posted June 11, 2014 03:53 PM            

Moon in hard aspect with pluto, especially if it's between taurus and scorpio…

Sun square pluto and pluto in 8th house (My ex boyfriend had this, we also had this aspect in synastry and it was HELL I tell you HELLLL) - he also had 2 planets in taurus and scorp in pluto

My experience says that it's not necessary taurus sun, but it's the moon, venus and mars in taurus that makes people more possessive and jealous, same with scorpio…

posted June 11, 2014 05:28 PM            

To begin with, I agree with a lot of what previous posters have said; I would say to look at Pluto. Harsh aspects to Pluto from Moon/Mars/Venus (in both synastry and natal).

I'm a double Taurus, and I have Mars in Cancer, Pluto in Scorpio (in the 7th - yay me -_-), Venus in Aries, Moon in Gemini.

I have no Venus/Pluto aspects but I have Mars trine Pluto, Mars inconjunction Saturn, Moon opposite Pluto, Moon square Saturn.

Here's the thing.. Lmao.. I think jealousy is wanting something you don't have. When it comes to relationships, I don't "have you" because you aren't my property, but for lack of a better term, I'll use "have you". Since I already "have you", I don't think it's jealousy but more being territorial and possessive. I'm not insane about it, where if you look at someone too long I'll flip out, but I'm very intuitive. I've been cheated on before and I felt it in the pit of my stomach. When I get that feeling, I will no longer trust you, and will always assume the worst.

As for Mars in Scorpio; I agree with DeepFreeze. My best friend (Aries sun, Cap AC, Aries Venus, Cancer Mars, Pisces moon) is married to a Sag sun, moon, mercury, Cap venus, Scorpio mars. He's very argumentative, vindictive, spiteful, jealous, and insane to be frank. He always accuses her of cheating on him and brings up a time a few years ago where she was in a pretty ugly situation with her ex (but didn't cheat). He holds it over her head like she actually DID cheat, and so anyone she speaks to is a potential affair.

As for signs: Taurus, Scorpio. Not just sun signs, but Venus/Moon/Mars/Pluto (and Pluto's house placement).

posted June 11, 2014 06:50 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I brought this up because my Pisces bf is the most possessive person I've ever known. And he keeps saying he doesn't know why he gets this way and for some reason him being this jealous and possessive is making me the same way x.x strangely out of the people I've dated he has a very like un possessive chart if at makes sense.

He's a lot younger than me. He's at the end of the Pluto in Scorpio generation so I guess he's used to relationships with Pluto in sag people? They do seem more open and carefree with relationships. But even within my generation it seems like most other people have less possessive relationships.

I know I'm part of the problem lol I'm very possessive, but I also attract people that are more possessive than I am x.x and I don't think I have a lot of "possessive" aspects and placements. Well my mars in Taurus in the 8th. Maybe that's doing it lol. 4th house cap stellium maybe?

My boyfriends Venus and Mars in aqua squares his pluto. He needs his space but I'm on a tight leash...

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posted June 11, 2014 06:58 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I am possessive too. But my boyfriends kinda more insane about it. Like accusing me of cheating, getting jealous over ex boyfriends years ago, calling me all the time just to try to see if I'm hanging out with a guy etc. and I'm the kind of person that has zero friends. No Taurus, only Scorpio in this chart is Pluto but it squares his Venus and Mars. (Very loose square on the Mars)

I was with a Scorpio Mars, triple sag guy. Totally insane. My friends Aries sun boyfriend is an angry jealous guy, but I don't know anything else about him other than sun sign.

I'm trying to pinpoint the core of jealousy and possessiveness itself. I know what it feels like I know what it makes people do but I don't fully understand it. From my end I never have felt like I've had enough love so I think that's where my jealousy comes from. I always have a feeling in the back of my mind like I'm gonna lose the person I'm with.

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Wow you should avoid this kind of behavior at all costs! It's a snowball that is gonna be bigger and bigger if you don't stop it now.

The problem with taurus/scorpio/pluto/8th house placement is that they wan't emotional control.. if it's also triggered in synastry like it seems it is for you too, it indicates that you have some sort of power-struggle going on… do you have any planets in each others 8th house? And how tight is the orb between mars-venus square pluto? And do you have some other aspects that is stronger between you?

I recommend that you trust each other 100% , cause another thing with this possessiveness is a kind of "fear" that you cannot trust the other. And that is kind of a basic rule for a loving and healthy relationship!

posted June 11, 2014 10:34 PM              

Scorpio placements

Venus/pluto

Venus/mars

Pluto square Asc

Gotta look at 8th house crap too.

Synastry

Im guilty but not because of control. Im just very territorial at times lol

posted June 12, 2014 01:08 AM              

taurus gem cusp Sun opp pluto
mercury in taurus opp pluto
venus in taurus opp pluto
pluto in scorp conj mc
**oh and pluto square saturn- a subtle controller, bcz the square is not that tight

No fun, with jealousy & letting go :(
ouch the heart

posted June 12, 2014 01:33 AM            

When it comes to being treated like that, it's another story...I abhor this behavior in others...0 tolerance for it.

Chart rulers are Mercury and Moon:
Mercury in Aries/11th opp, Pluto, trine Neptune, and ssqu. Uranus.
Moon in Virgo conj. IC, opp. Lilith-Pallas, squ. Uranus, trine Sun and Jupiter.

posted June 12, 2014 01:37 AM              

^^ This. I have Aries everything and Moon in Taurus opposition Pluto.

This Aries guy I knew for 6 years who liked me but never did anything about it would call me immediately every time I changed my relationship status and ask who I was dating, even if we hadn't talked in months. He had Sag ASC and Venus in Taurus, Mars in Cap.

The other Aries guy I liked was always nosy about who was with me, or asked a bunch of questions about a date I went on…Sag ASC and Sag Moon. Flipped out kind of easy compared to me and my Taurus moon.

I DO get possessive and territorial, and even though I'm still working on letting that GO, I try my hardest not to let the other person know it and keep my cool. It's kind of a catch-22 because the energy is so strong in me that I probably can't help but attract my worst fear anyway.

posted June 12, 2014 01:40 AM              

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Originally posted by MorpHnStorM:
That's interesting...I have a Taurus Sun opp Scorpio Mars along with a Taurus Venus (opp Saturn and qux Uranus), and I'm not like that...Guess I'm a failure, lol.

When it comes to being treated like that, it's another story...I abhor this behavior in others...0 tolerance for it.

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I think it's because of your uranus:)
I have strong uranian influence as well- for example my venus trines uranus- but I channel this energy into going to unexpected places with a lover-or doing unexpected things& keep the spontaneity alive in the rel. that's an example

posted June 12, 2014 02:03 AM            

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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
Pisces are RIDICULOUS at this stuff and it only gets worse unless he manages HOW to deal with it effectively. Trust me, I divorced one. UGH!!!

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posted June 12, 2014 02:05 AM            

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Originally posted by starlitroad:

I think it's because of your uranus
I have strong uranian influence as well- for example my venus trines uranus- but I channel this energy into going to unexpected places with a lover-or doing unexpected things& keep the spontaneity alive in the rel. that's an example

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Yeah, I just edited my post to mention more on that lol. I channel my Uranian energy in that way too.

My experiences with extreme jealousy/possessiveness/manipulation:

One of the most possessive, jealous people I know is my narcissistic a-hole of a brother...Aries Sun, Gemini Moon. He was abusive to me (in every way) all growing up, and the one time as adults that ended us for good...He's misogynistic and has abused pretty much everyone close to him.

My Dad also had serious issues with jealousy/possessiveness, when it came to my Mother; he was abusive and psychotic as well. He had a Leo Sun-Pluto conj. along with a Scorpio Moon.

posted June 12, 2014 02:48 AM              

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I think LIBRA also gets jealous and possessive, but the way they go about it is so passive that you have to be intuitive to pick up on it.

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posted June 12, 2014 03:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I've never met a single jealous Libra unless they had heavy Water or Earth in their chart. Even the most insecure ones weren't. I've never been. To me jealousy is a sign of insecurity. I do agree in some ways a libra can be possessive but not jealous. They're too busy trying to keep balance than be jealous lol.

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posted June 12, 2014 03:20 AM              

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Depends on their placement… my boyfriend is libra sun + venus and he is nothing near jealous, he is more like just trying to keep up with me lol… but my aqua ex boyfriend had a libra moon in 7th, and he was VERY jealous…and so he had sun in 12th house, so spice the jealousy with some illusive imagination! Maybe that's the coincidence here? A pisces with a possessive and jealous natal chart, could completely lose his imagination and see things that isn't there…

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