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Topic: Attracting too many interested men? Some transit or what?
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1598
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 07, 2014 05:27 PM
  
Some old flirts have recently tried to contact me again… and in general I'm attracting a lot of male-attention recently (apparently) I think it must be some transit or what? But in general this has always been a problem for me…the problem with men who find me romantically interesting and it's kind of intimidating to have all these guys staring at you all the time, like they could eat you lol… it's great with the self confidence boost, but it's also a bit too much. And this is ESPECIALlY a very big problem at my workplace. I cannot have guys being interested in me at my work, it's annoying, and it's embarrassing… women get jealous at me, and all the guys think they have a chance, because I have to fake being nice, cause it's my work… WTF is going on? Transits or natal aspects??? I'm suspecting my scorpio venus in 5th house trine jupiter? Natal chart with transits:
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LoadedPistil
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From: NJ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 07, 2014 09:55 PM
When you find out, let me know!  ------------------
Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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Emily033
Knowflake Posts: 101
From: marysville, ca
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted June 07, 2014 09:59 PM
Is your pluto-venus conjunction being activated by transit?IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted June 07, 2014 10:06 PM
lol I've had this kind of 'phase' happen. It was one of three things: - transiting Venus conjunct my Sun... or
- transiting Sun conjunct my Venus... or
- transiting Venus conjunct my own Venus and my NN in Taurus I don't think you have these transits.. as far as I can see - but recently Venus in Taurus was opposite your natal Venus.. Was that around the time when they all decided to profess their love/attraction? lol quote:
this has always been a problem for me…the problem with men who find me romantically interesting and it's kind of intimidating to have all these guys staring at you all the time, like they could eat you
Ok! You're three years younger than me, but you are not a teenager. With this sort of thing, specially at work - you have to be strong, stand you ground and set boundaries. Your energy has to be more standoffish.. not friendly and not inviting. My feeling is that other than being physically attractive, you are also being too nice towards these men.. so they think everything goes. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted June 07, 2014 10:07 PM
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Originally posted by Emily033:
Is your pluto-venus conjunction being activated by transit?
She doesn't have a Venus/Pluto conjunction. They're 10 degrees away. IP: Logged |
Emily033
Knowflake Posts: 101
From: marysville, ca
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted June 07, 2014 10:16 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
She doesn't have a Venus/Pluto conjunction. They're 10 degrees away.
In the same sign, I still count it.
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LoadedPistil
Moderator Posts: 1823
From: NJ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 07, 2014 10:19 PM
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Originally posted by Emily033:
In the same sign, I still count it.
And luminaries got 12° to count. ------------------
Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
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mercuranian
Knowflake Posts: 842
From: another time another place
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 07, 2014 10:31 PM
if this has always been problematic for you i would attribute it to your venus conjunct pluto (in scorpio nonetheless). i can somewhat relate as i have natal pluto square my mars - venus conjunction. it can get pretty annoying feeling like a piece of meat and trying to ignore /fend off unwanted attention/advances.IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
Moderator Posts: 1823
From: NJ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 07, 2014 10:40 PM
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Originally posted by mercuranian:
if this has always been problematic for you i would attribute it to your venus conjunct pluto (in scorpio nonetheless). i can somewhat relate as i have natal pluto square my mars - venus conjunction. it can get pretty annoying feeling like a piece of meat and trying to ignore /fend off unwanted attention/advances.
I have Mars square Venus sextile Pluto. "No" is never good enough! ------------------
Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
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Odette
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posted June 07, 2014 10:43 PM
Pluto is transpersonal (and very slow-moving) so 99% of astrologers wouldn't count a 10 degree orb conjunction between Pluto and a personal planet (Venus) - which is not a luminary. They wouldn't count such a large orb with a luminary either, but that's besides the point.
The only luminaries are the Sun and the Moon. Her Venus is in Scorpio though - and the dispositor is Pluto in Scorpio - so she would have a lot of Scorpionic traits regardless. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted June 07, 2014 10:55 PM
How is Uranus aspecting you??
What are your progressions, where is Uranus in your progressed chart?
I also have Pluto/Venus conjunct but 8 degrees apart,
My Pluto is on AC, I get alot of guys thinking they want to get with me but few who have the strength of character to win my heart....if your feeling something new or different from the typical power/ love/control struggle that Pluto/Venus creates I would check your progressions.
I have always had an abundance of interested guys, but few I wanted to go for....for whatever reason.
But once my progressed Venus hit my natal Merc, I started getting my kind of guys appearing out if nowhere and professing love, I can't wait for Venus to hit my natal Sun at the beginning of 2015!!
By that time my progressed Juno will be on my natal Moon, that will be some good stuff!!IP: Logged |
Astrohippiegirl
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: atlanta, ga, usa
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 07, 2014 11:26 PM
Hey Next to neptune,
If you didn't know Jupiter is conjunct your ascendant right now that's probably some of the attention you are getting, people find you attractive physically and generally get a good vibe from you, enjoy it!!IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1598
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 08, 2014 03:45 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
lol I've had this kind of 'phase' happen. It was one of three things: - transiting Venus conjunct my Sun... or
- transiting Sun conjunct my Venus... or
- transiting Venus conjunct my own Venus and my NN in Taurus I don't think you have these transits.. as far as I can see - but recently Venus in Taurus was opposite your natal Venus.. Was that around the time when they all decided to profess their love/attraction? lol Ok! You're three years younger than me, but you are not a teenager. With this sort of thing, specially at work - you have to be strong, stand you ground and set boundaries. Your energy has to be more standoffish.. not friendly and not inviting. My feeling is that other than being physically attractive, you are also being too nice towards these men.. so they think everything goes.
Well sometimes you have to make a "good impression" on people at your work, or maybe some friends of your family or something like that… I don't really know how to impress people other than at least being nice and smile a lot:S But men keep blinking their one eye at me or come up with a sleazy comment and I don't know how to react so I get all confused lol IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1598
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 08, 2014 03:48 AM
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Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl:
Hey Next to neptune,
If you didn't know Jupiter is conjunct your ascendant right now that's probably some of the attention you are getting, people find you attractive physically and generally get a good vibe from you, enjoy it!!
Yes it has been a very nice period… but all this male attention has gotten to a higher level than usual these days, but maybe it's really because I smile a bit more these days and in general I feel more happy, probably because of this transit!  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 08, 2014 08:11 AM
It's Mercury Retro, guys.
Brings back stuff/people from the past.Transiting Venus in applying opposition to your natal Pluto probably adds to it, especially since Pluto is in your 5H. IP: Logged |
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