmed in their presence and I didn't want to seem weak by immediately succumbing to their chase. That's gross to me.
The second reason would be if I was not attracted to them, hence the push from their side makes me gag.
The difference between the two scenarios is that if someone pushes me when I am not attracted to them, I push them away by being cold, and then I tell them how I feel exactly. IP: Logged |
ScorpioRising29
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posted May 22, 2014 11:15 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
btw, I am a Virgo female and I would push chasers away for two reasons - one would be if I was too attracted, overwhelmed in their presence and I didn't want to seem weak by immediately succumbing to their chase. That's gross to me.
Ok. This is him. Lol. Except he already succumbed and now is doing the above. So what's the answer? : ) IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 1474
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 22, 2014 11:46 PM
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Originally posted by ScorpioRising29:
Ok. This is him. Lol. Except he already succumbed and now is doing the above.So what's the answer? : )
If he already succumbed and then tried to push you away, it most likely means he had calculated all pros and cons and deemed the eventual relationship not worthy of his time.
But then again, one never knows whats in his head.. IP: Logged |
sag_stellium
Knowflake Posts: 368
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 23, 2014 12:00 AM
Question. How do we (since we're not inside Venus Virgo's head) distinguish between the below two situations after Venus virgo succumbed? quote:
Originally posted by Orange:
btw, I am a Virgo female and I would push chasers away for two reasons - one would be if I was too attracted, overwhelmed in their presence and I didn't want to seem weak by immediately succumbing to their chase. That's gross to me.
quote:
Originally posted by Orange:
If he already succumbed and then tried to push you away, it most likely means he had calculated all pros and cons and deemed the eventual relationship not worthy of his time.
But then again, one never knows whats in his head..
This is all very interesting btw. Thanks for your help, Orange! And thanks to OP for initiating a topic that interests me IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 1474
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 23, 2014 12:18 AM
Hey ya, SaggyThe difference is that once a Virgo cave in to the chase, aka - succumbs - the cards are out in the open and if they like the whole thing, they stay pretty consistent thereafter. There is no hide and seek anymore. Virgos are pretty honest with their feelings and they would hate to lead someone on if they decide the relationship is not what they want. I can guarantee you that if a Virgo dont want you anymore, it will be quite clear to the point of brutality. IP: Logged |
ScorpioRising29
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Registered: May 2014
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posted May 23, 2014 01:14 AM
Interesting. My Virgo in question actually flip flopped quite a bit even after giving in, ending it with he doesnt want to date for at least 6 months...I.e...said I should not jump from one relationship to another. Presumtous little Virgo he is. : )IP: Logged |
Kate August
Knowflake Posts: 27
From: NYC
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted May 23, 2014 10:12 AM
Here's how to seduce a Virgo:1: Dress well, not necessarily expensively, but in a pulled-together way. 2: Good hygiene and smell good. 3: Emphasize how hard working you are. 4. Give sincere compliments. Your little Virgo will eat it up. 5. Don't criticize!! 6. With the Virgo/Cancer combo show what a stable person you are and how much you enjoy security. 7. Be ready to have to work a bit to get them out of a grumpy mood. I say if you can hook this one, this is a good catch! IP: Logged |
MetalAphrodite
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From: Zanguin :3
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 23, 2014 01:56 PM
So, I am talking to a Virgo sun. He seems to be showing interest. When we first met for an informal date, he told me I look like Lilo from Lilo & Stitch, laughed at my reaction, then said it's one of his favorite movies.I was in beast mode(which means like super powered), but I relaxed and I pull away to let him come to me. He was recently sick so I gave him different teas and also sent him pictures of what some of the self care books said to do to treat it. He was teasing me when we went to a hot pot together with our former teacher, making noises to make me laugh. Even when my teacher went to the bathroom and I took a phone call, he was teasing me still and I kept laughing so much that I couldn't say much on the phone. I'm not sure if I made it clear to him I'm interested in getting to know him. He texts me of his own volition and I enjoy his company. He texted me a couple nights ago about finding the perfect place to stargaze, then said last night he will bring a group there the next time he goes. I told him to pick me up when that happens and I want to ride shotgun lol. Taking it slow seemed like a bad thing at first, but if it does develop from a strong, intimate friendship into a relationship, I would enjoy this very much . IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted May 23, 2014 09:41 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
I can guarantee you that if a Virgo dont want you anymore, it will be quite clear to the point of brutality.
I've experienced this and it is so true. He never gave me closure just ignored me to the max! Like I was nobody to him.. Next time i'll take the hint sooner lol
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ash20
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posted May 23, 2014 09:41 PM
*double post*IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted May 24, 2014 11:10 PM
Good info on here. You Virgos gave away too many secrets. lolIP: Logged |
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