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Topic: Saturn in the 4th house
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fairaqua
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posted June 18, 2014 08:54 AM
  
Who has this placement? What sign is he sitting in?
What kind of relationship did/do you have with your mother?
How is your house?
What's your relationship with your home country?
What career have you chosen?
Are you happy and successful in your career? And since Saturn softens with age, how old are you (if you'd like to group age; ie: 25-30, 35-40; that's fine)
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fairaqua
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posted June 18, 2014 09:06 AM
My Saturn is sitting in SagittariusThe relationship with my mother was Rocky (moon in 8th), I loved her because she was my mother, but she caused a lot of emotional pain.
BUT as I've grown older I've learned to see past the pain and chosen to view them as lessons of life. Now that my mother is gone and I've gotten over my anger I love her now with more of a passion.
My house.
Ugh. I love that i have a house and have owned it since I was 18, but something is always breaking. The A/C, the toilet, leaking shower, leaking sink, storm damage to the roof, back porch collapsed
... and the house isn't even that old! lol
I just hope this house is a learning curve and my next one is a little new "quiet"
I love my country with a passion. I want what's best for it's people. I want them to be able Rio be self reliant. I want to help them get there.
When I was younger I could care less about politics, but since about 24/25 years old my passion for politics has greatly grown. I really hope to get into the political arena when I gain a little more knowledge and experience.
I just want to help my fellow country men help themselves.
I haven't chosen a career yet. Too many choices. But as I grow older I'm narrowing down the choices drastically.
Id say as a stay at home mom I'm pretty successful though. I always get complemented on my children and my "hobbies" I partake in here at the house.
My home and children are my source for creativity.
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ariestaurus
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posted June 18, 2014 04:17 PM
I'll answer for my sisterHer saturn is in Virgo in the 4th house. My mom and her are more like 'friends'; her moon is in the 11th house. Her friends are like family to her and we are more like friends. Family is very important to the rest of the family, but she doesn't seem to prioritize us. My parents would do anything for her, but she only seems to call when she needs something. She often complains about our childhood and feels unsupported by my parents even though they do so much for her. She has sometimes said she feels like she's adopted. She moved out as soon as she got into university. My parents love her but hate that she takes is for granted and doesn't treat us with respect Our background is indian, but she's not really into Indian stuff. Her home is messy! She is a doctor and she is very happy in her career. She is a total workaholic! She is 33. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted June 18, 2014 04:29 PM
I have it.
He's in Aquarius.My mother and I didn't get along very well. Now that I'm older and live out of the state she wants to know everything. We fought like crazy, sometimes physical. She has Scorpio Moon and I'm almost positive that's why. My house is spotless. Smells amazing at all times lol. I'm an absolute clean freak. Even before leaving the house if there are any dishes or mess I put them away in the dishwasher and clean away. I deep clean once a week the entire house. We rent an apartment for now. Plan to buy in a few years. I don't have any issues with my country. I hated it before now I don't pay much attention. Just live here that's the way I look at it. For now I'm a stay at home wife. Wanted to be an attorney for ever until I realized that I would never find a job and spend too much money for school. So now I'm thinking kindergarten teacher. I looooove kids so much and enjoyed teaching my younger cousins when they were little. So I think it'd be perfect for me. I'm very very happy with my life. Extremely grateful for my husband(DeepFreeze) and all that he does for the both of us. I think if I became a teacher our lives would be even more comfortable than it is now, which doesn't even seem possible. If we get pregnant before I decide then I'm not sure how I'd feel about being a full time teacher, possibly part time or half day. I'm 21  IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 18, 2014 04:33 PM
Saturn in Aquarius
Strange relationship, unpredictable and draining - I feel emotionally distant, never been nurturing or uplifting, gives practical advice instead. We have bad synastry too, moon square pluto. Sun square sun, mars square mars. I keep trying to break free, but saturn always pulls me back. We have fights, she wants me to be something i am not. Shes a virgo sun with scorp asc, gemini moon, its hell.
House is average looking, conventional style for my town.
I don't mind my country, but i do not like some of the cultural aspects, i wish to move when i'm older. I find people too cold and unwelcoming here. But saturn will keep me here untill 35.
No career as yet, i have Chiron in 10th, i have no idea what i want to do.
Age: 21
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bansheequeen
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From: Beachville, USA
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 18, 2014 04:57 PM
In Capricorn with three other planets. Venus Neptune and Uranus. It's my stellium.My mom was always very cold to me and not really the supportive type, but she expected me to be a success. She was a terror growing up but like you I've learned to get past it. I was born in the US and I served in the military, but I don't have any kind of special tie to my country. My parents weren't born in America. So i kinda feel like I don't belong here or anywhere else. I don't have a career. I'm a drifter. However I do very well in my jobs. I move around a lot for circumstantial reasons so I've given up on the idea of a home. However wherever I am I make it my nest. IP: Logged |
Kibriana
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From: Zagreb, Croatia
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 18, 2014 04:59 PM
My Saturn is in Leo. I used to have a difficult relationship with my mother, she more or less ignored me, mostly because my brother was her favourite and she didn't know what to do with me. But, then my borther died so she kind of switched her attention to me. We have a closer relationship now, but we still have our issues.
My house is ok, I guess, it's my room that's a mess most of the time. I often feel that the clutter reflects my metal chaos, and tidying up is a way to declutter my brain as well as my room.
As for my country, I'm disappointed with it. It could have been such an amazing place to live in, but we've managed to destroy it all. I couldn't care less about my fellow countrymen, too.
I'm a teacher and a translator, but I have no job security (Uranus/ Neptune in the 6th might have something to say about it too). I'm happy, yes, but not successful, and, as a matter of fact, if I continue doing what I'm doing, I'm going to live in the 4th house Saturn nightmare of insufficient income. Scary...
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geminigal2805
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posted June 19, 2014 05:10 AM
Saturn is in Libra. It conjuncts IC and vertex.
I never had any major issues with my mom. Yeah i would have respected her much more had she stood up for me when i badly needed her to stand up and fight for my right as a human being. Past is past. I love her but i know her love for me depends on her mood.
I worked in a PR company. I handled clients and also pulled in new clients for the firm. I quit cuz of crazy work schedule even though i felt i was born to do just that. But i couldnt concentrate on my son.Now im a trainee teacher at a pre primary school. I plan to run my own day care/play school in the near future.I love this job though it lacks the excitement/perks/allure of my previous job.
My house is spotless on most days. There are days when i would get all dreamy and refuse to do any household chores. House is an independent villa. Financially we are not doing bad. I mean my husband drives a BMW5series and i drive a Skoda Superb. I live in India,these cars are considered pretty cool to drive.I have a happy life n i have a loving son too. Only thing my childhood wasnt great. I think we need to be tough on ourself,keep trying harder,never give up and need to be focused n have very ethical behaviour inorder to reap the rewards of Saturn in fourth house. I dont think anyone with saturn in fourth house need to worry. It doesnt mean ur life is going to be miserable. I was told i wont have a good life. But i do.
I wonder why u r so curious about this placement. I have heard so many negatives about this placement. I realised one thing. My career/public image get affected cuz of my home life. I almost always have to pick either my career or home life.
N im 31yrs old.IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 19, 2014 08:55 AM
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Originally posted by fairaqua:
Who has this placement? Pluto, jupiter, saturn, and ceres in the 4th house What sign is he sitting in? libra
What kind of relationship did/do you have with your mother? We argue alot, then we are best friends, then argue again.
How is your house? Good. I like being home.
What's your relationship with your home country? I love it. Born and raised but have also visited my moms home country and i love it too.
What career have you chosen? Medical/nurse
Are you happy and successful in your career? Waiting to take my board exams but due to a broken ankle everything is delayed ;(
And since Saturn softens with age, how old are you? I turned 32 today ;(
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fairaqua
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posted June 19, 2014 09:30 AM
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
I wonder why u r so curious about this placement. I have heard so many negatives about this placement. I realised one thing. My career/public image get affected cuz of my home life. I almost always have to pick either my career or home life.
N im 31yrs old.
I just wondered what other people's home life, mother relationship, and career choices were and if it had eased with age. I'm at the age where Saturn is going to be softening soon. I was wondering if it had gotten easier.
...funny you say you feel like you have to pick career or home life.
While I haven't worked a job in over 10 years I feel like if I did start working again I'd be putting my family aside and my house and home life would fall apart.
We aren't rich financially, but emotionally we are.
We've just decided we don't want the added stress of having to worry about the boys in someone else's hands (outside of school).
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Doux Rêve
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posted June 19, 2014 09:32 AM
Happy Birthday, Venusian Moon!  I hope your ankles get better soon.  IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted June 19, 2014 09:41 AM
Natally I have Scorpio Uranus and NN in the 4H...gypsy-like.Saturn transiting my 4H now feels like being caged in...stuck in this house that I want to sell...inertia with respect to home issues. It's a triple whammy because Saturn is also transiting my husband's 4H and our composite 4H, conjunct our composite NN. Feels solid but boring. IP: Logged |
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