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Azurenite
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posted June 25, 2014 10:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azurenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He's been saying he loves me for about a month now but he still avoids being alone with me. We have not been intimate. I don't understand this interesting creature. I'm Scorpio Sun. The rest of his chart is all earth and water but I was wondering if anyone has insight into Aquarius Sun men?

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fishbull11
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posted June 25, 2014 11:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fishbull11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Strange for an aqua, must be a pisces venus. Sounds like he doesn't know what he wants if he won't even spend anytime alone with you, your suns square or oppose which isn't the worst thing (unless you ask Demi and Ashton) but I would say this is one conflicted head in the clouds persona, maybe ignore.

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posted June 25, 2014 11:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Afraid of being smothered/losing freedom. That's what first popped into my head. Not just because of the aqua. That's just what came to mind.
Just... Unsure about SOMETHING.

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posted June 25, 2014 11:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dont like the mixed message of "I love you" and the unspoken "I don't want to spend time alone with you."

imo that's too weird even for an aqua.
I'd bail,but that's just me.

...the only thing I can think of, maybe he thinks he wouldn't be able to control himself if he were to be alone with you? Even then, haha,I dunno.....If you're both young it makes sense, but if you're both older it doesn't. Jmo.

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posted June 26, 2014 01:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I knew an aqua sun man who did this to me. He came on so strong. When I finally gave in it was fun. He made me crazy about him. Then he just withdrew. I was so confused and I was waiting for him to come aroumd again. Finally my feelings died down to nothing and I got over him. He came back, pursing me full force again. He told me he was getting strong feelings for me so he had to step back. I could understand, being an aqua, I'm like that too. Later he even brought up the topic of marriage. So.....

Anyways good luck o.o I'm thinking maybe he's getting strong feelings for you and he's scared of commitment/getting hurt.

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posted June 26, 2014 08:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Azurenite:
He's been saying he loves me for about a month now but he still avoids being alone with me. We have not been intimate. I don't understand this interesting creature. I'm Scorpio Sun. The rest of his chart is all earth and water but I was wondering if anyone has insight into Aquarius Sun men?

You fell under the snare of an Aquarius man. Tough. Tough. Tough.

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posted June 26, 2014 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Scorpio friend who was going out with an Aqua guy, who never spent time alone with her! Unlike your situation, he never told her he loved her, though. He seemed to prefer hanging out with her in a group setting. I thought it was because he's afraid of intimacy.

Maybe you should post your synastry with him?May shed some insight.

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Azurenite
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posted June 27, 2014 12:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azurenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
I have a Scorpio friend who was going out with an Aqua guy, who never spent time alone with her! Unlike your situation, he never told her he loved her, though. He seemed to prefer hanging out with her in a group setting. I thought it was because he's afraid of intimacy.

Maybe you should post your synastry with him?May shed some insight.


OK. what is the best way to do that? I have our birth info, or do I post a chart?

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posted June 27, 2014 12:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
You fell under the snare of an Aquarius man. Tough. Tough. Tough.


As an Aqua woman I agree! I can't date another Aquarians, it would a stalemate of nothingness.
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I would post your synastry so we can see what is going on between your charts

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aquaguy91
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posted June 27, 2014 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Eh.. I don't relate to anything that is being said here. I am an Aqua sun,ascendant,and venus and I have no problem spending time alone with the girl I like, in fact I prefer spending time one on one.

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posted June 27, 2014 03:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My fiance is an aqua sun, merc, venus, and jupiter...

He told me he loved me the first time quite on accident. Said it while he was dropping me off..a kiss and a lingering hug and he whispered it.. I wasn't meant to hear it, so I acted like I didn't. We hadn't even been dating a month. He didn't back off though. If anything he became more insistent on being with and around me. Alone or group it didn't seem to matter as long as he was with me..

Does he have a pisces merc or venus? I'm just curious because aquas are usually pretty decisive and once they (aqua sun/venus) decide they feel a certain way nothing short of a wrecking ball will sway them. Stubborn as a mule lol... And a pisces merc could account for saying something he wasn't really sure he wanted to say...i dont mean to dash your hopes by any means. Just because hes unsure doesnt mean hes not interested. He could be unsure becaise he IS interested and his aqua influence is afraid of being more than friends because it could ruin what you already have...

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posted June 27, 2014 03:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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aquas are usually pretty decisive and once they (aqua sun/venus) decide they feel a certain way nothing short of a wrecking ball will sway them. Stubborn as a mule

I agree lol
They are usually like this.. even with Pisces Mercury haha

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posted June 27, 2014 11:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azurenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He does have mercury in Pisces! LOL! It forms a lovely trine to my moon (cancer) and venus (scorpio) 2 and 4 degrees respectively.

So I suppose he loves me "as friends", that is still good, he is a wonderful person. Our Suns square by 4 degrees, our mercury's square exact. I'm Sag merc.

We have spent a lot of time together alone. We work together, we go for coffee and meals together alone and within groups. It's just since he's been saying "I love you" that he is not 'available' to me one on one, for about a month now. He's dropped that hint to have dinner but it's never materialized. And because we work together it's his reason not to be intimate. I think it's his reason to not get involved. However, I wouldn't let that stop me.

His moon is in Virgo, conjunct my IC and Pluto in my fourth house. My moon squares his Pluto. His Taurus Mars is conjunct my Saturn opposed my Sun and Venus. And his Venus is in Capricorn conjunct my descendent. My Sun is right on his descendent.

I really love the tasty squares between us. There is so much sexual innuendo in most of our conversations. All the scorpio in me looooves it and it always makes me think there could be a possibility.

Thank you for all the responses. I love to hear about your experiences. Aquarius is my NN, so he's in my life to teach me all kinds of lessons I guess.

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posted June 28, 2014 02:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
I agree lol
They are usually like this.. even with Pisces Mercury haha

Lol it frustrates the crap outta me sometimes, but I do love my Aquas dearly, and its good for me. Ive got a mutable sun/merc in a mutable house AND my merc is retro. Its amazing I get anything accomplished sometimes. Thank goodness for my fixed moon

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posted June 28, 2014 02:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yep. Aqua are ultra stubborn once they make up their mind... Though that is ONCE they make up thier mind. They might be on the fence forever until some random day for seemingly no reason you know of, but only the Aquarius can fathom, their heart is set.

Also. Aquarians love to say they'll do something and keep putting it off. Or maybe that's just me. I hate making plans because I hate not having the freedom to change my mind. I dunno though. Seems I'm slipperier than the other aquas here.

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posted June 28, 2014 04:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love this thread!

Currently, I'm dating an Aqua Sun/Merc/Venus, Leo moon. My blind date, if anyone remembers :P

He seems to really like me and he says he does. I really like him, too. But it's complicated and I'm afraid he'll lose interest before we can get through some of these complications.

We have a lot of squares as well, which don't freak me out. It's Uranus that freaks me out. One day you're here, the next your not?!

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posted June 28, 2014 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for freebrainstorms     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aqua sun/virgo moon female here...but my venus actually is in pisces (and for the record, no we would want to swallow you into a dreamland where we only emerge days later, time alone is awesome, not having time alone together....impossible for a pisces venus)

I don't really get him, my only guess is that it feels too real/big for him and he's terrified. Just slowly spend tiny amounts of time together with him, in small portions to get him used to it - aka don't jump him immediately

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posted June 28, 2014 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azurenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Also. Aquarians love to say they'll do something and keep putting it off. Or maybe that's just me. I hate making plans because I hate not having the freedom to change my mind. I dunno though. Seems I'm slipperier than the other aquas here.[/B]

Sounds like my aqua! After spending about a year and a half under his spell, I've started being able to let it slide. I used to take it so personally. It's actually quite entertaining discovering what makes him tick.

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posted June 28, 2014 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for freebrainstorms     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Yep. Aqua are ultra stubborn once they make up their mind... Though that is ONCE they make up thier mind. They might be on the fence forever until some random day for seemingly no reason you know of, but only the Aquarius can fathom, their heart is set.

Also. Aquarians love to say they'll do something and keep putting it off. Or maybe that's just me. I hate making plans because I hate not having the freedom to change my mind. I dunno though. Seems I'm slipperier than the other aquas here.


THIS IS ALL SOOOOOOOOOOO TRUE. Lol

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posted June 28, 2014 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azurenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:

I don't really get him, my only guess is that it feels too real/big for him and he's terrified. Just slowly spend tiny amounts of time together with him, in small portions to get him used to it - aka don't jump him immediately [/B]


Seems like this is good advice!

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posted June 28, 2014 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aquarians don't lose interest like that. I'd say the other air signs do but once you captured the aquas interest you have it. Most likely he'll be the one that's always changing and doing new things and expecting you be a passenger in the ride rather than the other way around. Also aqua guys and even Aqua Venus/mars are kinda dominant. You won't have to be the one that's always thinking of new things to excite him because it's already going on in his head. Like I said as long as you're up for the ride you will keep his interest

Uranus isn't that bad. People like to say how aquas just pack up and leave randomly one day, but that's because we are so easygoing we let the other people do whatever they want even if it hurts or irritates us without ever causing a scene. Then one day we've had enough and poof.

Also we don't like showing on the outside how deeply we feel on the inside!

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posted June 28, 2014 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Aquarians don't lose interest like that. I'd say the other air signs do but once you captured the aquas interest you have it. Most likely he'll be the one that's always changing and doing new things and expecting you be a passenger in the ride rather than the other way around. Also aqua guys and even Aqua Venus/mars are kinda dominant. You won't have to be the one that's always thinking of new things to excite him because it's already going on in his head. Like I said as long as you're up for the ride you will keep his interest

Uranus isn't that bad. People like to say how aquas just pack up and leave randomly one day, but that's because we are so easygoing we let the other people do whatever they want even if it hurts or irritates us without ever causing a scene. Then one day we've had enough and poof.

Also we don't like showing on the outside how deeply we feel on the inside!


I love this post! Thank you.

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posted June 28, 2014 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Aquarians don't lose interest like that. I'd say the other air signs do but once you captured the aquas interest you have it. Most likely he'll be the one that's always changing and doing new things and expecting you be a passenger in the ride rather than the other way around. Also aqua guys and even Aqua Venus/mars are kinda dominant. You won't have to be the one that's always thinking of new things to excite him because it's already going on in his head. Like I said as long as you're up for the ride you will keep his interest

Uranus isn't that bad. People like to say how aquas just pack up and leave randomly one day, but that's because we are so easygoing we let the other people do whatever they want even if it hurts or irritates us without ever causing a scene. Then one day we've had enough and poof.

Also we don't like showing on the outside how deeply we feel on the inside!


And all of this is why I love my aquarius

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posted June 28, 2014 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is there Saturn synastry?
Maybe there's something going on there?
Anyone else think that could be possible?

Like feeling restricted somehow... Unable to follow through.

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posted June 29, 2014 03:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azurenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This relationship feels very saturnine to me.

My Saturn is conjunct his Asc and Mars, square his Sun. He probably feels like I judge him constantly.

My Desc. is Cappi conjunct his venus.

His Saturn conjunct his SN

My Saturn oppose my sun and venus

We also have a DW Chiron/Pluto opposition exact.

One thing that is interesting yet I don't know much about is his Nodal axis along with Saturn conjunct his SN is exactly squared (his moon on my Pluto and IC)/MC Axis. Make sense?

Also, his AC/DC axis is squared (4 degrees) with my nodal axis.

When we are alone together the energy gets very heavy and intense. It's only when we are around other people and their energy do we lighten up.

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