posted June 02, 2014 07:31 PM            

It's like a blurred line of intense/passion/emotion. When do you call "it" which?

posted June 02, 2014 07:32 PM            

Like cancer suns...

posted June 02, 2014 07:40 PM            

My venus falls in my 5th house.

posted June 02, 2014 07:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Is it even possible lol? What house is it in? What's your definition of intense? Other water venuses or those who've witnessed are welcome to join in.

Mine is in the 1st followed by the lovely Cancer Mars(meh) and I honestly don't feel that I am that intense(or am I DeepFreeze lol). I'm emotional when in love but it's more like a guardian type of emotion. I feel like I need to have that persons back regardless of how little the situation may be, and even when it doesn't involve me. What I think is intense may not be for someone else so I'm curious.

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Hey- it could be worse: my dad has Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Pisces. I would pick Cancer if I had to choose between the two of them.

He's not an intense guy at all, just super strict (Virgo moon- meh).

posted June 02, 2014 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
Im Scorpio Venus followed by Cancer mars tightly conjunct ascendant

My venus falls in my 5th house.

Im all of nothing. Not really obsessive or a emotional roller coaster, im emotionally stable and realistic... but still, all or nothing.

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posted June 02, 2014 07:56 PM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Hey- it could be worse: my dad has Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Pisces. I would pick Cancer if I had to choose between the two of them.

He's not an intense guy at all, just super strict (Virgo moon- meh).

Edit: no offense Virgo moons, I like you, but you infringe upon my Aqua sun too much at times

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posted June 02, 2014 08:47 PM            

You would probably be more intense than a Libra with a Libra Venus.. or Virgo Venus or Sagittarius Venus.

I'm very familiar with Libra/Scorpio energy - specially Scorpio Mercury and/or Venus because I attract many people in my life with this combination.

posted June 02, 2014 08:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
It's nice to see you back Barbie!!

You would probably be more intense than a Libra with a Libra Venus.. or Virgo Venus or Sagittarius Venus.

I'm very familiar with Libra/Scorpio energy - specially Scorpio Mercury and/or Venus because I attract many people in my life with this combination.

Personally I sense their intensity, by contrast with others. I'm very put off by superficial people who can't experience strong emotion... I have Venus opp Pluto in natal..
The "intensity" from my perspective is just an ability to *love* in a very real way, no holds barred. Scorpio Venus is not scared of falling in love, like many others.. and they're not scared of sex.
I basically see Scorpio as fearless energy.. wherever it is in the chart.. So, Scorpio Venus would be fearless in love.

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posted June 02, 2014 10:22 PM            

My impression is that Scorpio Venus likes the "Edward/Bella" obsessive love of Twilight. And that appeals very much to some, but to me it's a nightmare (a literal one at that, I once had a horrid nightmare Edward was obsessed with me instead of Bella and I couldn't escape him, it was worse than my usual vampire nightmares as the usual vampires have vulnerabilities and weaknesses to exploit).

But my partner, while intense, has demanded certain things from me in some ways (and as long as I do then she gives me breathing space) but she has adapted to something that works for me. It was only very unusual circumstances--I'm talking butterfly effect worthy, countless circumstances mixing to create a completely unexpected outcome--that allowed it to happen at all. And if I didn't know astrology so that I was able to make a "treaty" so to speak that we could both live with I doubt we'd be together now because it got off to a VERY rocky start.

That intensity is still a cause of conflict on one subject (though one that has a few years before it really comes to a head, and then I don't know what will happen, I'm willing to play it by ear and cross that bridge when we come to it) but she would not tolerate me talking about that on the net, not even anonymously. She does like her secrets and my conscience won't let me say more. I feel certain that a Scorpio Venus wouldn't be able to understand why this one thing is so important to me anyway, or why it was even an issue.

posted June 02, 2014 11:02 PM            

I honestly thought I'd be single for a loooong time and still can't believe that I'm married now. I am also extremely secretive and private when it comes to certain things being said online and even in real life. He and I wrote our own vows and I was so nervous about crying and being too personal in front of everyone and of course I boohooed like a baby, even made his sisters, mom and nieces cry. So I absolutely can relate to how she feels. I'm not one to make out or be too lovey with him in front of other people, I'd rather whisper things to him and secretly kiss him when they're gone.

posted June 03, 2014 04:34 AM            

I also have a Libra stellium and Libra's scales can get out of whack pretty easy unless there's balance. And that includes being social at times and alone at others, among other things. Having someone demand too much of my time and energy throws my scales out of whack, and such a Libra is not pleasant to be around. Heck, I post here from my own private room, though I don't usually sleep in this room (I've always had a room for myself). I maintain a home for others but in this one room I set it up exactly as I like it and it's generally a sanctuary (simplistically speaking). And I don't have to worry about disturbing anyone else here, or them reading over my shoulder, or anything like that (though I do invite others in sometimes, but it's understood that if I have the door about closed that one doesn't just walk in).

And though I'm monogamous, I also understand there are many forms of love (something our society has forgotten but even the Ancient Greeks defined pretty well). And it's not just that, I need stimulation from still more people, and sometimes I need that stimulation on my own.

I believe I'd die for my partner (just not going to be absolutely sure until that moment of truth arrives as many glibly say they would but reconsider when it's time to actually do it), but also my BFF and a handful of others. Heck, I once ran out in front of a car to save my cat risking that they'd stop for me, which happened, but knowing if I didn't then my cat would be run over for sure.

Though I'm the most romantic with my current partner than I've ever been with anyone before because my partner's chart demands it. And I do not begrudge it, it's enjoyable and also sincere (though my love was just as sincere with previous partners that I was less romantic with). But there's no way I could or would "forget the rest of the world existed" for long (though such moments of "blissful forgetfulness" do happen and are enjoyable) or otherwise anchored myself to one person so that I couldn't maintain balance.

No matter how good a food is, if it's constant then it gets old. Again, it's nothing against monogamy, I'm not talking about "needing to see other people sexually/romantically" (as some people insist on seeing it because "only romantic love" exists to them where all others are more in the background, but that's not how it works for me), and it's not just love either, I need all sorts of interaction and ability to connect with the world and community. Perhaps it's better to explain it as I live HERE, but I'd hate to be here 24/7 (that would turn a beloved home into a prison) and love getting out to visit other homes and just to enjoy the fresh air, and sometimes I love hiking with others and other times I want to hike by myself and that doesn't mean I love others any less at those times and it certainly doesn't mean I'm mad or upset with them (though I would be if I wasn't allowed to go hike by myself when I wanted to). But my home is still HERE...even if I did go to Texas for a couple of months when Granny suffered a pulmonary embolism (and it would've been been futile to try stopping me).

posted June 03, 2014 06:13 AM            

But I want my freedom to be an individual and I want them to have it too. So definitely not the Edward/Bella thing. There is no "merging into one" going on. IYKWIM.

Like was said, I'm protective, stable, caring (to a select few), sensitive (to a select few), totally loyal, I want to know you love me. But don't smother me and I won't smother you.

posted June 03, 2014 06:17 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I think too much emotion scares me off. lol Or maybe I just mean sensitivity.

Like cancer suns...

I really like em but whoa... Too much for this hombre.

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Oh, yeah! Cancer suns. I can't deal...

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Originally posted by Odette:

The "intensity" from my perspective is just an ability to *love* in a very real way, no holds barred. Scorpio Venus is not scared of falling in love, like many others.. and they're not scared of sex.
I basically see Scorpio as fearless energy.. wherever it is in the chart.. So, Scorpio Venus would be fearless in love.

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I'm totally not. If it feels right, I'll do it and then worry about the consequences later. I'm not afraid to love someone even if they don't love me back. I'm not afraid of being hurt. Could be the h12 thing. I don't mind living a tragic love story. LOL.

Though it doesn't happen often and if it does it doesn't last long. My unrequited Taurus crush lasted 9 months. Now I'm totally over him. Next!

posted June 03, 2014 07:05 AM            

I also used to dream of that "all consuming" love. But then, Saturn kicked in and I realized; how ideal would it be really to have a mate who is always simmering? Even when boiling an egg?

In life, you need a companion, not a complex mathematical equation to split your brain trying to assess and figure out.

I like Venus/Mars in Pisces/Cancer folks. They seem to relax me even more to a point where I am this very loving person who is without conscious defenses.

I also adore many Venus in Scorpio people, but I don't think I'd like them as romantic partners. Same with Mars in Scorpio. It gets too hot, too much, too soon.

Many just seem too "fatalistic" and love can break them so deeply when the other party strays.

Many have the approach of "all or nothing" and that's not wise IMO. This "Love" they search for is toxic and can even kill them.

To most, if they don't hurt, they don't feel alive.There must be explosions and high drama in order for it to be "cathartic"?WTF??

You can still be sexy, loving and appealing using rational reserves and moderating the intense approach.

Granted, many have the capabilities of "seeing" into another,but let the person discover what you "know" for themselves.

posted June 03, 2014 07:06 AM            

So not only do I have just the general Venus in Scorpio, but a lot of other intense aspects and placements.

As far as our intensity goes.. I get why people run from it, but then again, I don't because why would you want to?

On a serious note, I don't see marriage as an option for me because as I get older, I notice that most guys (people in general too) just can't match my level of intensity and devotion in relationships. Plus, taking into consideration today's generation..! I wouldn't be surprised if I remained single for the rest of my life.

Ever since I was little most guys would run from me and they still do. Even an intense double Taurus with moon opposition pluto ran from me recently. Once I started learning more about my chart and myself in general, I noticed that maybe my chart as a whole is the issue instead of one placement as far as my relationships go.

I am very, very, very intense.. sometimes it's too much for me to handle so I can imagine how hard it is for a uranian type or someone with a less intense chart.

I do not look at my intensity as a bad thing per se.. I'm just learning to accept it and deal with it.

I do find my intensity sexy and liberating. It's a blessing and a curse!

Learning how to channel that intense energy and/or controlling it will be one of my life lessons I believe..

posted June 03, 2014 12:52 PM            

I hate drama in real life. But I don't mind a bit of romantic drama playing out in my head. LOL. If I were a better writer I would have loved to have been a romance novelist.

posted June 03, 2014 12:58 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
Love these answers! I love how different things manifest some times. But also the similarities.

I hate drama in real life. But I don't mind a bit of romantic drama playing out in my head. LOL. If I were a better writer I would have loved to have been a romance novelist.

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posted June 03, 2014 01:48 PM            

My son is scorpio Venus conjunct Mars by 2 degrees trined his cancer Moon.....whoa, he's intense, needs reassurance that you love him constantly and is a huge cuddle bug that always wants to make you happy.

I do feel for the girl who gets with him because he's SUPER protective and I think a bit jealous to!
He gets mad at guys who look at me, and asks if I'll go yell at them, he's only 9 so he's not willing to it himself, yet! Lol
His saggy Pluto is conjunct his Mercury in his 8th house....they make no aspects to anything else, well except inconjunct his unaspected cancer Saturn.

He thinks it's his responsibility to protect me! I hear him talking like he's mad at them, but he does it under his breath....ya, he's intense!!! Thank God for his saggy!

I've gotten to know a scorpio Venus guy and I think I'm more intense than he is, but his aqua Mars squares his Venus, maybe they block each other out a lot?

posted June 03, 2014 03:23 PM            

Yeah, so he is definitely more reserved and conservative when it comes to romantic things, and doesn't outwardly show his intensity that often. He's also a Sag sun, which makes him a little more on the jovial side. He shows his love more by doing practical service, but thats probably his Virgo moon.

It goes nice though with my mom's Cancer Mars, I really love that she has always emphasized the importance of family and acts very generous and selfless at times.

I'm probably biased as a Pisces moon though.