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Topic: "What are you looking at?" types
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DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 07, 2014 12:34 AM
  
So tonight (around 11ish) I stopped at this laundromat real quick because I wanted some quarters.
I walk in and there's this skinny guy, big, dirty looking, curly hair. His S.O. or wife... and like 5 little kids running all over the damn place. All under 5 or 6.
One kid did something and he was yelling at the kid - outside the building. I looked over because I'm a people watcher. I really didn't think anything of it to be honest.
I get my quarters and I'm leaving. He's sitting in his car, facing me and I see no kid. I hear him start talking very loudly so I thought he was talking to me. I figured out he was talking to his kid. So I kept going. Then I hear, "Can I help you?" I looked back over, "No. Why?" He said, "Because you keep looking at me. Why don't you mind your own business?"
I felt a really strong desire to walk over to him and tell him how I felt. "I thought you were talking to me. I don't give a **** about you or your damn kids."
I was ready to throw down if he wanted... freakin' psychopath.
But it just came out as, "I don't care about you dude." He told me good and to quit looking then. I wanted to tell him to take his insecurities out on someone else who gives a ****. lol
I just drove off. As a Leo... feeling a little unsatisfied. We're ready to just go for the gold, you know?  Though I have only had one such occurrence in my adult life. This guy just pushed my buttons.
I'm all good now though. I quickly let it go other than it freaked Barbie out. Sooooooo.... it got me thinking. What placement/aspects cause this kind of behavior? My dad used to do it I guess when he was drunk. This guy tonight was just a spaz. I started thinking about his possible signs or aspects but I'm dumbfounded. I'm thinking possibly water with maybe a fire moon/mars... or something along that line.
My dad was Sag with Cancer moon. IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8
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posted July 07, 2014 12:59 AM
I'm lost on that one; gonna have to play around with some aspects. I know of a former friend who was quick to embrace an altercation - had Mars Square Pluto in 1H. Would have to agree on Fire Moon or Mars I have Mars on the Asc and my "what are you looking at" countenance speaks for me - I don't readily leap into possible throw downs, I'm too fixated on the outcome of kicking ass. Consequences POP in my head, be it jail time or my life ending! But nope, I won't jump up like the big bad wolf and say what are you looking at? I'll just stare you down - I have no problem with giving you the eye! IP: Logged |
yellowelevator
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From: Michigan, Neptune, and sometimes Pluto
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posted July 08, 2014 01:01 AM
Also agreeing on the possibility of a fire moon or mars. My mom's S.O. is a Leo Moon and an Aries Mars and he is extremely quick to take action and speak his mind, not usually caring first about others feelings or if he'll hurt/scare them. He has no issue in being up front and saying something brash or sarcastic to a random stranger that does/says something to irk him, even when it would normally be something that wouldn't irk or set other people off. So yeah, I'm gonna agree with fire. Mode/energy-wise, I'll say probably Cardinal because of having that go-forth energy and not being afraid to try or do things.I had a similar situation happen to me before when I was like 13ish. I was waiting in the car in a parking lot of a used book store while my mom was dropping a book off or something and I stayed in the car. I didn't realize it at all but I must have been absentmindedly staring out the front window when some young girl and her mother walked by and this girl shouted, "What are you staring at?", Really rudely. I was in shock because I wasn't staring on purpose at all, I was probably daydreaming, and it was just so uncalled for. The most baffling thing about it was that the mother didn't say anything at all to her daughter, just kept on walking like it was totally okay for her to be so rude to a random person who was still sitting in their car. It's like uhhh, seriously? IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
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posted July 08, 2014 01:20 AM
Yeah that sounds like me. I watch people and I just kind of zone out.... Like I'm just studying. He kind of surprised me because I didn't realize that I was staring. Makes you wonder.... Was he staring also then? I think he was self-conscious about disciplining his kid.
Anyway...I still feel annoyed today even because it feels unfinished. I just got in my car and left and that's not what I wanted to do. Probably the Leo sun. (on Regulus) Another time I saw this younger girl as I was driving down a side street. She was digging in her belly button for Idk why. So I was curiously looking. Genuinely I was curious. She yelled something like, "ewwww don't look at me perverted old man."
I really wasn't so it ****** me off. I turned my car around and told her not to flatter herself and dig your lint out at home, freak show. lol
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DeepFreeze
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posted July 08, 2014 01:22 AM
My sag sun dad used to pick fights a lot I hear just for people looking at him. He'd just hit them. lol IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted July 08, 2014 01:29 AM
Mars on AC or Aries dominant chart....Aries moons are bad like that.
My son has an aries Mars and Venus and even with his cute lil pisces Sun, taurus Moon and scorp AC... I can't believe how ballsy he is at times.
Of course it's always in protection of the under dog or to defend someone's honor(pisces, ugh) but he doesn't back down...it's got to be the aries! Taurus moon wouldn't do that and scorpio would stalk you but not confront you.
My other son has saggy Sun, cancer Moon, taurus AC scorp Venus and Mars.... Lol he'd run to the car n hide! He's only 9 though!
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Gabby
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posted July 08, 2014 01:31 AM
Personally I don't think it's saggy energy that does that...we are kind of laid back. My vote is still for Aries!!IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted July 08, 2014 01:46 AM
Your son has my dads placements just about. Unknown asc. Sag sun, cancer moon, Scorpio Venus, Gemini Mars.
He had Leo Pluto though, square Venus and Sextile Mars. He was a successful businessman.  IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted July 08, 2014 01:58 AM
quote:
Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Your son has my dads placements just about. Unknown asc. Sag sun, cancer moon, Scorpio Venus, Gemini Mars. He was a successful businessman.
That's good to know, my lil guy seems to have a good head on his shoulders. I can't ever see him picking fights, he's very mild.
Maybe your dad mars on AC?
I knew 2 guys born 2 days apart, both scorp their charts were so similar but one had Mars on AC and the other didn't. The one could be kind of a bully, was so loud n obnoxious when he drank and always had a chip on his shoulder, the other was pretty quiet and calm. IP: Logged |
yellowelevator
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From: Michigan, Neptune, and sometimes Pluto
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posted July 08, 2014 02:44 AM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Yeah that sounds like me. I watch people and I just kind of zone out.... Like I'm just studying. He kind of surprised me because I didn't realize that I was staring. Makes you wonder.... Was he staring also then? I think he was self-conscious about disciplining his kid.
Anyway...I still feel annoyed today even because it feels unfinished. I just got in my car and left and that's not what I wanted to do. Probably the Leo sun. (on Regulus) Another time I saw this younger girl as I was driving down a side street. She was digging in her belly button for Idk why. So I was curiously looking. Genuinely I was curious. She yelled something like, "ewwww don't look at me perverted old man."
I really wasn't so it ****** me off. I turned my car around and told her not to flatter herself and dig your lint out at home, freak show. lol
Haha yep, I'm guilty of people-watching but I find it amusing and fun. But not when it's absentminded and you get yelled at for it lol. He must have been staring as well! Or at least caught your eye at that specific moment and then decided to say what he said. And I feel you on not wanting to just walk away. It was probably for the best that you did though, who knows what that guy could have done. Wow, I have Sun on Regulus too! Haha. That's hilarious, hahah. I would have gazed too, in amazement. That is gross that she would do that, but then again, there's so much weird **** that people do anymore than I feel I have no 'surprised' bone in my body lol. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 08, 2014 06:16 AM
Staring at people will rarely evoke a positive response, it is something that usually makes people feel uncomfortable. Staring is often perceived as an act of aggression, especially when it occurs between men. My mom and brother "people watch". I'm surprised they haven't had people lash out at them yet. Me? I'm the exact opposite, I tend to live in my head and not worry about what other people are doing. Sure I look at people, but there is a fine line between looking and staring.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted July 08, 2014 01:23 PM
He was just weird... It could NOT have been more than 3-4 seconds. Not long! If he didn't want people to look at him.
Don't make a scene in public (he talked freaking loud)
Don't go in public then
lol The fine line that we'll never figure out is if what I did is considered staring. He just had a problem I'm saying... Based on the fact that people never do that to me - never. I can't recall another time. <---- and for that reason I won't debate if I was staring. He just had some psycho issues. He was afraid that I was going to turn him in about disciplining his kid. I know that's what it was.
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BellaFenice
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posted July 08, 2014 01:45 PM
Huh. I seem to have the opposite problem. I notice people stare at me a lot of times, but never approach me or say anything. Its like I have a permabooger on my nose that people are afraid to tell me about!Same thing with dating, I have to always approach. I don't mind it because men should always have to be the pursuer, but it would be nice if I didn't have to put the effort in. DeepFreeze, that guy sounds a little off. You didnt' do anything to warrant that reaction. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted July 08, 2014 02:10 PM
People stare at Barbie too and I mean stare! Really annoys her. You're probably just attractive and if nothing else I think you both have Venus in the first.
She does and I think you said that you do...?
I think that's it. Sometimes I look at people even if they are looking back.... But I don't want to get too deep. I have different feelings about people staring at me, depending on who, how, etc. I guess I gave him bad vibes. Either he didn't like my Pluto or more likely felt insecure about his parenting. I think it's unusual for people to behave like him so I wondered. I could see Aries moon. I know three of them. lol IP: Logged |
mareaire
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From: avalon
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posted July 08, 2014 03:22 PM
i'm a people watcher, but I never get caught looking! haha i would never lash out like the guy above, but i do get ****** when i get guys looking at me like i'm meat. i wanted to yell F*** You to a guy this morning, he was just staring at me while i was unloading my car in the parking lot. Get a life! but of course, i just looked away and went about my business. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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posted July 08, 2014 05:05 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
People stare at Barbie too and I mean stare! Really annoys her. You're probably just attractive and if nothing else I think you both have Venus in the first.
She does and I think you said that you do...?
I think that's it. Sometimes I look at people even if they are looking back.... But I don't want to get too deep. I have different feelings about people staring at me, depending on who, how, etc. I guess I gave him bad vibes. Either he didn't like my Pluto or more likely felt insecure about his parenting. I think it's unusual for people to behave like him so I wondered. I could see Aries moon. I know three of them. lol
Indeed I do! I think the 1st house stellium plays into it as well, so much energy to control. Believe it not I used to be deathly shy, couldn't talk to anyone. You're talking about Pluto in 1st tight? I think I remember you said you had that. Could be Aries moon- they are usually impulsive and brash lol. IP: Logged |
Selenite
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posted July 08, 2014 05:14 PM
i am like this. but i try not to show it, i try to ignore it. but inwardly i am waiting for you to stop looking at me because i just don't know what you want. i absorb peoples' energies so easily and staring makes me uncomfortable.sag sun/mercury
leo rising
aries moon
mars sq pluto in the 1st.
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DeepFreeze
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posted July 08, 2014 05:16 PM
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Indeed I do! I think the 1st house stellium plays into it as well, so much energy to control. Believe it not I used to be deathly shy, couldn't talk to anyone. You're talking about Pluto in 1st tight? I think I remember you said you had that. Could be Aries moon- they are usually impulsive and brash lol.
Yep... Pluto first conjunct asc. Maybe it comes off threatening and Aries moon confronts it. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted July 08, 2014 05:17 PM
You know what's great about having libra Pluto and Venus on AC...BUT having the evil lil Pluto as the tighter aspect to your AC?
When ppl stare...you don't always try to be polite...you can give them dirty looks, roll your eyes or if your really really in an mischievous mood, look straight at them and pick your nose!!! Lol! That's my favorite response because it makes my kids die laughing! IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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posted July 08, 2014 05:28 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
You know what's great about having libra Pluto and Venus on AC...BUT having the evil lil Pluto as the tighter aspect to your AC?
When ppl stare...you don't always try to be polite...you can give them dirty looks, roll your eyes or if your really really in an mischievous mood, look straight at them and pick your nose!!! Lol! That's my favorite response because it makes my kids die laughing!
LOLOLOL, maybe I should start picking my nose! Too funny. Edit: whats with people throwing the words 'screeching' and 'squawking' at me whenever I defend my opinion? I'm not a damn chicken for gods sake. lol. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted July 08, 2014 05:46 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Gabby:
You know what's great about having libra Pluto and Venus on AC...BUT having the evil lil Pluto as the tighter aspect to your AC?
When ppl stare...you don't always try to be polite...you can give them dirty looks, roll your eyes or if your really really in an mischievous mood, look straight at them and pick your nose!!! Lol! That's my favorite response because it makes my kids die laughing!
I should have just done some weird things like that when he was yelling at me. Just to throw him off. Trust me... I can get very creative!
Barbie often asks me playfully, "where did you come from?"
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Gabby
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posted July 08, 2014 09:32 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I should have just done some weird things like that when he was yelling at me. Just to throw him off. Trust me... I can get very creative!
Barbie often asks me playfully, "where did you come from?"
Lol, I believe that!! Leo's always seem to have creative ways to make ppl laugh in situations that could be stressful! Its one gift of being ruled by the Sun!
Both my brothers and mom were Leo's, I love Leo's! Well I love them until they outnumber me...together they kind of take over and I'm to laid back to do anything about it! Lol IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 08, 2014 10:20 PM
It doesn't matter if you are actually staring or not . All it takes is the person thinking you are staring at them. I notice that people think I'm staring when I'm not. I blame it on my pluto being in aspect to the ascendant. I can't even look at someone without getting that "what are you looking at" reaction. One time I had a girl scream at me for staring at her when I wasn't looking at her. I was actually looking at something beyond her. I guess I'm intimidating or something. I don't know what it is. LolIP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted July 09, 2014 04:05 AM
Gabby Haha and my sun Sextiles Gemini moon AG
Yeah you're probably right. Now that I think about it not many people actually look back. So they don't know if I'm still looking at them or not. IP: Logged |
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