posted June 30, 2014 05:03 AM            

I've read that they can be quite emotionally detached. Do you agree?

The guy in mind has his Mars at 0° Aqua. Would this make him express his Mars traits strongly or is it a weaker placement?

Would a Mars in Aqua guy be aggressive in his pursuit if he was interested?

Any insights appreciated

posted June 30, 2014 05:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Moon is Lunatic:
I don't know any Aqua Mars people, so I'm pretty clueless about this placement, but any planet at 0° degrees is very strong, he is probably very typical Aqua Mars.

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That's what I was afraid of lol.
Thanks though

posted June 30, 2014 05:14 AM            

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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
I have mars in aqua but I'm not a man .
I'm not sure if it would make a difference.

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Describe yourself anyhow Would you be direct if you liked a guy?

I'm sure some traits apply to both ??

posted June 30, 2014 08:10 AM            

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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
I make sure that he knows that I'm interested I am quite direct but I prefer to attact them to myself than actively chase. For example I met my current bf in a course 6 years ago and everyone in the course knew that I liked him because I was staring at him or watching him all the time, before we met each other. Once I had the chance to meet him I used every opportunity to get close to him . I make it crystal clear with my actions if I like someone. He was the first one to tell me he liked me though. I never care about what everyone else thinks, I'm very target oriented. I can be direct and tell them that I like them right away but I think it kills the excitement a little that's why I don't. Something a little bit tactical I guess.

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posted June 30, 2014 08:17 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Some are kinky and sometimes not in a good way. That's all I will say.

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I've read this a few times about this placement so there must be something to it!

posted July 02, 2014 02:56 AM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
They're the guys that will try EVERYTHING and ANYTHING once... might be a little detached during sex. Likes kink because they need that mental stimulation. Yeah you can train them to approach sex more romantically becaue thatll definately be new twrritory and they gotra try it at least once but this is their inclination.

It seems to me like a lot of aqua suns/venus/mars guys will pursue you intensely and when you give in, get scared and hide. Of course by them you might be crazy for this guy but you gotta lure them out gently like a rabbit lol. Maybe not mars so much but commitment phobe because their love actually runs very deep and it scares them.

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Thanks. This is food for thought.

He is a a Sag Sun conjunct Venus and Neptune too. He's charming but can be really shy. I get the impression that he wouldn't make a move until he is really sure he won't be rejected which kind of goes against the Mars in Aqua. Maybe it's the Neptune and Sun aspect causing a lack of confidence?

posted July 02, 2014 03:00 AM            

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Originally posted by AlexDern:
Aquarius is not a sign of emotional detachment in the sense that people don't care...it's detachment in terms of objectivity.

An aquarius person will be up front and direct initially...but I also know aquarius people with two sides...beware of the ones who have not met the test of saturn.

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posted July 02, 2014 03:11 AM            

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Mystic_Cat:
[B](Check the fixed position as it could be in Pisces or Capricorn )

Your descriptions seem to be true for him. He is very much stands out from everyone else and he thinks about the future a lot. He also is into psychology or at least enjoys figuring out how other people tick.

posted July 02, 2014 03:41 PM            

With his Mars in Aquarius in regards to expression of feelings; I find he is detached because of getting hurt. He's been hurt in the past many times over. He has a huge heart, that he loves deeply with, and woman in the past have bruised and crushed it. Thus he expresses his feelings for me in direct and indirect ways, however he is waiting to express his deepest feelings until he feels more secure. Almost like he doesn't want to rush a good thing, doesn't want to push; but allow things to flow perfectly.

With the need for emotional security, I wouldn't be surprised if it is rooted from his Moon in Capricorn. Anyways with a Mars in Aquarius guy you have to understand that he will be expressive in ways that you have to look out for, or you may miss what he means.

posted July 02, 2014 04:35 PM            

This sounds like my guy! (mars and venus I aqua).I sometimes don't know if he cares as he is away...but then he'll send me the sweetest message or send me a song which lyrics tell me all I need to know He does it when he feels comfortable.

posted July 03, 2014 02:56 AM            

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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
Thus he expresses his feelings for me in direct and indirect ways, however he is waiting to express his deepest feelings until he feels more secure. Almost like he doesn't want to rush a good thing, doesn't want to push; but allow things to flow perfectly.

This sounds like my guy! (mars and venus I aqua).I sometimes don't know if he cares as he is away...but then he'll send me the sweetest message or send me a song which lyrics tell me all I need to know He does it when he feels comfortable.

Sparkling

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I went out with the guy in question years ago and that's how I remember it too. It's like every move is very planned out and carried out with caution.

posted July 03, 2014 03:06 AM            

But this I can get on board with:

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Originally posted by Polyhemnia:

They want someone willing to figure them out like a puzzle.

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posted July 03, 2014 06:47 AM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Aquarian sun/Venus/Mars people are very scared when in comes to love. They feel it deeply but they don't understand. They definitely need a lot more patience.

Yes he will show his love in subtle indirect ways. Look out for the little things. The typical guy will bring you flowers, say the same things all guys say, hold your hand at the right time..., the aqua guy will randomly buy you a stuffed wolf because you mentioned it was your favorite animal in a fleeting conversation five months ago and he saw it at the gas station while filling up, he'll say things that aren't very romantic but are so different you'll know you're one of a kind to him, and he'll have a receipt from your first date pinned above his bed

Like sparkingsag said, he'll do it when he feels comfortable. Give him the space to do it, as in don't press him for emotional declarations, just let him come around to you. He always will. Aqua is a fixed sign after all, erratic but stable.

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So beautifully said! You are right too, about their memory, I forget that he remembers everything I say until he brings something up weeks later or months later. It's the little things that count.

posted July 03, 2014 06:58 AM            

He told me when he sees a classy looking chick he just has to talk to her and suss her background out..he's very innovative in the ways he tries to talk to women. He is very direct with what he wants and will do what he can to get her attention...

posted July 03, 2014 08:17 AM            

He definitely pursued me but it was very verbal/witty/sarcastic

When we did get physically close, he did seem very detached and almost like he wasn't interested. It was weird and ultimately the reason I cut things off.

I still respect him and think he's a nice person BUT my Leo mars didn't mesh with his Aqua mars lol. I read somewhere online while I was seeing him that Aqua Mars men can be the eternal bachelor and they're quite a-sexual or prefer online/phone sex to actual physical sex lol...

posted July 03, 2014 10:49 AM            

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Originally posted by gamine:

He told me when he sees a classy looking chick he just has to talk to her and suss her background out..he's very innovative in the ways he tries to talk to women. He is very direct with what he wants and will do what he can to get her attention...

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Thanks this is insightful
And it's funny cos I've noticed he'll do this quite a bit. He watches to see what I'm interested in and will bring up something specifically to get my attention.