posted May 23, 2014 10:42 PM            

"If this is a relationship between a male and female - then first look for the male's birth Eros conjuncting the female's birth Psyche. This even appears to work with sign conjunctions which aren't in orb. In my experience, finding this cross aspect between lovers is fairly rare... at the same time, finding a double whammy between family members seems to be fairly common (which is sort of a spooky thought, but consistent with many of the differing theories on reincarnation)."

If you read more about soulmates, soul families, and reincarnation you'll get more insight on your question. A popular theory is that we incarnate with the same souls over and over sometimes playing a different role in different incarnations. Your mother could have been your past life husband. Discomforting to think about, right!? Lol

Here's a good read on the subject: http://www.reincarnationcentral.com/article1009.html

posted May 24, 2014 02:57 PM            

Her psyche opposes my uranus and jupiter exact and jupiter is my chart ruler and strongest aspect in my chart. Her mars opposes my venus and mars tightly by 2 and 3 orbs and her venus opposes widely my venus and mars. Her ascendant opposes my ascendant by 1 orb.

I have a lot of karma with her; her NN conjucts my moon and my moon is part of a tsquare.

I am thinking she was destined to be my mom in this life to work out karma and was my sister in a past life. I am thinking that our relationship as sisters was very competitive maybe?? Perhaps we liked the same guy and even though we loved each other the competitiveness was stronger or we were very different and had a lot of arguments and felt at opposite sides politically so even though we were sisters we were in a way enemies..........????

posted May 24, 2014 03:34 PM            

My psyche conjuncts my ex's Sun exact and his psyche conjuncts my NN by 1 orb. My vertex conjuncts his NN exact. Also my ex SN conjuncts exact my draconic Juno and geo Antivertex so I think we were married in a past life. ALSO his EROS conjuncts my ascendant by 3 orbs and my Uranus and Jupiter by 1 orb.

My mom's psyche opposes my most important aspect in my chart; Jupiter conjunct Uranus exact and conjuncts my DC by 4 orbs.

My most meaningful friendship from childhood who I still keep in touch with has psyche conjunct my sun by one orb and his juno conjuncts my SN by 5 orbs. He has eros in scorpio and I have psyche in scorpio but they don't conjunct. My eros conjuncts his venus by 1 orb though. I think we were married in a past life too.

I met someone recently who I like as a friend whose juno conjuncts by one orb my SN and we have a great composite...I have noticed that GEO juno conjuncting GEO SN feels really comfortable and familiar like we have always known each other and are just picking up were we left off but there is no interest to form a relationship further than friendship; it does not feel right. Perhaps bc it already has been done and the karma was worked out and going back would not help either of us continue growing and moving forward as we need to. His psyche also conjuncts my NN by 3 orbs.

posted May 24, 2014 04:04 PM            

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Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
I have Eros and cupido conjunct psyche, vertex conjunct NN, descendant ruler conjunct ascendant, destinn conjunct descendant, union conjunct Juno, with one of my closest cousins. Been BFFs since forever.

I have lots of Juno contacts with my family as well.

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Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

My dad's juno conjuncts by 5 orbs my sun, my sister's juno conjuncts exact my mercury!

I am my only dad's biological daughter so he is very committed to me as my father.

My mom's juno sextiles exact my sun, grandpa's juno trines my moon by 1 orb and his juno conjuncts exact my mother's NN and he adopted her and my mom is his only daughter.

I am seeing juno is involved with families but perhaps mainly with the sun, moon, and mercury since sun represents father typically, moon mother typically and perhaps grandparents as well and mercury siblings/cousins/ants/uncles...perhaps mercury is siblings and extended family...

I guess juno is like devotion and commitment..

My husband's juno conjuncts exact my sun.

posted May 24, 2014 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
My mom's northnode conjuncts my moon in the 4th by one orb and my mom's southnode conjuncts my mercury by 3 orbs.

Her psyche opposes my uranus and jupiter exact and jupiter is my chart ruler and strongest aspect in my chart. Her mars opposes my venus and mars tightly by 2 and 3 orbs and her venus opposes widely my venus and mars. Her ascendant opposes my ascendant by 1 orb.

I have a lot of karma with her; her NN conjucts my moon and my moon is part of a tsquare.

I am thinking she was destined to be my mom in this life to work out karma and was my sister in a past life. I am thinking that our relationship as sisters was very competitive maybe?? Perhaps we liked the same guy and even though we loved each other the competitiveness was stronger or we were very different and had a lot of arguments and felt at opposite sides politically so even though we were sisters we were in a way enemies..........????

Great topic!

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Isn't it so interesting to find these links with family members, and speculate how things may have been in a previous life.

I have a 5 year old son. His moon conjunct my SN and moon (0, 3), vertex conjunct destinn, destinn conjunct angel and karma, saturn conjunct karma, valentine conjunct my sun/ascendant, valentine trine moon (0), psyche conjunct moon. All these aspects are 2 degrees to exact. It seems we have karma too, but it's mostly good.

posted May 24, 2014 04:45 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:

I am seeing juno is involved with families but perhaps mainly with the sun, moon, and mercury since sun represents father typically, moon mother typically and perhaps grandparents as well and mercury siblings/cousins/ants/uncles...perhaps mercury is siblings and extended family...

I guess juno is like devotion and commitment..

I guess juno conjuncts SN by itself just means meaningful devoted relationship from a past life and other indicators can show the nature of it.

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These are good points! I never really thought about it like that!

posted May 24, 2014 05:03 PM            

When I try to see past life connections with exes or my current partner I see a repetitive pattern of Saturn (usually my Saturn) aspects and it makes me think I was perhaps a father figure to them.

When I check my connections with family members they actually seem more like past life love connections. I have a lot of Venus and Juno connections with them.

posted May 24, 2014 05:06 PM            

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Originally posted by whaaat:
My father's South Node is at 1 degree Cap, and my NN is also at 1 degree Cap. He's supposed to be more evolved in theory, but I seem to be the one evolving in this lifetime (if the Buddhist moral ideals are to be used as the ultimate goal, then he's failing miserably)...

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Lucky...I have not experienced this aspect yet...

I found this description online for this aspect you have with your father:
South Node conjunct North Node in Synastry: The South Node represents “where we’ve been,” while the North Node represents “where we’re going.” This synastry aspect indicates each person has developed the traits and qualities the other needs for their personal growth. As such, this is a very significant synastry connection. The two of you have met before, and will meet again. This bond is considered “unbreakable” to many astrologers. Personally, I have this aspect with my mother, and she is my soul mate, best friend, and confidant, forever and always.

Do you feel the bond you have with your dad is unbreakable?

posted May 24, 2014 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by whaaat:
My father's South Node is at 1 degree Cap, and my NN is also at 1 degree Cap. He's supposed to be more evolved in theory, but I seem to be the one evolving in this lifetime (if the Buddhist moral ideals are to be used as the ultimate goal, then he's failing miserably)...

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Some people were too good in a past life and now need to come in this life to have fun and perhaps that is the case with your father....I dont know the details, perhaps he is failing miserably and will have to come back and repeat.

Check out his karma asteroid...but with cancer as NN he works too hard and is too career oriented so he needs to learn to be more involved with his family life and balance out the excessive focus on career and advancement. He also needs to learn to let himself feel vulnerable.

posted May 24, 2014 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:

Do you feel the bond you have with your dad is unbreakable?

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More like inescapable

Just kidding lol. I mean he shaped who I am, but considering who he is...I wouldn't say that's a good thing :/ I feel like we share the same (bad) Karma so I do feel as though the key to my spiritual development is through working with him like a team.

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posted May 24, 2014 05:31 PM            

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Originally posted by whaaat:
More like inescapable

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omg this made me laugh so hard! Thanks for this. I feel the same way about my mother, yay.

posted May 25, 2014 12:39 AM            

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Originally posted by whaaat:
More like inescapable

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LMAO..very cute. I feel like this right now...

Man speaking of karmic parent relationships....

I always try to focus on the positive with my mom but we are soo freaking different...I really dont like her...

I care for her but I can't stand her too....

I like her from a distance and I feel bad but its the truth....we are too different....

Everything revolves around religion with her...Its' so annoying...and like I get along with a lot of people who belief no problem but she always squeezes god into every conversation bc she can't give up on the fact that I will never belief in what she beliefs in....

I know that I have karma with her but.....

Am I the one that owes her debt?? or is it the other way around? why was she destined to be my mother? I feel like I am the one that is trying to make her realize things, for as long as I can remember I have been trying to get her in touch with herself and then I realized she was never going to change and just accepted she is the way she is but upon looking up "her NN conjunct my moon" description, I found:

"The Moon person expresses qualities that the North Node person, on a subconscious level, needs to develop in order to grow spiritually."

I have moon in pisces in the 4th square neptune in the first and neptune rules my 4th.

So karma revolving religion and spirituality! so she is suppose to grow spiritually by learning from me? She does see something in me that is spiritual that she admires in some way bc she brings it up

She turned me off to religion, I am spiritual in my own way: metaphysics, astrology, Buddhism, reincarnation, reflecting, meditating, and just having faith that things will work out...but that is it, very simple (no rituals, no sermons, no going to church, praying 29 times a day or invoking the holy spirit)...not how she approaches spirituality (its too much and I am not interested in that, I dont like it). I am more interested in becoming a monk than a nun or how she approaches spirituality.

I dont know how I am suppose to absolve the karma with my mother...Am I suppose to teach her tolerance? to teach her to let others believe what they want to believe? I have taught her that to some extent as she has had to improve significantly in that way but not fully, the compulsion is still there.......she still wants to "convert me" and just does not really let go, not fully, not truly, not all the way.

Was I a witch in a past life or something and she was part of the Spanish inquisition? Intellectually in two different sides and now we are suppose to learn to coexist?

and I am coexisting..but geez....argh!

her DNA conjuncts my SN as well by 3 minutes, so yeah looks like we were sisters or brother and sister or aunt and niece.....something mercurial...since my mercury conjuncts her SN.

Anyways sorry I have unloaded on you! just talking it out helps me process all this and get somewhere a little further....