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Liliya
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posted June 07, 2014 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Liliya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What are the aspects it synastry or natal would indicate, when someone always wants to protect you?

For example, I play 1 online game (League Of Legends), where it really depends on a team, and how everyone works together. I've met this player there, who always wants to help/protect me. I don't need it, haha. Obviously, there is no attraction, we have a 17 y.o. difference, he knows about it, he knows my fiancée through playing, but he's almost like my older brother even though he's 13

When I did our synastry, we have Sun/Moon trine DW (<1 degree), we are both Leos, his Venus is in Leo (too far away from my Sun and Mars). Is it his Cancer Mars? Do Cancer Marses feel like helping other all the time? Or is a combo of Leo Sun/Venus and Cancer Mars? It's aspecting a lot of my planets, too, mostly soft aspect.

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Barbiegirl19
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posted June 07, 2014 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is so his cancer mars. Mine is also Cancer and in the 9th. I'm very guilty of being extremely protective of my husband. Even when he doesn't need it I'm always there. I'd do anything for him, I'd die for him. He's turned me into this mushy romantic person lol. I live for helping others. I'd give away my last dollar to someone who needed it. I know when I have children I'll be a total pushover. 😁

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posted June 07, 2014 01:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All the Cancer mars MEN I know just want you to take care of them and they're extremely needy and this is coming from a Scorpio female with Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, AND Pluto in Scorpio. I love Cancer men though. They're stronger than the Cancer mars men.

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fishbull11
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posted June 09, 2014 08:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fishbull11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Its all relative, there are plenty of weaker cancer sun than cancer mars BOYS out there.

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Supreme cT
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posted June 09, 2014 11:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Supreme cT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
All the Cancer mars MEN I know just want you to take care of them and they're extremely needy and this is coming from a Scorpio female with Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, AND Pluto in Scorpio. I love Cancer men though. They're stronger than the Cancer mars men.

Im cancer mars and i dont expect or need anybody to take care of me i have aqua moon and ascendant and scorpio sun you need to take the whole chart into consideration having a cancer mars isnt the end all be all to a persons personality, i actually know a couple other cancer mars and they arent like that either i get annoyed at the bad rep cancer mars gets its just one bad placement out of many other placements in a person chart,besides having other well placed planets can pick up the slack

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KarkaQueen
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posted June 10, 2014 01:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fishbull11:
Its all relative, there are plenty of weaker cancer sun than cancer mars BOYS out there.

Mars in Cancer is FALL, opposite of EXALT. That's really bad.

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PixieJane
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posted June 10, 2014 02:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My cousin is Cancer Mars (and Pisces moon!). Until I got to know his chart I just thought he had an "artistic temperament" (he's a guitarist, though not professionally--he has had paying gigs, however). When he's in a good mood he's a lot of fun to be around (though his humor can get obnoxious at times) but when he's in a bad mood it's best to leave him alone until he shakes it off (I will throw in that he doesn't expect you to take care of him and I wouldn't call him needy). Luckily, his strong Aries & Sag energy helps him vent when he needs to rather than holding grudges, and perhaps helps to blunt certain Cancer aspects.

I blame his Cancer Mars for embracing the "South will rise again" nonsense and love for Dixie flags (not that it offends me, it just exasperates me). In case you're wondering why it's because Cancer tends to be patriotic (and defensive) of a culture he feels apart of.

He'd pick on me but was incredibly protective at the same time. Generally speaking, any slight against a family member was a slight against him and this was doubly so when it came to me. This was more true when we were kids but still remains the case somewhat as adults. I have some real happy memories of him standing up for me and mine as an adult.

But I'm family. I wouldn't expect a Cancer Mars to be protective of someone in a video game, but maybe playing that same game (especially if you're on the same team) then maybe that Cancer aspect of "patriotism" is kicking in. I know many gamers take their games very seriously so that seems plausible to me.

I think Captain Mal Reynolds in Firefly has an equivalent to a Cancer Mars like my cousin:

quote:
Mal: Cut her down!

Patron: The girl is a witch.

Mal: Yeah, but she's our witch. * [KA-CHINK!]* So cut her the hell down.


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Simon: Why did you come back for us?

Mal: You're part of my crew.

Simon: But you don't even like me.

Mal: You're part of my crew. Why are we still discussing this?


quote:
Jayne: What're you takin' it so personal for? It ain't like I ratted you out to the feds!

Mal: Oh, but you did! You turn on any of my crew, you turn on me! But since that's a concept you can't seem to wrap your head around, then you've got no place here. You did it to me, Jayne. And that's a fact.


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posted June 10, 2014 02:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah Cancer Mars will want to protect those they feel are one of their own, of their clan. Their clan is clique-y and members only, and it can hurt if you like them but they don't want to include you :/ sorta sucks, because they tend to be closed minded in that way and just stick to what they know.

Hmm as far as protecting people, I have this neighbor who I keep going to bat for time and again, and his Moon is conjunct my Sun, and his Venus is the same sign as my Mars..also his Sun is conj my Jupiter, which I think helps, that ones sorta wide tho.We keep getting embroiled in things together so I don't really feel like I have a choice in the matter, but he's someone who I definitely look out for. I have a lot of sympathy for what he goes through. When I say embroiled, for example one afternoon someone came over and bashed in all his windows, I saw this from my place. Because this involved glass being strewn in my yard I felt like I had been attacked too, because I like to walk barefoot in my yard. Anyway I ended up being a witness to the police for it, and helped him picked up the glass. Other people saw it but no one else wanted to be a witness. He attracts sooo much drama, and whatever affects him at his house tends to affect me. Its never been like this with a neighbor. We're the MOST unlikely pair, but there ya go, sun conj moon. I'm always looking out for him.

And as far as the people who I feel protected by, and really enjoy it, their Mars trine my Moon. And to a lesser degree but still valid, *especially* if theyre a Taurus, their Sun trine my Moon.

And then you mentioned Leo? Tends to be loyal.

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IV XXIV
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posted June 10, 2014 03:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IV XXIV     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer mars in the 4th..

I'm the same way lmao. Even when I'm playing Call of Duty, if someone on my team is being ambushed or attacked, I feel like it's my duty to step up and protect them. They're a complete total stranger but they're on my team, so I will protect them.

If my heart goes out to you or I feel responsible for you, I will protect you regardless of who you are, how I know you, or the circumstance.

I however don't expect the same in return... I don't even want it. I don't like asking for help because I don't want to owe any favors. I'd rather be able to say "I got here and I did it all on my own" than feel like I owe someone something. I can protect myself, take care of myself and defend myself all fine on my own. But it is the thought that counts, and that makes me smile.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted June 10, 2014 04:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Mom has this Cancer placement: she worries a whole lot. Is there a way to help Cancer to stop worrying so much?

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Comatoes
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posted June 10, 2014 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Comatoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Cancer Mars but I don't jump in and save people, unless it's a dire need or they ask me to as a courtesy, a lot of people get offended when you try to fight their battles. I rather fight my own battles, thank you very much. I seek life experiences to grow and learn and not to be protected, unless I'm in a burning building than by all means

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Doux Rêve
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posted June 10, 2014 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not all of them are like that.

My ex had a Cancer Mars & Sun and he was quite selfish, 'protective' is definitely not a word I'd choose to describe him.

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posted June 10, 2014 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I knew one man with Mars in Cancer. He liked to hide in a shed out back brewing his own beer to get away from his partner whom he only got along with at times.
He has certain Mars related issues he talked about that bothered him. I agree for a man it can be difficult having Mars here but they are so sweet and adorable to make up for it. They do have quirks.

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posted June 11, 2014 12:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess with every post I have to include "in my personal experience" somewhere so I won't get attacked by other users who have a different opinion than my own. So sorry guys..

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IV XXIV
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posted June 11, 2014 01:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IV XXIV     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I guess with every post I have to include "in my personal experience" somewhere so I won't get attacked by other users who have a different opinion than my own. So sorry guys..

I don't think you were being attacked, honestly. And in your defense, you did say "all the cancer men i know". But I really don't think it was intended to be malicious.

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LovelyAries86
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posted June 11, 2014 01:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer Mars has its flaws, yes. But I still enjoy them - most of the time.

As long as they feel loved & respected they generally will want to take very good care of you. They aren't loyal to everyone, but those that they are loyal to they will die for & fight for. No BS!

Definitely protective people.

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posted June 11, 2014 09:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SilverFeather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Mars in 4th House, but in Sagittarius not Cancer and I feel the same, even during online games. My guild members call me the guardian lol, I protect everyone else even when I'm about to lose life points, some times I protect even complete strangers in 2V2 play mode hhahahhaha

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