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Topic: How to say goodbye to a Scorpio "friend?"
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 982
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 26, 2014 05:37 PM
  
Used to be a "relationship" or being taken advantage of 1 year and a half ago, split last September and agreed to be "friends" I feel so hurt by how it's all played out, he's gone behind my back said nasty things while putting on a facade of niceness to me. Should I rant angrily about the truth? (at least it will get my message across) or a sugar coated goodbye? Which one would a Scorpio prefer? I have really mixed feelings, I care for him but I need to cut ties, because I can't offer him anything as a friend and he's just saying bad things about me and has the upper hand. I'm a sag mercury so should I just rant out my anger and say it how it is? Feel so so hurt right now how he could deceive me. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
Knowflake Posts: 498
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 26, 2014 05:44 PM
The best way to hurt a Scorpio is to cut us off cold.No warning, no explanation, no nothing. Ice him out completely as if he never existed. This may or may not be hard for you, but it definitely works. I am a Scorpio with Mercury(r), Venus, Jupiter, Pluto, Descendant all in Scorpio. My 7th house is also ruled by Pluto! Trust me, it will work We tend to take advantage of our power if you let us. Get your power back. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 982
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 26, 2014 05:49 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Yanmorg:
The best way to hurt a Scorpio is to cut us off cold.No warning, no explanation, no nothing. Ice him out completely as if he never existed. This may or may not be hard for you, but it definitely works. I am a Scorpio with Mercury(r), Venus, Jupiter, Pluto, Descendant all in Scorpio. My 7th house is also ruled by Pluto! Trust me, it will work We tend to take advantage of our power if you let us. Get your power back.
I feel I need to get the last word in, so he knows the truth. As a sag justice is from the truth. Think I'll message then cutt off. IP: Logged |
ariestaurus
Knowflake Posts: 348
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 26, 2014 06:01 PM
I agree with yanmorg. He doesn't deserve your time!!!! Don't give it to him!!!IP: Logged |
sunflower-moon
Knowflake Posts: 197
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 26, 2014 06:15 PM
Yes, if your goal is to make him feel bad then cutting off contact completely with no explanation is definitely the way to go. Figure out what you need to do/say that would benefit YOU the most. IP: Logged |
fishbull11
Knowflake Posts: 89
From: depths
Registered: May 2014
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posted June 26, 2014 06:35 PM
He'll see through a sugar coated goodbye if you choose that route, sounds like he is the unevolved type I would let him have it...then move a couple of counties away. Good luck.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 2030
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted June 26, 2014 06:45 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Yanmorg:
The best way to hurt a Scorpio is to cut us off cold.No warning, no explanation, no nothing. Ice him out completely as if he never existed. This may or may not be hard for you, but it definitely works. I am a Scorpio with Mercury(r), Venus, Jupiter, Pluto, Descendant all in Scorpio. My 7th house is also ruled by Pluto! Trust me, it will work We tend to take advantage of our power if you let us. Get your power back.
100% agree IP: Logged |
Sibyl
Knowflake Posts: 864
From: Uranus
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 26, 2014 08:22 PM
I think you should be honest. I find scorpios usually really appreciate honesty. I think he will take more offense If you are not open about why you are cutting him off. So I think you should be frank. It has always worked for me. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 8618
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 26, 2014 08:50 PM
If you say bye bye during Mercury retro, chances are you'll regret your decision once it turns direct.Be careful with what you say/do. IP: Logged |
ash20
Knowflake Posts: 500
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted June 26, 2014 09:18 PM
Anyone who talks bad about you behind your back and pretends to be your friend should be cut off immediately without any remorse. Don't even bother trying to explain yourself to him. You know your truth so f*** what he saysIP: Logged |
Comatoes
Knowflake Posts: 151
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 26, 2014 09:53 PM
Since you are a Sag. Mercury you have no problem expressing yourself and telling things honestly and truthfully. I would take the high road, and state how you feel and why you are leaving the friendship and that this is the final conversation you will have with him. Don't relent and stay the course. I think in the future your conscious would feel better and you received your own closure on your own terms. I'm not a Sag. but my dad has Sag Asc and Moon and he always believes in doing things the right way, to the point, truthful, and always professional and upfront. Sags can handle their own in any confrontation, I just wish I was like that. Good luck. IP: Logged |
lvASTRO
Knowflake Posts: 158
From: Las Vegas, NV
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 26, 2014 10:08 PM
Don't say anything, IMO. It's useless. He obviously doesn't deserve your time and energy, AND what good will it do? You're cutting him off--Anyway...I like to write out a note or type a word document of exactly what I feel like saying, read it aloud, the delete it/burn it/throw it away. Gets the words out, you feel better, and then it's gone. IP: Logged |
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