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AlexDern
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posted June 16, 2014 10:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlexDern     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm thinking that my generation and younger will outlive the institution of marriage...

Why do you ask?

Well psychologists are now writing about a phenomena. Before it used to be the oedipus complex, for lack of better word, that was really the issue with people in the 60's, 70's,80's.

Now it seems it's the preoedipul complex...which leads to schizoid, bipolar, and narcissism. Irnoically these issues help a person succeed in a corporate world but don't allow for marriage. IT seems after reading the psychoanalytical literature that 1/4 people younger than 30 as of now will have or do have this.

I'm not saying it's bad nor am I labeling here. I'm just using their terminology. I admire the schizoid for his ability to stand alone, the narcissist to persevere and achieve, and the bipolar persons passion and creativity.

And no one is fully one or the other. These are archtypes.

Butpsychologists argue that people are going through a preoedipal neurosis because it's the only way to survive. The nuclear family has been broken.

What do you think...is this pluto in capricorn changing timeless structures, and thereby affecting venus, and probably all the other planets too?

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AlexDern
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posted June 16, 2014 11:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlexDern     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let me rephrase the above...in a different way.

People under thirty now with any form of neurosis are suffering these wounds due to or from occurrences before they were 1 years old.

IIn the past most neurosis was caused by wounds from 1-13 years of age, or in memory, but now the wounds are from before the people can even remember, hence pre-oedipal.

But it seems that this is an evolutionary thing. The psychological wound actually allows the child to adapt to working conditions. The children become fixed to their mother instead of their father and become effeminate. This would be in lign with the divine feminine that is coming back into play.

Strange?

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Yanmorg
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posted June 17, 2014 08:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree.

I don't know much about psychology, but I do understand your post.

I have been pondering on the future of my generation for a very long time and you definitely put my thoughts into detail.

This generation is becoming less and less focused on marriage and love and more focused on money and owning material things.

It's a sad sight to see in my opinion.

It IS a bad thing.

The media has convinced society that love is not important and shouldn't be valued. You should focus on money and getting ahead instead.

You can't take money with you when you die.

You can't take anything you OWN when you die.

All you can take is the memories and the impact you left on this cold world.

How can you do that when you're just focused on money?

Women are also being viewed as less valuable now more than ever.

Men aren't concerned with building a family or even reproducing because money is their only concern.

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posted June 17, 2014 08:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree. Thats why i laugh at the indigo and crystal
children claims about this generation.

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posted June 17, 2014 08:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is already outdated.

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posted June 17, 2014 08:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I agree.

I don't know much about psychology, but I do understand your post.

I have been pondering on the future of my generation for a very long time and you definitely put my thoughts into detail.

This generation is becoming less and less focused on marriage and love and more focused on money and owning material things.

It's a sad sight to see in my opinion.

It IS a bad thing.

The media has convinced society that love is not important and shouldn't be valued. You should focus on money and getting ahead instead.

You can't take money with you when you die.

You can't take anything you OWN when you die.

All you can take is the memories and the impact you left on this cold world.

How can you do that when you're just focused on money?

Women are also being viewed as less valuable now more than ever.

Men aren't concerned with building a family or even reproducing because money is their only concern.


You can love a person without marrying them. Fear created marriage as far as I can see, fear of the one you love leaving you. It’s a bondage.

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amelia28
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posted June 17, 2014 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Excessive use of vaccinations that have mercury in them disguised under a different name some scientists believe has contributed the the rise of autism but mercury is toxic and can trigger mental illness and health conditions, not just autism.

People today are been exposed to higher dosage and frequency of vaccinations,kids are receiving a lot more vaccinations than when I was little and a lot more frequently so the body is bombarded and has less time to recover and if you have a poor threshold for mercury toxicity it will trigger an illness; mothers often receive vaccines while pregnant that some scientists belief predisposes the child to autism etc...

Studies that dismiss this are funded by the corporations that profit from this industry.

Schizoid and autism have some similarities in that both have an inability to express or feel the spectrum of emotions.


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Now I will discuss the sociology and psychology dynamics of modern times:

I do feel what you are discussing is a combination of things. We live in a different world today were things are created at a mass scale and are cheaper bc of it and easily accessible. Also we are living in a world that technology is advancing exponentially. Farmers use to work hard and be in shape because of it but now machines do all the work so farmers are often overweight or obese.

In a nutshell since everything is created at a mass scale with the help of machines, making things cheaper and easily accessible and since more and more every day we rely less in ourselves and more in technology and more and more we interact with others via technology we have become lazy spoiled humans who are wired to consume consume and consume.

On the other hand technology is amazing, it allows people to stay in touch that otherwise you would not be able to and connect from people all over the world that otherwise you would not be able to so it expands your horizons. Bc of technology all information is at your finger tips.

In addition it will be the key to having a super long life span via nanotechnology. If the structures of special interests groups are finally destroyed, technology one day will be the key to making limited resources unlimited or efficient enough that we wont have to worry. It could ultimately lead to a world were people don't have to work and can spend their time honing whatever skills they which or working in whatever project they wish and pursuing their real passions etc..

But specifically on the topic of marriage I feel until recently people were not getting married for love and were getting married for survival and security and bc women were not independent they had to stay in bad marriages but that is no longer the case and what we are experiencing today is the effects of transitioning to marriage for love and the economic independence of women. Like all transitions it comes with growing pains for a while.

EVENTUALLY there will be less divorce bc people will not jump into marriage as much and less people will choose the route of marriage or having a family and be more mindful about entering this arrangement so the ones that do truly have a calling for it will get married. Having kids should not be this mandatory expectation people have and not everyone should pursue it, the world would be a better place. Its not like we have a shortage of people so this mentality that we all should have kids is very outdated and is kept alive bc of religion. Just bc you have the capacity to reproduce does not mean that you should, I don't think everyone has a calling for it. Maybe we should reproduce less and meditate more.

What I am saying is that so far our biology is been making decisions as far as having children and marriage instead of our higher self. As we evolve this will change so the marriages that do take place will not be based on bondage as someone pointed out but on two kindred spirits who choose to be together without possessing each other...


At least I hope this is the direction we will ultimately head into........


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Doux Rêve
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posted June 17, 2014 11:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting thoughts...

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amelia28
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posted June 17, 2014 11:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I agree.

I don't know much about psychology, but I do understand your post.

I have been pondering on the future of my generation for a very long time and you definitely put my thoughts into detail.

This generation is becoming less and less focused on marriage and love and more focused on money and owning material things.

It's a sad sight to see in my opinion.

It IS a bad thing.

The media has convinced society that love is not important and shouldn't be valued. You should focus on money and getting ahead instead.

You can't take money with you when you die.

You can't take anything you OWN when you die.

All you can take is the memories and the impact you left on this cold world.

How can you do that when you're just focused on money?

Women are also being viewed as less valuable now more than ever.

Men aren't concerned with building a family or even reproducing because money is their only concern.


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