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Topic: "Bad" Aspects you'd rather have than not
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amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1948 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 26, 2014 01:41 AM
I have Venus exactly squared Saturn and Uranus, which are exactly conjunct, all at critical degrees. I like it, my love life has been pretty interesting.IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 784 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 26, 2014 06:50 AM
I don't hate most of my "bad" aspects. I have moon square Pluto and it really only gets in the way with my mother who also has it. We just can't seem to work this out. The "bad" ones that I like are Venus in Scorpio. Still don't understand why that's "bad" and sun conj Neptune. Sure it makes me me a bit vague about what I want to "be". But I think it also makes me creative, dreamy and a bit different. The one placement I really hate is Mars in Libra. I can always see both sides of everything which makes it crazy difficult to pick a direction. Combined with the sun/Nept, it makes me sort of drift around without a rudder. It's not terrible. But I feel guilty sometimes that I'm not particularly driven towards a specific goal/direction. IP: Logged |
Celestica Knowflake Posts: 268 From: Los Angeles, California Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 27, 2014 11:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect: In my chart: -Sun conjunct Chiron -Mercury square Uranus (I would want it tighter than my 8-orb)
Agreed wholeheartedly. Mercury sq. Uranus is fantastic, I enjoy my sq. to Neptune as well. IP: Logged |
Taineberry Knowflake Posts: 795 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted May 28, 2014 05:08 PM
In spite of all the trouble that my hard aspects bring, I kind of like them, because (ever the optimist) I am convinced they are responsible for pushing me out of my lazy unthoughtful ways and into a more insightful and purposeful existence:-) LikeMoon conjunct neptune. Challenge to transform over sensitivity and idealism into creative imagination and spiritual responsiveness. Moon/Neptune square Saturn - challenge to transform self consciousness and self judgement into more realistic self assessment and disciplined emotional responses. Mercury square Saturn...challenge to transform inhibitions in communication (shyness) into discpilining the mind to gain confidence to express self. Venus square Saturn challenge to transform rejection and unworthiness into forming more realistic expectations from relationships and improved self reliance. Mars opposite Saturn - challenge to transform feeling incapable or prevented from taking action into putting in the effort needed to become competent in what you are doing. Uranus opposite Saturn - challenge to transform tendency to rebel against rules into capacity to work innovatively within the rules. Mars conjunct Uranus - challenge to transform erratic energy levels into bursts of innovative and creative focal areas. Sun square Pluto - challenge to transform anger arising from personal drama into understanding the processes which underpin this to release negative patterns. I also got moon opp Venus, moon opp merc, Neptune opp Venus, Neptune opp merc ..... same approach as above. Yeah... this is all a work in progress, but my hard aspects give me some great imperfections to improve upon. You know what they say... how can you truly understand good/light/positive if you have not also experienced bad/dark/negative? You cannot appreciate how good a good wine is unless you have also tasted bad ones. Its all relative. Hard aspects give us the contrasting experiences and insight to be more thoughtful about how we conduct ourselves, as consequences are always bad if we don't learn to consciously understand and improve the way we deal with blending our inner energies.
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Taineberry Knowflake Posts: 795 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted May 28, 2014 05:19 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 41373 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 30, 2014 02:20 PM
The challenging ones balance out my Trines. IP: Logged |
moonram Knowflake Posts: 201 From: Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted May 30, 2014 03:37 PM
I struggle with Sun square Neptune.IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 30, 2014 04:07 PM
Actually I am of the opinion that if a couple is able to show some of those points in their synastry but apart from that the synastry lacks the other Points it would be a "drawn-to-each-other" relationship but not a happy union.I saw this several times: a couples makes some great sun/moon aspects to each other's charts and some great "passion" aspects can be noted as well and maybe even some Saturn aspects are included but the relationship is never fulfilling to neither of them. It never works IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 28 From: Registered: May 2014
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posted May 30, 2014 07:35 PM
My mars in being held prisoner and in solitary confinement by venus (late in Tau, late in 7th, and no aspects)... Might have a little more energy if it touched something...IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp Knowflake Posts: 217 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 30, 2014 08:18 PM
I have Sun conjunct Uranus--and I LOVE who much it gives me a want for independence and freedom--makes me want to try new things all the time-which keeps my life pretty darn interesting.IP: Logged |
fishbull11 Knowflake Posts: 32 From: depths Registered: May 2014
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posted June 06, 2014 07:12 PM
Moon square mars both in passion signs (cancer/aries), I forever f*ck me kind of combo, most of the rest of my chart I can readily deal with though.IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Moderator Posts: 1836 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 06, 2014 08:13 PM
If I move uranus from 6th, I might not have a job at all. 2-3 diff jobs a year is better than none. ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
iliketurtles Knowflake Posts: 314 From: 2099 Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 06, 2014 11:18 PM
mars square pluto mars conjunct descendant they are the only two "bad" aspects i really struggle with. i have a love/hate relationship with my cap asc but i can handle it most of the time...IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 41373 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 07, 2014 10:04 PM
I figure they're there for a reason, so...IP: Logged |
Astrohippiegirl Knowflake Posts: 39 From: atlanta, ga, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 07, 2014 11:29 PM
I hate having Moon square Venus!!!IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 41373 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 09, 2014 11:14 AM
I don't have any that are unbearable.IP: Logged |