posted July 10, 2014 03:38 AM            

Just leave him alone. He will show up when or if he feels like it OR tell him how you feel and take it from there.

Final thought: he sounds very immature (doesn't know if he wants to know bla bla bla ZZZzzzzzZZZZzz) and that makes me think he doesn't like you the way you want him to like you.

posted July 10, 2014 07:35 AM            

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Originally posted by PrettyPisces:
Charlie : I don't know if you read it right lol. I'm the one who wants to know. Even thou he keeps questioning that isn't an indication the feelings are mutual . He may just be curious . But I think he is getting annoyed with me . I saw him this pass weekend . He didn't hug me , but I caught him staring at me like three times. And he told me I looked pretty. But he's distant as far as communication goes

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All this miscommunication is EASILY solved speaking your mind in regards to him. Tell him how you feel and all problems are solved.

Any guy in history of men that are being distant are being distant because they don't want to be closer. Unless he is superrrrrrrrrrr shy and pees in his pants everytime he sees you..

posted July 10, 2014 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by PrettyPisces:
I was having a convo with my friend. And out of no where he says " You're a good person but their is something deceptive and manipulative about you, I don't know what it is , it's like always something underlying with you". Like you're hiding a secret . Then he asked do you have anything to say about that? I said no you are intitled to your opinion he said no do you feel that way? I said no again. He then said I gotta keep my eyes on you! He then said when your ready I'm open and ready ! He then asked me "Did I hear him?". I said yea. Do you think he really feels that way or is he hinting that he wants me to confirm what he thinks all along which is I have feelings for him?".... I went from speaking to him everyday to him calling me a couple times per week just briefing asking me how I'm doing , is my family okay , then hanging saying he'll speak to me later . I was in his presence this pass weekend and he didn't hug me but I did catch him staring at me . I'm having a problem with letting him know how I feel since he said that to me I don't know if he just wants to know or if he wants to know because he feels the same way ...I'm a pisces by the way

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People often think that Gemini plays mind games.Cancer can play some mean heart games.

This line especially;

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Originally posted by PrettyPisces:
" You're a good person but their is something deceptive and manipulative about you, I don't know what it is , it's like always something underlying with you".

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He is trying to coerce a reaction from you so that he can save face.

You will tell him of your feelings for him when you are good and ready. He is trying to get the "upper" hand.

If he is so convinced that you are "manipulative", "undermining" etc, he should give you instances where you did that.

I bet his answer will be "I can't give you any examples. Its just the way I "feel" you are". The Nerve!!! Why I oughta *swings a fist*

If he has feelings for you, he must just man up and say what he wants to say. He mustn't play these sorts of primitive reverse psychology games. Its childish.

And you like someone who says words like that to you???? Good Luck.

posted July 10, 2014 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
People often think that Gemini plays mind games.Cancer can play some mean heart games.

This line especially;

[QUOTE]Originally posted by PrettyPisces:[b]
" You're a good person but their is something deceptive and manipulative about you, I don't know what it is , it's like always something underlying with you".

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He is trying to coerce a reaction from you so that he can save face.

You will tell him of your feelings for him when you are good and ready. He is trying to get the "upper" hand.

If he is so convinced that you are "manipulative", "undermining" etc, he should give you instances where you did that.

I bet his answer will be "I can't give you any examples. Its just the way I "feel" you are". The Nerve!!! Why I oughta *swings a fist*

If he has feelings for you, he must just man up and say what he wants to say. He mustn't play these sorts of primitive reverse psychology games. Its childish.

And you like someone who says words like that to you???? Good Luck.

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posted July 10, 2014 05:57 PM            

I think Cancer men appreciate strong women - women who will stand by their side and press on through their mood swings. No matter how I am feeling I always remain upbeat and positive in an effort to keep things as normal as possible until he comes around. If he is being overly quiet or distant, then I simply leave him alone. I leave it up to him to text or call me, and he always does. It's gotten to the point where I can predict what kind of mood he is in based on how he responds to me. It took a while before I learned, but then I saw a pattern. Now I am comfortable enough to call him out on it when he's being crabby and I think he appreciates it. I continue on with my usual tactics and again, he always comes around.

Does it still bother me sometimes? Of course it does. I appreciate complete transparency in relationships and I am getting used to being with someone so guarded, but like every relationship there are positives as well and who can resist Cancer love?

In regards to this situation, passive aggressive behaviour is practically the hallmark of this sign. I too have heard something similar from him in the past - "Uh oh there's the two-faced Gemini coming out" or "You're so mysterious" and they definitely are trying to provoke a reaction out of you (almost like they're testing you) but I learned you simply cannot probe for any explanation, you won't get one! They will side-step around it. I now will just brush it off and laugh and continue on (as much as I am secretly biting my tongue) being my normal self and it doesn't seem to go any further than that. They definitely don't always mean what they say.

They want to know that you will be there for them through all of their ups and downs with a smiling face so my advice is to just continue being your usual, happy, upbeat self - pretending like nothing is wrong around him or if you are apart - just leave him be. If he comes back around, he either resolved whatever was going on in his head and is ready to pop back out of the shell or if he doesn't, take that as a serious red flag and reevaluate your situation with him.

posted July 10, 2014 11:42 PM            

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Originally posted by PrettyPisces:
Infinite: did you read my passage? Or just the title ? He told me I was a good person but I come off as deceptive etc, and their is something underlying with me and it seems like I'm keeping a secret . Then he said I have to keep my eyes on you, when you're ready " I'm open and ready" . And he then said did I hear him . I honestly this think he knows I like him. I just don't understand why he cares to know this is not the first time he has question me .

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Yes. I read your passage...

His moon in your 12. I guess that's worth looking into.

posted July 12, 2014 06:44 AM            

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At aries23degrees: it's so funny you mention that . The week previous we were talking and I was talking about my bestfriend saying she's genuine and non- judgemental . So he says yea but you're not. I'm like that's the first time I heard that . What made you say that ? He 's like I'm not going to get into that . Then I said to him that's some heavy words you're dropping and your NOT even giving me any feedback ; so if I said something wrong I can humble myself and sincerely apologize and reframe from saying whatever I said to make you put me in that category . Then he said ok. But NEVER told me what was what. I paid it NO dust , at the end of the day I'm loyal, compassionate spirit . I'm a pisces **** someone would do something to me before I did someone to them ....unfortunately . You are right he wants the upper hand. All other girls and people are always up his ass. He has soooo many yes people around him smh. I need to tell him how I feel because I have special feelings for him but **** like this is why I don't go after him ( NOT Chase) I mean address the situation

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