posted June 06, 2014 03:57 PM            

what aspect could be responsible for this behavior? And what do I do about it? I don't want to lose my friends or my boyfriend, I just wish I could learn how to balance my relationships….?

posted June 06, 2014 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I bet it's your 5th house.

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posted June 06, 2014 04:23 PM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
Venus in Scorp with Pluto in the 5th house you give your all to your partners <3

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posted June 06, 2014 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
Venus in Scorp with Pluto in the 5th house you give your all to your partners <3

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This.

There's no other way to change it than to try to change it.

posted June 06, 2014 04:42 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
This.

There's no other way to change it than to try to change it.

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posted June 06, 2014 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Then try harder, duh

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posted June 06, 2014 05:16 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I'm not expecting you to change within a minute. Just keep on trying.

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I don't think I'm ever going to reach a balance, really. Scorpio venus in 5th house conjunction pluto in 5th house… it seems like a kind of impossible task, cause it's very destructive.

posted June 06, 2014 11:35 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I think I have a big tendency to lose myself in romantic relationships… every time I have a nice relationship with a guy, I completely "forget" to take good care of my friendships… it all feels very superficial then:S
I think it's just because Im in love that I want to spend much time with my boyfriend, but I noticed that I often prefer his company then the company of my friends And when I am together with my friends finally, all I talk about is my boyfriend lol…

what aspect could be responsible for this behavior? And what do I do about it? I don't want to lose my friends or my boyfriend, I just wish I could learn how to balance my relationships….?

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Hmm, no offense but I find women who do this profoundly annoying and then of course when you break up with the boyfriend you go running back to your friends right and then you expect them to be there with open arms after you all but forgotten about them. I understand this is an astrology question, but this is something you REALLY should work on. Unless you have been blessed with the most understanding of friends who don't mind when you forget about them every time a new man rolls into the picture.

Also you're a Virgo woman which is very common with them..

posted June 07, 2014 05:14 AM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
A good way to do it is to try checking in with your friends every few months or so.

Honestly you are virgo with heavy water so it's not like you are that social either

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posted June 07, 2014 05:16 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Hmm, no offense but I find women who do this profoundly annoying and then of course when you break up with the boyfriend you go running back to your friends right and then you expect them to be there with open arms after you all but forgotten about them. I understand this is an astrology question, but this is something you REALLY should work on. Unless you have been blessed with the most understanding of friends who don't mind when you forget about them every time a new man rolls into the picture.

Also you're a Virgo woman which is very common with them..

ETA: I probably shouldn't generalize so much, so I'll just base my opinion on the many Virgo women I know and have known..there

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posted June 07, 2014 05:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Jinni:
May I ask if you are that way even when the relationship progress further? I think it is natural to want to spend all the possible time together with your love interest for the first few months in a relationship. Anyway I still suggest to find time to your friends even when you are not that excited about it and try to speak also other things than your boyfriend even if it is hard. Maintaining relationships requires some effort and if you desire to change your habits no astrological chart can stop you.

Astrologically I agree with previous poster that I have noticed that Virgo women can be that way, some more than others. A friend of mine with a huge virgo stellium is like that in some level that way but when the newness of relationship starts to fade she remembers her friends again and not completely ditch us even in the honeymoon phase.

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