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Topic: What aspects make you dislike someone for no reason?
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NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 980 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 24, 2014 01:34 PM
Asking because my brothers girlfriend seems to just take overeverything, controls everything, doesn't care about me, what I have to say ect. Every time she is in the house, the house is just an unpleasant atmosphere for me. My brother always seems to turn against me when she is in the house. I kind of feel bullied and trapped when she just comes in the house lol, the house is supposed to be a sanctuary not where you feel stressed. To me she is like a demon possessing my brother lol also another thing, she just annoys me like hell, typical ditsy girly girl, not much brains, bland, plain. I know I need to give it chance but it feels like my home life suffers every time she is in the house. I hope my brother does not marry her oh god. She makes me want to punch her or just move out of my house. And this is coming from a libra asc aqua Venus who's an accepting person, unless boundaries are crossed.Don't have her chart, but could you guess some of the indicators of this? Maybe her Pluto is hitting my 4th? IP: Logged |
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 247 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 24, 2014 02:06 PM
For some reason I don't like people who's sun conjuncts my moon. It's supposed to be a good aspect for a relationship but I just never get along with these people. I find them abrasive and just really annoying for no reason. Same goes for squares and oppositions. I get along great when there's no angle between us though. I like sun cancers, they're so sweet and soft. But I think when there's a sun moon conjunction or any hard aspect there's like that dynamic where the moon person can get overwhelmed by the sun person and end up being bossed around or bullied. Or just overwhelmed by their personality.I really like soft aspects to my moon though. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 980 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 24, 2014 02:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by bansheequeen: For some reason I don't like people who's sun conjuncts my moon. It's supposed to be a good aspect for a relationship but I just never get along with these people. I find them abrasive and just really annoying for no reason. Same goes for squares and oppositions. I get along great when there's no angle between us though. I like sun cancers, they're so sweet and soft. But I think when there's a sun moon conjunction or any hard aspect there's like that dynamic where the moon person can get overwhelmed by the sun person and end up being bossed around or bullied. Or just overwhelmed by their personality.I really like soft aspects to my moon though.
Yes I agree, sun-moon good aspects are great, my sun trined this guys Aries moon, we respected each other a lot, had a sense of familiarity and supported one another. We are no longer in a relationship but we hold a lot of mutual respect for one another still, abit off topic there sorry IP: Logged |
ariestaurus Knowflake Posts: 342 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 24, 2014 02:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by bansheequeen: For some reason I don't like people who's sun conjuncts my moon. It's supposed to be a good aspect for a relationship but I just never get along with these people. I find them abrasive and just really annoying for no reason. Same goes for squares and oppositions. I get along great when there's no angle between us though. I like sun cancers, they're so sweet and soft. But I think when there's a sun moon conjunction or any hard aspect there's like that dynamic where the moon person can get overwhelmed by the sun person and end up being bossed around or bullied. Or just overwhelmed by their personality.I really like soft aspects to my moon though.
Me too, actually! When their Sun is conjunct my Moon in Aries, I feel they are very annoying. I've only really disliked 2 people for no reason (both are women), and their Suns are on my Moon. I also have Mercury, Venus, Jupiter and Neptune in Capricorn, so perhaps the square aspects between these planets and their Aries Suns cause some discord/dislike. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4566 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 24, 2014 03:10 PM
Perhaps they challenge your femininityIP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2009 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted June 24, 2014 03:13 PM
Intuition?I've disliked people for no reason and later found that I was correct for disliking them after doubting my intuition. IP: Logged |
stargazer21 Knowflake Posts: 236 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 24, 2014 03:16 PM
Im really interested in knowing this because I know some one who just GRATES on my nerves and idk why because they've never done anything wrong to me personally. quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: Perhaps they challenge your femininity
No offense Karka but why are you so obsessed with femininity? IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4566 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 24, 2014 03:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by stargazer21: Im really interested in knowing this because I know some one who just GRATES on my nerves and idk why because they've never done anything wrong to me personally. No offense Karka but why are you so obsessed with femininity?
I only mention it 3 times out of what ...since a 2 year hiatus from posting on Astrology 2.0 now I'm suddenly obsessed. No offense, but how come when people say no offense they usually have a brazen remark? Moon = primary female/feminine expression Sun = primary male/masculine expression By female and male I don't mean gender roles either. Jesus christ. It wasn't in proper context this time? Oh no wait.. people talk about how androgynous they are all the time on here yet nobody questions them. IP: Logged |
stargazer21 Knowflake Posts: 236 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 24, 2014 03:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: I only mention it 3 times out of what ...since a 2 year hiatus from posting on Astrology 2.0 now I'm suddenly obsessed. No offense, but how come when people say no offense they usually have a brazen remark? Moon = primary female/feminine expression Sun = primary male/masculine expression By female and male I don't mean gender roles either. Jesus christ. It wasn't in proper context this time? Oh no wait.. people talk about how androgynous they are all the time on here yet nobody questions them.
You still haven't explained why you're so obsessed with it. A lot of threads you've posted in you're going on about how soft and feminine your taurus moon is. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4566 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 24, 2014 03:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by stargazer21: You still haven't explained why you're so obsessed with it. A lot of threads you've posted in you're going on about how soft and feminine your taurus moon is.
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stargazer21 Knowflake Posts: 236 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 24, 2014 03:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Lol stop the only person offended here is you. Stop trying over compensate for the feminity that you lack offline by needlessly posting about it here. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4566 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 24, 2014 03:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by stargazer21: Lol stop the only person offended here is you. Stop trying over compensate for the feminity that you lack offline by needlessly posting about it here.
Strong words coming from a girl that tried to passively-aggressively insult me by saying the age old "no offense" From your personal attack on my character it proves my original point that your indignations have clearly been roused. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 247 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 24, 2014 03:53 PM
The moon is so receptive and passive it's easy to overwhelm it with hard aspects I think. More so than any other planet. Being a cancer moon it seems like cancer suns would be perfect for me, but just something is always off about the connection. The last time I really disliked someone for no reason, I later found her birthday on Facebook and turns out her sun was right in my moon. The ex I hate the most for no reason (I say no reason because he really didn't do anything to me and others have) had his sun on my moon.If someone's sun is on your moon, wouldn't the sun person be the one who feels like their femininity is challenged? Because in this instance the moon is the female and the sun is the male. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4566 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 24, 2014 04:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by bansheequeen: The moon is so receptive and passive it's easy to overwhelm it with hard aspects I think. More so than any other planet. Being a cancer moon it seems like cancer suns would be perfect for me, but just something is always off about the connection. The last time I really disliked someone for no reason, I later found her birthday on Facebook and turns out her sun was right in my moon. The ex I hate the most for no reason (I say no reason because he really didn't do anything to me and others have) had his sun on my moon.If someone's sun is on your moon, wouldn't the sun person be the one who feels like their femininity is challenged? Because in this instance the moon is the female and the sun is the male.
I imagined since the Moon is a feminine planet (you know, I mean the yin spectrum and passive/receptive sense not in the mundane sense of word some people misinterpreted) that people who are more inclined to be introverted and react intuitively would feel it more sensitively than more "masculine" people. So I think the Sun hitting a soft Moon (again, if the person in said situation was sensitive to it) would cause them to feel pressured to move out their shell and trying to get on the Sun's level of activeness. Moon prefers to recluse and well.. the Sun doesn't like to just sit around. For two females.. if a female's Sun hits a female's Moon then perhaps the Moon will antagonize her.. then of course it depends on the more specific aspects.. ask the more advanced astrologer here if my theory is true.. It could be other factors IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3975 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted June 24, 2014 04:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: I imagined since the Moon is a feminine planet (you know, I mean the yin spectrum and passive/receptive sense not in the mundane sense of word some people misinterpreted) that people who are more inclined to be introverted and react intuitively would feel it more sensitively than more "masculine" people. So I think the Sun hitting a soft Moon (again, if the person in said situation was sensitive to it) would cause them to feel pressured to move out their shell and trying to get on the Sun's level of activeness. Moon prefers to recluse and well.. the Sun doesn't like to just sit around. For two females.. if a female's Sun hits a female's Moon then perhaps the Moon will antagonize her.. then of course it depends on the more specific aspects.. ask the more advanced astrologer here if my theory is true.. It could be other factors
My sun and moon are exact so what's that make me lol IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4566 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 24, 2014 04:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: My sun and moon are exact so what's that make me lol
Perfect yin-yang mix!! IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 3975 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted June 24, 2014 04:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: Perfect yin-yang mix!!
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babybull82 Knowflake Posts: 242 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 24, 2014 07:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: Intuition?I've disliked people for no reason and later found that I was correct for disliking them after doubting my intuition.
Yes!!! This used to happen to me a lot and people would say that I'm not giving the person a chance, but I can smell bs from a mile away and usually a few mos later peeps will come back saying "ya you were right about such and such"...
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SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 1541 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 24, 2014 07:47 PM
For some reason, people whose Sun, Moon or Venus fall on my 12th House..(Leo/Virgo cusp)...instant dislike. Just don't touch THAT house and we're good. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4566 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 24, 2014 08:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by SilverFeather: For some reason, people whose Sun, Moon or Venus fall on my 12th House..(Leo/Virgo cusp)...instant dislike. Just don't touch THAT house and we're good.
Hey!!! You're back! I remember you made a thread for me and I didn't get to reply. How are you? I'm glad my readings came true for you. IP: Logged |
SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 1541 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 24, 2014 08:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: Hey!!! You're back! I remember you made a thread for me and I didn't get to reply. How are you? I'm glad my readings came true for you.
hey sweetie I missed you, you disappeared for a while back then and I asked around about you and they told me you were having some issues. Life got busier for me too so I had to leave for while, I'm back though I'm doing great and you ? Yes, the last reading you gave me was very true. I was quite surprised because out of all the readings I had, yours was the only one which came true. You're amazing IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4566 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 24, 2014 08:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by SilverFeather: hey sweetie I missed you, you disappeared for a while back then and I asked around about you and they told me you were having some issues. Life got busier for me too so I had to leave for while, I'm back though I'm doing great and you ? Yes, the last reading you gave me was very true. I was quite surprised because out of all the readings I had, yours was the only one which came true. You're amazing
Yay! I'm better than before for sure! I hope it stays that way. Ooh can you tell me what happened (or on another thread on PR)? I would like to see. Thanks! I made a topic a few weeks back asking if we could exchange or if I could offer another reading for you. Let me bump it.
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SilverFeather Knowflake Posts: 1541 From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times Registered: Aug 2012
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posted June 24, 2014 08:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: Yay! I'm better than before for sure! I hope it stays that way. Ooh can you tell me what happened (or on another thread on PR)? I would like to see. Thanks! I made a topic a few weeks back asking if we could exchange or if I could offer another reading for you. Let me bump it.
Can't believe you can get any better than you already are hhhh Alright hon bump it, I will go and check it. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 4566 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted June 24, 2014 08:43 PM
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whaaat Knowflake Posts: 240 From: Portland, MA,U.S Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 24, 2014 08:43 PM
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