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Topic: Clt + Alt + Del: Suns in Scorpios, is it really that easy???
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 3086 From: AC conjunct Jupiter-Uranus Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 08, 2014 08:26 PM
When scorpio feels hurt or betrayed they hit Clt + Alt + Del and never again....Suns in Scorpios do seem to be this way, I would love to hear from them...is it a façade, do they very deed down not let go and just make sure it looks that way to everyone bc their pride comes first and utmost?? Suns in scorpio only please... IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 439 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 08, 2014 10:32 PM
I'd say it depends on each individual natal chart. I know you want answers based off a Scorpio Sun alone, but from my own experience, it's way more complicated than that. I know a ton of Scorpios who can cut people out of their lives and never look back no matter how painful, but me personally, I cannot do that. I have Sun, Mercury(r), Venus, Jupiter, and Pluto in Scorpio along with Sun conjunct Pluto, Mars conjunct Pluto, and Mars Conjunct my Descendant (Scorpio). I cut people off, but my Libra moon weighs the pros and cons and usually allows them back in again. I'm sure someone with a lot of earth or stable aspects would be the one to cut people out of their lives without much trouble.IP: Logged |
Melodie Knowflake Posts: 82 From: USA Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 08, 2014 10:33 PM
If it came to that point, yup, I have no problem with cutting all contact with someone. If I ever loved that person and the relationship (romantic or platonic) didn't end on a bad note, I'll always care for them. But if I feel like it's ultimately better to be apart, even if it hurts, I can still "let go" even if he/she will always linger in the back of my mind. To me, it's not about pride, but about self respect.IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 3086 From: AC conjunct Jupiter-Uranus Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 08, 2014 11:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Melodie: If it came to that point, yup, I have no problem with cutting all contact with someone. If I ever loved that person and the relationship (romantic or platonic) didn't end on a bad note, I'll always care for them. But if I feel like it's ultimately better to be apart, even if it hurts, I can still "let go" even if he/she will always linger in the back of my mind. To me, it's not about pride, but about self respect.
Thanks for the honesty. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8346 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 09, 2014 06:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by Melodie: If it came to that point, yup, I have no problem with cutting all contact with someone. If I ever loved that person and the relationship (romantic or platonic) didn't end on a bad note, I'll always care for them. But if I feel like it's ultimately better to be apart, even if it hurts, I can still "let go" even if he/she will always linger in the back of my mind. To me, it's not about pride, but about self respect.
Yeah, pretty much this. I am not hardcore when I cut contact, unless I am really annoyed by them and don't want to hear from them again (that's pretty rare). If I care about someone even a little, I won't ignore them if they reach out to me. Anywho, "easy" is definitely not the word I'd choose. Every Scorp is different; I'm a very Lunar one so I tend to cling to memories and my idealized ideas of people a bit too much. I tend to secretly care about people even if they've been out of my life for a long time; the feelings just don't really fade away. They come and go, but they're usually stuck somewhere in the back of my mind. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 3086 From: AC conjunct Jupiter-Uranus Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 09, 2014 09:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Yeah, pretty much this.I am not hardcore when I cut contact, unless I am really annoyed by them and don't want to hear from them again (that's pretty rare). If I care about someone even a little, I won't ignore them if they reach out to me. Anywho, "easy" is definitely not the word I'd choose. Every Scorp is different; I'm a very Lunar one so I tend to cling to memories and my idealized ideas of people a bit too much. I tend to secretly care about people even if they've been out of my life for a long time; the feelings just don't really fade away. They come and go, but they're usually stuck somewhere in the back of my mind.
aaaaaahh ha! I knew it.... LOL JK. You sound like me actually, my moon is in pisces and rules my 8th and I have saturn in scorpio but I dont keep it a secret. and I think my ex is also like you; sun in scorpio with moon in pisces...except he has moon in the 6th so he keeps busy working to not feel too much I think, he thinks of the past when he is unemployed. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8346 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 09, 2014 09:30 AM
Well... it seems that I have a Neptunian side to me, so. IP: Logged |
Lunae Knowflake Posts: 2225 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 09, 2014 09:36 AM
It's not easy for me to cut all ties completely. It would take a great deal if I decide never to get in touch with someone again. When I do so, I won't look back anymore unless time has passed long enough for the wounds to heal. I'm a very emotional and sentimental person, with my moon in Pisces. Cutting someone off would be like hitting someone with a double-bladed sword. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8346 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 09, 2014 10:11 AM
^ Yeah I think I'm right there with you. Actually I think it depends on my mood. Whyyyy oh why, my Moon is in Virgo, I'm not supposed to be emo or sentimental or moody! Booo.IP: Logged |
Lunae Knowflake Posts: 2225 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 09, 2014 10:16 AM
Hahahaha it's okay to be emo once in a while IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8346 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 09, 2014 10:31 AM
Yeah, I'm not that emo anyway. I just joke about it often. I can be rational and harsh, too. IP: Logged |
usc277 Knowflake Posts: 185 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 09, 2014 11:34 AM
I see what you did..you stole my idea and made it a topic..sneaky Scorp.IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 3086 From: AC conjunct Jupiter-Uranus Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 09, 2014 12:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by usc277: I see what you did..you stole my idea and made it a topic..sneaky Scorp.
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!! hahahahha I mean I commented on your idea and then said I would love to hear some scorpios reply to this so I started a thread I loved how you put it though, very catchy. I give you full credit. IP: Logged |
usc277 Knowflake Posts: 185 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 09, 2014 12:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!! hahahahhaI mean I commented on your idea and then said I would love to hear some scorpios reply to this so I started a thread I loved how you put it though, very catchy. I give you full credit.
So we have the least divorce rate (Pisces male,Scorpio female).. And you seem sneaky funny.. Let's get married !
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acousticbob Knowflake Posts: 148 From: UK Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 09, 2014 12:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: When scorpio feels hurt or betrayed they hit Clt + Alt + Del and never again....Suns in Scorpios do seem to be this way, I would love to hear from them...is it a façade, do they very deed down not let go and just make sure it looks that way to everyone bc their pride comes first and utmost?? Suns in scorpio only please...
Sun and Venus in Scoprio here. It's a stubborn facade. But feelings run deep. Not so much pride but self-protection.
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8346 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 09, 2014 12:28 PM
Isn't amelia a Virgo? Or is my memory failing me again. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 3086 From: AC conjunct Jupiter-Uranus Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 09, 2014 01:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Isn't amelia a Virgo? Or is my memory failing me again.
LOl You are right! hahaha. Virgo sun, kind of neat you have virgo moon with sun in scorpio. I figured he/she was referring to my saturn in scorpio. But I wasn't been sneaky, it was very obvious (I commented on their comment and said I wanted to hear what scorpios had to say and started a thread using their catchy Ct+Alt+Del though)...he/she is joking with me.
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 3086 From: AC conjunct Jupiter-Uranus Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 09, 2014 01:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by usc277: So we have the least divorce rate (Pisces male,Scorpio female).. And you seem sneaky funny.. Let's get married !
Interesting Your sun may conjunct my moon which rules my 8th.. What degrees is your pisces sun? Sorry though I am not a scorpio. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8346 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 09, 2014 01:49 PM
Pisces + Virgo can work wonders, too. Don't despair, usc.
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Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 333 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 09, 2014 02:26 PM
Scorpio sun but i have more aqua in my chart and i can honestly say i cant cut somebody out of my life easy its a long process and at the end of the day the feelings dont even fade away it just gets easier to push to the back of my head but i will always have feelings for a person im very sentimental and have a lot of fixed signs in my chart if i loved you before i will always have love no matter what.IP: Logged |
Emily033 Knowflake Posts: 108 From: marysville, ca Registered: Sep 2013
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posted June 09, 2014 02:31 PM
It's a defense mechanism. The emotions are so deep, in a destructive situation, it becomes necessary to detach for survival. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 3086 From: AC conjunct Jupiter-Uranus Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 09, 2014 02:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Supreme cT: Scorpio sun but i have more aqua in my chart and i can honestly say i cant cut somebody out of my life easy its a long process and at the end of the day the feelings dont even fade away it just gets easier to push to the back of my head but i will always have feelings for a person im very sentimental and have a lot of fixed signs in my chart if i loved you before i will always have love no matter what.
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww I LOVE SCORPIOS. I am melting..... Add: My first BF was aqua with moon in scorpio.
My favorite soul mate is sun in scorpio conjunct exact or by one orb his Uranus. Another meaningful soulmate is an aqua sun square pluto. Pluto/uranus! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8346 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 09, 2014 02:49 PM
Oh yeah!Scorpio is the most awesomest sign evaaah. Unless we like you. And unless we don't like you. Basically, we're only good from afar. Come close and you'll be sucked into a web of chaos, sometimes subtle, other times pretty extravagant...
Oh wait, is that just me? Alright, I'm totally exaggerating. Carry on!
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usc277 Knowflake Posts: 185 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 09, 2014 03:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: Interesting Your sun may conjunct my moon which rules my 8th..What degrees is your pisces sun? Sorry though I am not a scorpio.
Sun Pisces 8.21 Ascendant Taurus 5.10 Moon Aries 20.52 Venus Capricorn 28.10 Mars Libra 18.55 R Jupiter Scorpio 10.19 R Saturn Libra 21.37 R Uranus Sagittarius 4.35 Neptune Sagittarius 26.48 Pluto Libra 26.42 R Lilith Sagittarius 17.19 Asc node Cancer 21.40 Virgo is a second best..I do have somehing with Virgos.. Like we can speak without speaking sort of thing IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 3086 From: AC conjunct Jupiter-Uranus Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 09, 2014 03:35 PM
hahhaSo we both have a thing for scorpios huh?? To be fair I dont have a thing for scorpios in general; it just so happens that one specific scorpio captured my soul 12 years ago but I have dated a few other scorpios and I had fun but I did not fall in love with any other scorpio ever again. There are about two pisces that I liked and had a thing for but it didn't go far..... Well hon your sun does not conjunct my moon and I have fire venus and mars in leo so I think we would be good friends... Your moon though falls in my 5th house and trines my venus and mars and your venus cap trines my sun exact! IP: Logged |