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Topic: Melanie Griffith and Antonio Banderas
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3810 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted June 16, 2014 03:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by callarosa: Sorry, but it's amateurish and irresponsible for anyone to say that all Leo women are this way or that way, and that being a Leo woman means that you will have multiple marriages. There have to be other planetary aspects that indicate multiple marriages or cheating, ect. Attempting to judge a person's life by their sun sign is just bad astrology.
I wasn't judging anyone. I assumed. Assumptions are not judgments. I don't get the big deal. I backed it up with an example of a woman I know who is a Leo. My dad's the same way, few cousins, etc(also all Leos)I didn't say all were like that I just thought it was funny and odd. Not trying to pick a fight just don't get it. I know there's more to it obvi it just rang a bell in my head. Everybody is making this bigger than it should be. Its my opinion like everyone else's here. Let's just keep the topic on topic.  IP: Logged |
callarosa Newflake Posts: 18 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted June 16, 2014 10:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I wasn't judging anyone. I assumed. Assumptions are not judgments. I don't get the big deal. I backed it up with an example of a woman I know who is a Leo. My dad's the same way, few cousins, etc(also all Leos)I didn't say all were like that I just thought it was funny and odd. Not trying to pick a fight just don't get it. I know there's more to it obvi it just rang a bell in my head. Everybody is making this bigger than it should be. Its my opinion like everyone else's here. Let's just keep the topic on topic. 
I found your comment to be fairly judgemental, even if you didn't intend it that way. The anecdotal evidence you shared about your divorcing Leo acquaintance is also irrelevant to the topic. It would only be somewhat relevant if your friend shared significant natal aspects with Melanie which suggested the potential for a troubled romantic life, but you did not post any chart comparisons to accompany your anecdote. Rather, you simply posted a hurtful remark about one of your Leo acquaintances, who would presumably be upset to discover that you were commenting on and laughing about on her unhappy romantic life on an online forum full of strangers. I also fail to understand how her divorces would ever be considered "funny," as you suggested. In all likelihood your acquaintance is heartbroken that her previous relationships ended in divorce. Perhaps compassion and empathy, not laughter and eye rolling, would be a more appropriate response to her situation. Ultimately it doesn't matter how many times an individual marries because it is *their* life, not your life to pass judgement on. Multiple marriages and divorces are not signified by any particular sun sign, regardless of the number of anecdotes you have about your Leo acquaintances. It is unfortunate that you fail to acknowledge why your initial post was offensive, but in the future perhaps it would be wiser to avoid making irrelevant and judgemental remarks about others based on weak anecdotal evidence and bad astrology. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1826 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted June 16, 2014 10:46 PM
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Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3810 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted June 16, 2014 10:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by callarosa: I found your comment to be fairly judgemental, even if you didn't intend it that way. The anecdotal evidence you shared about your divorcing Leo acquaintance is also irrelevant to the topic. It would only be somewhat relevant if your friend shared significant natal aspects with Melanie which suggested the potential for a troubled romantic life, but you did not post any chart comparisons to accompany your anecdote. Rather, you simply posted a hurtful remark about one of your Leo acquaintances, who would presumably be upset to discover that you were commenting on and laughing about on her unhappy romantic life on an online forum full of strangers. I also fail to understand how her divorces would ever be considered "funny," as you suggested. In all likelihood your acquaintance is heartbroken that her previous relationships ended in divorce. Perhaps compassion and empathy, not laughter and eye rolling, would be a more appropriate response to her situation.Ultimately it doesn't matter how many times an individual marries because it is *their* life, not your life to pass judgement on. Multiple marriages and divorces are not signified by any particular sun sign, regardless of the number of anecdotes you have about your Leo acquaintances. It is unfortunate that you fail to acknowledge why your initial post was offensive, but perhaps it would be wiser to avoid making irrelevant and judgemental remarks about others based on weak anecdotal evidence and bad astrology, and stick to the topic.
Took you all day to write a paragraph of smart aleck, petty insults at me. 😱😱 Yaaaaawn. I read the first sentence and lost complete interest. IT IS my opinion. You don't have to like it and I don't have to like or agree with yours. Instead we ignore those that we don't like and keep it moving. How about you take a serious chill. Instead of starting yet another unnecessary bicker war on this topic how about we move right along dear. Eat your own words first before you talk to me about judging other people. Its not that serious. I have a sharp, nonchalant tone I'm aware. Blame that on my Libra sun and Cancer Mars. Apparently my comment was very strong and clearly upset you. People need to learn to take emotions out of online interactions. You can't see or hear the other person so don't judge the way they type is the way that they are and/or feeling. At the end of that day you don't know me and I don't know you. I'd appreciate it if you held your judgements about me to yourself and I'll do the same for you. Have an awesome night. IP: Logged | |