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Topic: Is my Scorpio man gone..?
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Yanmorg
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posted May 30, 2014 12:24 AM
  
http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_621gw_01_03_ayana_morgan_isaah_he.51786.35327.gif&res=100&va=&cid=7qxfilebWvO7U-u1349894290 Here's our composite chart.
But I am currently involved with a Scorpio guy and I am a Scorpio female. Anyway, what happened was, a guy from facebook called me whils we were spending time together. I gave the facebook guy my number when we were having problems and the Scorpio man ended things with me over an argument. I explained this to him after an awkward phone conversation with guy while my Scorpio guy heard the whole thing. We aren't offivially together and he has made that clear as much as possible, but I still feel like I've betrayed him. Shortly after that whole awkward scene, he said he would call me later and that he had to go. Is he gond for good? Should he be upset with me? Should I even feel bad? He hasn't made me his girlfriend and it's been 5 months. He has Venus (retrograde) trine Saturn (retrograde) natally with Venus in his 8th house and Saturn in his 12th house. He has Venus in Scorpio and Saturn in Pisces.
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Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 311
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 30, 2014 01:07 AM
You need to show him that you didnt mean to betray him and try to see if he will forgive you be consistent and even if he blows you off show him that your not going to give up if he doesnt forgive you than it might be over but try your best! I kno from experience i messed things up with my ex who had a scorpio stellium and scorpio venus they can love you very hard and intense but if they dont forgive you they will forget about you. :/IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted May 30, 2014 07:21 AM
Now that I have analyzed the situation, I don't think I should try to convince him that I didn't betray him. It's partially his fault. Number one, he still hasn't made it official so if he ends things, it'll only be helping me out because I deserve someone who's going to put in 100%. I told him before he left that I gave the guy my number when we were having issues. I didn't do anything wrong. The phone conversation was just awkward and it was bad timing so it just ended up being a bad situation. I never actually betrayed him. If he has common sense, he will understand that. Plus, I've told him before that I won't give up on him, but I won't wait on him either.IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 454
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 30, 2014 07:44 AM
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
Now that I have analyzed the situation, I don't think I should try to convince him that I didn't betray him. It's partially his fault. Number one, he still hasn't made it official so if he ends things, it'll only be helping me out because I deserve someone who's going to put in 100%. I told him before he left that I gave the guy my number when we were having issues. I didn't do anything wrong. The phone conversation was just awkward and it was bad timing so it just ended up being a bad situation. I never actually betrayed him. If he has common sense, he will understand that. Plus, I've told him before that I won't give up on him, but I won't wait on him either.
Bravo! You just won over a fan. I love it when people take back their power instead of grovelling on the feet of disgruntled boyfriends to forgive their "shortcomings" etc.  IP: Logged |
sag_stellium
Knowflake Posts: 373
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 30, 2014 10:31 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Bravo! You just won over a fan. I love it when people take back their power instead of grovelling on the feet of disgruntled boyfriends to forgive their "shortcomings" etc.
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Melodie
Knowflake Posts: 80
From: USA
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted May 30, 2014 11:19 AM
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
Now that I have analyzed the situation, I don't think I should try to convince him that I didn't betray him. It's partially his fault. Number one, he still hasn't made it official so if he ends things, it'll only be helping me out because I deserve someone who's going to put in 100%. I told him before he left that I gave the guy my number when we were having issues. I didn't do anything wrong. The phone conversation was just awkward and it was bad timing so it just ended up being a bad situation. I never actually betrayed him. If he has common sense, he will understand that. Plus, I've told him before that I won't give up on him, but I won't wait on him either.
Good, respect yourself. If he's made it clear on multiple occasions that you guys are not official, he has no right to throw a hissy fit. Can have his cake and eat it too...
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Yanmorg
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posted May 30, 2014 11:25 AM
I ended up explaining the whole situation to him, but I still feel like he's going to use his Scorpio stinger later on once all is forgotten. I know how this thing goes and I'm worried that although we came to an understanding and everything, he might store this away and use it later for his benefit. I still feel like I betrayed him though. I feel bad. It probably has something to do with all that Neptune in our synastry and composite chart. I presented myself to him and Miss Perfect unintentionally and now that this happened, I feel like I let him down in a way. He says he's not upset and everything is fine, but I'm skeptical about believing that only because he's a Scorpio and so am I.IP: Logged |
3333
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted May 30, 2014 01:35 PM
Dear fellow Scorpio friend  He might feels betrayed
by you and thats why he has this cold behaviour on you.When a Scorpio is hurt by someone(or feel that someone is hurting them)especially from persons that he/she loves then he will feel so horrible that he might avoid that person and generally be away from him/her for a while to show his disapointment.The only thing you have to do is to prove to him that you are actually dont want to hurt him...and generall use your own scorpio guns But i think this is temporary but if its not then you should prove to him that he is doing wrong.P.S scorpio also loves honesty 
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Yanmorg
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 30, 2014 01:46 PM
His distant behavior came before that incident. He is stressed about a lot and I'm guessing his silence is caused by the constant flow of thoughts going through his head at the moment. I just hope I didn't lose his faith in me. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted May 30, 2014 01:51 PM
I just hope he doesn't doubt my intentions from this point forward. That's my biggest concern because he has no reason to doubt my intentions. I feel like that whole event was fated after looking at my natal chart with the transits. Venus just started transiting my 12th house and it is currently opposing my moon, mercury, Venus, and Jupiter at the moment. Transiting Neptune is also opposing my natal moon today so maybe I'm overanalyzing and overreacting about the whole situation.IP: Logged |
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