posted June 20, 2014 09:37 AM
Have any of you experienced this? I have. Twice. Both times we were going-- well, the second time we moved in together after the second date.The first time it happened with of course a different person, we planned it.. I almost moved across the country. We waited about a month, at least. Til I snooped through their cell phone and realized it was a mistake. I moved back across the country and never said a thing or looked back again.
With this second person, I proposed to after about 2 months.. We had gotten into a bit of a dispute so I moved out and we weren't living together by that time.
Just the other day though, I text and they're m.i.a. and so I drive by the house and sure enough, from the hours of 10-2 they were gone without their phone and they only told me they had a "work emergency" because they saw my car as they were pulling in at 2am.
We texted the next day. I asked why didn't I hear from them. I was receiving seriously defensive reactions and we haven't talked since. I'm wondering if just like the other relationship, is this one over and I'd never look back again?
It's been two days. I have 3 dates set up already for this week and I feel a lot happier and better about myself.
Both composites had sun uranus conjunctions.
Ironically, with the second person, we had absolutely no harsh aspects at all in the chart. Not even in synastry.
Yet, I think their nodal placements don't help.. Something about a Sagittarius south node just does not like to talk or listen and they always think they're right and want to have the last word on everything.
(Side note: it's not the "work emergency" that I have an issue with.. If that were the case, fine.. But there was a condom on the nightstand a few days before (we never used them) and coupled with us being on the rocks and also me finding out they're hanging out with other people late at night (I snooped through their phone) doesn't help any. Sex became totally one-sided after the initial fight that caused me to move out and it doesn't take 4 hours to perform a procedure in the middle of the night)