posted July 08, 2014 01:07 AM            

What i'm wondering is, if you have this aspect, do you have issues with relationship where you feel like they arent important, and that you don't care for them?

posted July 08, 2014 03:47 AM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:

What i'm wondering is, if you have this aspect, do you have issues with relationship where you feel like they arent important, and that you don't care for them?

If youve been in a relationship with someone who has this aspect, what was it like?

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I've been in a relationship where I was Venus conjunct a South node. For me it was the opposite, it was very important, and although it is over, I care very deeply still.

Generally speaking I am interested in serious relationships, but have very little inclination to seek one out. I rarely feel strongly enough about people to be interested.

posted July 08, 2014 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:

What i'm wondering is, if you have this aspect, do you have issues with relationship where you feel like they arent important, and that you don't care for them?

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If anything, I have issues with conventional relationships (for myself) that dictate a timetable and rate each participant's committment & feelings based on x + y = z. Then you march in line like everyone else does, each step as expected. Love has way too many forms and dimensions to be contained like that.

I don't care for or do meaningless relationships. I believe in those involved retaining as much freedom and independence as they need to be happy, deeply in love and committed to the life they are building. Honoring their bond and what it means to them. Doesn't necessarily mean marriage or living together or having a family.

Maybe the loose square to Uranus and not-loose trine to Neptune is coloring this a bit.

posted July 08, 2014 10:54 PM            

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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
I was in a relationship with someone with this...it felt incredible to be with him (but we had an exact Pluto/Moon so it could be that)...but I felt he had so much trouble finding and keeping love...as if love was his big thing to learn in this life--even though he was such a loving person himself...

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Originally posted by teasel:
I have this conjunction. My moon is there as well. I tend to feel like I'm not loved - I don't get the support that others do, most of the time, that I'm not worth it.

I don't always know how to accept/receive support, either. But if I ask for it, you know that I'm really hurting. That also tends to be when I'm usually denied.

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AWWW! You guys just make me want to cuddle up my venus SN friend and show them how much they are loved. I'm always so afraid of showing it to them because i'm afraid that they aren't interested in romanticism or sentimentality or that it will just scare them away lol. If only they knew!

posted July 08, 2014 10:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Insilver:
If anything, I have issues with conventional relationships (for myself) that dictate a timetable and rate each participant's committment & feelings based on x + y = z. Then you march in line like everyone else does, each step as expected. Love has way too many forms and dimensions to be contained like that.

I don't care for or do meaningless relationships. I believe in those involved retaining as much freedom and independence as they need to be happy, deeply in love and committed to the life they are building. Honoring their bond and what it means to them. Doesn't necessarily mean marriage or living together or having a family.

Maybe the loose square to Uranus and not-loose trine to Neptune is coloring this a bit.

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posted July 08, 2014 10:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
I've been in a relationship where I was Venus conjunct a South node. For me it was the opposite, it was very important, and although it is over, I care very deeply still.

Generally speaking I am interested in serious relationships, but have very little inclination to seek one out. I rarely feel strongly enough about people to be interested.

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posted July 09, 2014 05:26 AM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:
Do you mean that you have this natally or in a synastry with someone?

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I used to have it synastrically with someone. Sadly, no longer.

posted July 09, 2014 01:05 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:
I wonder if this has to do with the social aspect of venus? When I think of venus north node people, I feel like they have a fascination with social formalities as if it's something they are trying to learn in this lifetime which I personally feel is superficial. When I think of venus and the south node, I figured it would be as if these are things that the individual has already mastered and probably doesn't care for as much, but with they way you describe it, it seems to have more to do with the social formality aspect of relationships, rather than the actual bond itself, interesting!

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I find that interesting too, great insight arcturiann.

posted July 11, 2014 01:00 PM            

I have the impression that with Venus on SN the person tends to fall in his love/social interaction back to old patterns... Venus sitting there is so powerful that it holds him back from moving towards his Libra NN.

"Me first", very loud and provocative, immature boyish behaviour, "Id rather run to the opposite direction and insult the person I like" attitude coupled with innocent charm.