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posted May 31, 2014 01:40 PM            

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Piggybacking off of KarmicMoon

How has it been to be interested in/involved with someone with this placement? Do you find them to be quite vulnerable and sensitive in their love nature? Or is it along the lines of being a challenge to even grasp them?

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posted May 31, 2014 03:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Plutonian_Gal8:
Piggybacking off of KarmicMoon

How has it been to be interested in/involved with someone with this placement? Do you find them to be quite vulnerable and sensitive in their love nature? Or is it along the lines of being a challenge to even grasp them?

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well, along with my natal Venus in 11H, I have a pVenus in 12H; plus a stellium incl Asc, and I TEND to float on waves of imaginary love....I somehow like to "access" other people's brains and "view" them from inside out and that is something so deep and haunting that reality can't catch up. It's as if I am standing, as a shadow, right behind you and follow your every move, and breath, and I "see you" from there, but when you turn around, you are so ugly that I am left with no other choice but to walk away.

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posted May 31, 2014 08:15 PM            

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Wow Charlie!!!

Interestingly put, yet sounds pretty much like a Neptunian veil!

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posted May 31, 2014 11:05 PM            

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Venus, Moon and NN in the 12th, Venus in a t-square with Saturn and Neptune. It's impossible for me to isolate just one aspect without the others. I am very sensitive and emotional. I try not to show my feeling because I am terrified of rejection. I'll never say I love you first, for example. When I fall in love I fall hard. I over idealize my partner while believing I will never be good enough to measure up to their expectations. I tend to get caught up in my emotions. I'm a die hard romantic. I live a lot of my life in a fantasy. I can be a little dramatic(Venus in Leo).

I believe I have karma regarding love to deal with in this lifetime.

I've had one relationship with someone else with Venus in the 12th (cj my NN). He was more the 'cheater' type of Venus in the 12th. He would never admit it but he was shut off from his emotions.

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posted May 31, 2014 11:35 PM            

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Originally posted by KarmicMoon:

I've had one relationship with someone else with Venus in the 12th (cj my NN). He was more the 'cheater' type of Venus in the 12th. He would never admit it but he was shut off from his emotions.

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Do you remember what his venus was? It just hit me that, I am kinda curious if the sign it's in, may have something to do with how inclined someone with venus in 12h to cheat…

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posted May 31, 2014 11:39 PM            

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Originally posted by KarmicMoon:
I am very sensitive and emotional. I try not to show my feeling because I am terrified of rejection. I'll never say I love you first, for example. When I fall in love I fall hard. I over idealize my partner while believing I will never be good enough to measure up to their expectations. I tend to get caught up in my emotions. I'm a die hard romantic. I live a lot of my life in a fantasy.

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Wondering if my guy friend with Venus, Moon and Mars contours to what you've described. Neptune is his Chart Ruler actually, and while we were being "just friends" he had been very much into catering to his now ex-wife. Like, it was nauseating sometimes to see him do that. Held her up on this high pedestal, doted on her in a way I've never seen a man do - yet he had affairs. And the world would've never conceived that possibility, had he not got caught!

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posted June 01, 2014 12:23 AM            

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Oh yes, i remember, his Venus was in Pisces. The 12th house Venus is supposed to be the cheater, i guess because the 12th house is hidden. You said your guys chart ruler is Neptune so I assume he is Pisces rising? Putting someone on a pedastal while cheatiing on them could be 12th house, what else aspects his Venus?

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posted June 01, 2014 12:25 AM            

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I have cap venus in the 12th. I'd say that I'm sensitive. Vulnerable - I am but not really. Like I don't make an effort to hide most of my vulnerabilities.

In romantic relationships I'm pretty straightforward. Always voice my displease and don't hold affection back. But yeah sometimes there are people who project their illusions onto me - see me as something I'm not (often a better, more ideal image).

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posted June 01, 2014 01:50 AM            

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I have Rx Venus and Mercury in the 12th house in Aquarius. I'm very sensitive and vulnerable, I hardly fall in love but when I do it's very strong. The 12th house makes me a dreamer, I think I'm more in love before things start to happen and I need a man who will excite my mind. My AC in Pisces makes me look for a totally dreamy partner that at the end of the day will take me to another place mentally, making me forget all my worries, so my 12th house is really strong. Aquarius makes me hard sometimes, being extra straight forward, needing my partner to be my best friend too, and Rx makes me reject easily people I think they dont match with me. Isolation for long periods is also a characteristic of a Rx Venus.
One last thing, a Venus in the 12th house keeps her feelings hidden from the world, and usually is afraid to show fellings to the one he/she loves. We usually want the others to make the first move, so we don't feel humiliated. (I'm a Capricorn btw)

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