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Topic: Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Aquarius in Natal Chart.
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Blue Neptune Newflake Posts: 11 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 07, 2014 08:09 PM
How would you describe this combination?IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms Knowflake Posts: 1270 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 08, 2014 01:28 AM
dangerous.IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4110 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 08, 2014 01:41 AM
Aspecting? Hot n cold at it's best...they really want to own you at the same time they need a ton of space and can't deal with being expected to fit into the mold of a relationship but you'd better behave, they tend to have a double standard, they can do whatever they want and you can do what they tell you to do. Which is I want you now, now go away, I want you now, now go away, I want you now, now go away....I'm sure you get the picture.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2253 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 08, 2014 01:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by freebrainstorms: dangerous.
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Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 347 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted July 08, 2014 02:35 AM
Ive been with two men that have this almost exact - major fidelity issues. Both were horribly geeky in their youth - as adults they are both extremely charming but have bad wandering eyes. Sneaky, can be selfish. IP: Logged |
Comatoes Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 08, 2014 03:15 AM
A sultry intellectual, that knows how to play mind games and look good doing it...IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 253 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 08, 2014 04:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by freebrainstorms: dangerous.
Venus in scorpio and mars in libra or gemini is even more dangerous IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 680 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 08, 2014 10:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: Venus in scorpio and mars in libra or gemini is even more dangerous
You said it!
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MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 253 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 08, 2014 10:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: You said it!
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Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 363 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 08, 2014 03:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Aspecting? Hot n cold at it's best...they really want to own you at the same time they need a ton of space and can't deal with being expected to fit into the mold of a relationship but you'd better behave, they tend to have a double standard, they can do whatever they want and you can do what they tell you to do. Which is I want you now, now go away, I want you now, now go away, I want you now, now go away....I'm sure you get the picture.
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sag_stellium Knowflake Posts: 395 From: 8th house Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 08, 2014 09:22 PM
Loyal, intense, committed but do their own thing. Idk if I just lucked out with some insanely awesome synastry, but I never experienced the hot and cold. It was just hot hot hot. I was the one who broke his heart. 2x. Poor guy. IP: Logged |
m.blade Knowflake Posts: 780 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted July 08, 2014 09:47 PM
I imagine it being riskyProbably very obsessive and might try and take control of you and then they'll want to be on their own. Scary I know someone who has this. Can't stand them IP: Logged |
nove731 Knowflake Posts: 268 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 08, 2014 09:59 PM
I dated a guy with this. At first, it seemed like a great match, with my Mars in Aqua and Venus in Pisces, but I actually found that although he was very sweet and polite most of the time, he was very aggressive when angry and was also often kind of cold. Not sure if that was specifically because of this combo, though. His Mars/Venus didn't aspect.------------------ Sun -> Aries Moon -> Sagittarius Ascendant -> Virgo IP: Logged |
Abc333 Knowflake Posts: 273 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 08, 2014 10:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Aspecting? Hot n cold at it's best...they really want to own you at the same time they need a ton of space and can't deal with being expected to fit into the mold of a relationship but you'd better behave, they tend to have a double standard, they can do whatever they want and you can do what they tell you to do. Which is I want you now, now go away, I want you now, now go away, I want you now, now go away....I'm sure you get the picture.
Holy crap, you described my ex fiance to a T!!! He has both these placements and it's exactly how he acted after we broke up. I couldn't take the hot and cold headgames after around 2 years so I just stopped talking to him altogether. IP: Logged |
Emily033 Knowflake Posts: 125 From: marysville, ca Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 09, 2014 01:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: Venus in scorpio and mars in libra or gemini is even more dangerous
Why is Venus in Scorpio with mars in Libra dangerous? IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 253 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 09, 2014 04:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Emily033: Why is Venus in Scorpio with mars in Libra dangerous?
Dangerous not in a bad way, but in a good way. These combinations are very very sweetly but intensely seductive. Preys are sexually mesmerized, in a nice, subtle, irresistible way. You know that charming, funny guy, that you can't resist flirting with, because of his wit and intelligence, and find yourself completely offering yourself to him as he is obviously not after you sexually and it's you who took that step? That's him, and he was luring you from the beginning These people know how to give you sexually arousing doses of flirting, with only minimal body language and words with double meaning, insinuating and inserting pictures in your head, opening you up, and turning you on. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 1027 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 09, 2014 04:45 PM
Kinky. Anyone with heavy scorpio/pluto aqua/uranus placements are going to be shocking . IP: Logged |
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 09, 2014 04:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: Dangerous not in a bad way, but in a good way. These combinations are very very sweetly but intensely seductive. Preys are sexually mesmerized, in a nice, subtle, irresistible way.You know that charming, funny guy, that you can't resist flirting with, because of his wit and intelligence, and find yourself completely offering yourself to him? That's him. And he was luring you from the beginning These people know how to give you sexually arousing doses of flirting, with only minimal body language and words with double meaning, insinuating and inserting pictures in your head, open you up, and turning you on.
Ugh. You just decribed his aquarius sun Scorpio moon guy I knew a long time ago. A mix of innocent but darkly sexual. Aqua Scorp combination is dangerous lol. Mind games of the sexual kind. But there is that hot and cold aspect, though until you give in they will be hot hot hot and if they start feeling vulnerable be prepared for the cold. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 253 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 09, 2014 05:31 PM
Venus in scorpio with mars in air are all like this. But aquarius, in my opinion, is the least likeable mars of all 3. The other two, gemini and libra, have a wider spectrum of preys (lol), and will be there for a while with higher charm, not only mind games. It's just my opinion.IP: Logged |
SoStellarOne Knowflake Posts: 38 From: Charleston,SC, US Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 09, 2014 09:36 PM
You guys are right about the "Hot & Cold" aspect, though I think its the same if it were Venus and Aquarius and Mars in Scorpio because my father is like this and it is by far one of my most difficult relationships in my immediate family. Currently, things are ok only if I keep interactions to a minimum. I have met other people with this placement as well and they are super sneaky, manipulative and lack a sense of boundaries. My father's cousin is the same age as him, but the guy basically played these deceptive mind games in trying to draw a wedge further in between my father and I, all while he had a sick, incestuous motivation all along towards me. When it came to light and he revealed his feelings, I made a clean break and he found himself banned from the family. This is indeed a difficult natal placement to deal with.IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1612 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 10, 2014 01:02 AM
The paradox is that Venus in Scorpio usually indicates an intense desire for passionate romance, while Mars in Aquarius is very independent, proud, and sometimes aloof. This means that a 'look, but don't touch' quality can submerge the individual with this configuration. As others have commented, a 'hot and cold' feel is appropriate. There is not much consistency when it comes to sexual drives. At times, these people will be entirely immersed in a passionate love affair; then, just as suddenly (Aquarius is sudden), they will withdraw when they feel they are being smothered, lack personal space, etc. Very ironic considering that Venus in Scorpio can be too invasive and possessive. Mars in Aquarius tempers this tendency, perhaps. At worst, you'll find someone who wants to possess others but not be possessed themselves. Very unfair. IP: Logged |