posted May 31, 2014 05:27 AM            

Personally, I don't like public displays of affection. When I'm out with friends I like to be out having fun with everyone and not clinging to my BF/love interest. I'm not cold per se. Probably more playful. It's the difference between our moons. His Gemini moon is probably colder.

posted May 31, 2014 07:36 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I am the same as him except I have a Sag moon.

Personally, I don't like public displays of affection. When I'm out with friends I like to be out having fun with everyone and not clinging to my BF/love interest. I'm not cold per se. Probably more playful. It's the difference between our moons. His Gemini moon is probably colder.

If this is a new thing it's probably more likely to happen. When it gets to be more serious he'll probably be more willing to be closer to you. It just takes time.

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posted May 31, 2014 07:40 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
AND a Virgo Mars to boot....sigh. Them Virgos are hard nuts to crack. I know. I have never met a cold Sag-anything or a cold Gemini-anything. I think it's his Venus and Mars acting up in public..I have a Virgo Mars and I hate PDA!!!!

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posted May 31, 2014 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by 3333:

Well he is a little bit shy to be honest until yesterday i personally thought that he doesnt like me even as a friend but now i think i might misunderstand him,i was almost ready to talk to him and ask him whats wrong but now i think its all ok well that thing happens a couple of times...thats why i feel so complicated with all this situation :/

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Oh, I forgot the Virgo Mars. I don't have that.

If you talk to him that's great. But don't accuse him or try to make him change. If he feels you're trying to take away his freedom he will run. He has to make the change himself.

Tell him you understand he likes to be with his friends but you'd like a bit of reassurance every now and then. Tell him how you feel (I feel lonely, I feel a bit neglected, I want time with you too, etc) not what he is doing is wrong (don't do this, don't do that).

If that makes sense.

posted June 01, 2014 08:01 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Oh, I forgot the Virgo Mars. I don't have that.

If you talk to him that's great. But don't accuse him or try to make him change. If he feels you're trying to take away his freedom he will run. He has to make the change himself.

Tell him you understand he likes to be with his friends but you'd like a bit of reassurance every now and then. Tell him how you feel (I feel lonely, I feel a bit neglected, I want time with you too, etc) not what he is doing is wrong (don't do this, don't do that).

If that makes sense.

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posted June 01, 2014 09:14 AM            

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Originally posted by 3333:

Actually i dont want to change him...besides if you love someone you should accept him just they he/she is i just cant figure out why when we are alone his so friendly but when we are with other persons he pretends that i dont exist or at least he talks very typical and cold to me and with the others is so friendly :/

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I agree but I just meant that it shouldn't come across as you want to change him. Not that you do want to change him. Sags can be very sentive to critism and especially to any notion that someone may be trying to change them.

I've done the same and really, there is no reason for it when I do. Just because I don't like PDA, I like to keep the details of my private life private and when I'm hanging with friends I like to hang with friends not be all over my BF. Maybe he thinks similarly.

Talk to him about it. Again, openly and non judgmentally. He might not realize he is doing it or he might tell you way.

Good luck!

posted June 01, 2014 10:10 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I agree but I just meant that it shouldn't come across as you want to change him. Not that you do want to change him. Sags can be very sentive to critism and especially to any notion that someone may be trying to change them.

I've done the same and really, there is no reason for it when I do. Just because I don't like PDA, I like to keep the details of my private life private and when I'm hanging with friends I like to hang with friends not be all over my BF. Maybe he thinks similarly.

Talk to him about it. Again, openly and non judgmentally. He might not realize he is doing it or he might tell you way.

Good luck!

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