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Topic: Does Gemini Guy Like This Virgo Woman?
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VirgoMaiden
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Registered: Mar 2011
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posted July 10, 2014 11:32 AM
  
How does one know if a Gem guy is truly interested since they are the biggest and best flirts of the Zodiac???
I think this Gem guy may be interested but not really sure how they roll. Here are behaviors he's exhibited towards me recently:
- Quickly and sort of shyly put a single conversation heart candy on my desk on Valentine's Day. We were chatting and the moment I got on a phone call he pulled it out and put it down. I was a bit shocked but had a feeling in my gut all day that he was going to do something.
- Always looks me up and down to the point where I am uncomfortable. Looks alot at my shoes, lol
- Compliments me on my work (notes I write) although I get the feeling he is an elitist and just wants to make me feel good, haha
- Was walking toward the train to go home the other night in damn near a flash flood and he rides up in his car calling out my name telling me to get in and that he would take me home. I was telling him no thank you but he kept insisting. I gave in and we had the best convo. I was nervous to get out and walk away because I knew he would be watching...sure nuff, when I turned around he was still waiting there, but waiting for me to get up the steps. Also, I always had a gut feeling he has been waiting to drive me home for a while now but was just waiting for when the time was right.
- Seeks me out to talk to me; shares personal info; stares at me intently; watches me when I'm not looking; legs shake when I talk to him; touches me (arms, upper back); gets in my personal space; helps me with work problems and gives me advice.
I know the things I listed above could be general signs of attraction from any guy regardless of sun sign, however, for those of you who are more knowledgeable about/have more experience with Gem guys, can you tell me if anything I listed is unique to their specific sign?
Oh, and sometimes he will be around another girl and shun me a little so this is why I ask because I'm not sure what to think. I am not a flirt and I actually ignore him alot (not on purpose...just isn't someone who was/is really on my radar.) I'm a pretty serious and no-nonsense personality so could this also be the reason he doesn't treat me superficial as the other girls? He doesn't do all that crazy flirting with me but I realise he could just be behaving himself and working his way to get me to be like the other girls? They go crazy for him...I don't but i'd be lying if I said my curiosity isn't growing.He seems to also really like a Taurus girl that he stays close to all of the time. I always keep my distance, but do notice that he keeps her close and will really engage her in conversation (like I'm not there) whenever I'm around. She also seems very possessive. Not in the mood for games so just want some honest feedback so that I can understand this situation better and if I need to, just leave him alone altogether.
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VirgoMaiden
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posted July 10, 2014 12:47 PM
Any takers?IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted July 10, 2014 12:58 PM
I personally think it's typical Gemini flirtatiousness.
Especially since he does this kind of behavior to others right in front of you. I'd make him try harder. IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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From: The future... or the past. I get them confused...
Registered: May 2014
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posted July 10, 2014 01:59 PM
General advice for dealing with Gemini... talk to him. Just have conversation with him. Not pushy, not purpose driven, just talk for the sake of enjoying the conversation. Don't be afraid to show your brains either.I honestly can't tell you if he is interested or not. Heck, he may be "of two minds" about it. The only way to know is to communicate with him. IP: Logged |
VirgoMaiden
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posted July 10, 2014 02:42 PM
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Originally posted by VirgoMaiden:
Any takers?
Thanks DeepFreeze. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted July 10, 2014 04:09 PM
Funny. I seem to attract Gemini's very easily.I am dating a beautiful Libra now and I notice that there are similarities. The only difference being that Libra really likes to be in a relationship and won't go hopping around(but they are very vain and prone to be flattered easily). You want to attract Gemini to you? Be funny, goofy and slightly "bad". Be like a Sag- yeah, that should do it. They seem to respond to people who love to have fun.
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VirgoMaiden
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posted July 10, 2014 04:41 PM
@Gemini Blues - I think after our initial conversation, interest started to pique...on both ends. He didn't expect me to have intellect...I could tell!IP: Logged |
VirgoMaiden
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posted July 10, 2014 04:42 PM
@Aries - be like a Sag? No thanks! Guess I should just quit while I'm ahead. Ha!IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted July 10, 2014 06:43 PM
He definitely likes you.
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Gemini Blues
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posted July 10, 2014 06:55 PM
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Originally posted by VirgoMaiden:
@Gemini Blues - I think after our initial conversation, interest started to pique...on both ends. He didn't expect me to have intellect...I could tell!
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VirgoMaiden
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posted July 10, 2014 09:24 PM
@Venusian Moon - it would be nice if he did.@Blue - Thank you. IP: Logged |
arcturiann
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From: Titan
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posted July 10, 2014 09:47 PM
First of all I think its hilarious how neat and organized your initial post is as a virgo lmao.I definitely agree geminis are so hard to read when it comes to attraction... I'm having the same issue right now where I can't tell if this guy is attracted to me or just being a gemini. Definitely hoping more people post on how to tell whether or not a gemini is actually interested in you or just being flirty or what. I know too many gemini guys who act the same flirty way with multiple women so its just too hard to tell. They could be genuinely interested in you at the same time genuinely interested in other women as well. So frustrating. Do you know this guys moon sign? IP: Logged |
VirgoMaiden
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posted July 10, 2014 11:13 PM
@ arcturiann - I am such a Virgo aren't I? LOL!Welp, now I'm doubting again. I believe if he really liked me and only me, he wouldn't be that way with the other girls in my presence. *shrugs* Hope it works out for you. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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From: Nyc
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posted July 11, 2014 12:18 AM
Im a gemini but im very picky lol. I can be a flirt only when i like someone. Otherwise i wont even look ur way. Some geminis are very friendly and sometimes people take it as flirting. He gave u a Heart candy he definitely likes you.My mom and ex bf are geminis and they are very picky. Both have virgo moons and risings. My gemini daughter however is the opposite. Shes only 6 and she acts flirty. It scares me ;(
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Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
Gemini mercury 11th
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VirgoMaiden
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posted July 11, 2014 01:00 AM
@Venusian - lol @ your daughter! Sounds like she might be a tiny little riot! Awwww..so adorbs!I have to admit I haven't been very expressive with him. I'm a serious, no-nonsense, uptight, emotionally-retarded personality, lol. Even after he gave me the candy I still remained in professional work mode and didn't say a thing about it. It was as if it didn't even happen, and after that I still questioned whether he actually liked me or not....maybe because he never verbalized it. I always thought if someone liked you they would at least say it. *shrugs* IP: Logged |
VirgoMaiden
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posted July 11, 2014 05:27 PM
Awww...sat with him in the same office almost all day today and he barely speaks to me now. He asked me if I wanted a few things here and there but not our usual convo. The only time we really addressed one another was when a third party was in the room. I feel bad. We had a little tiff on Wed and I kinda came down hard on him. Not to mention, well, I've been a bit of a biotch for the last couple of days. Is this normal of Gems to go cold on someone when they've had enough (seemingly)? Honestly, I think he's done with me...and I'm ok with that. Caught him staring (which could mean nothing) again but I ignored him. I get nervous...I'm a retard! IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
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posted July 11, 2014 05:38 PM
My guess is he has moved on.
Wouldn't be uncharacteristic for a gem. (depending on the rest of the chart)IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted July 11, 2014 07:24 PM
I don't think Gem guys like girls who might be emotionally intense. What did u say? Why were you a ***** . You should always try to be as light and laid back as you possibly can. Playfulness is attractive. IP: Logged |
VirgoMaiden
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posted July 12, 2014 10:16 AM
I think so too Deep Freeze. Well, better luck next time. IP: Logged |
VirgoMaiden
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posted July 12, 2014 10:24 AM
@Haplesschild,I think you are right. I was just pretty unrelenting in my debate with him over a work issue...and quite dismissive. You know that Virgos and Gems can debate until the cows come home, well, I was determined to win. It's like he just clammed up on me. Not that I can say that I blame him but he was getting on my nerves. And I was actually shocked that he came to sit in with me instead of going up to the office with the Taurus chick. I just knew he would avoid me and hide under her for the rest of the day. IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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From: The future... or the past. I get them confused...
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posted July 12, 2014 10:52 AM
The reason (well, a reason) others can't tell if Gemini likes them or not is often Gemini doesn't know yet either. And one method Gemini uses to "think about things" is through conversation. Which is why many of us talk to ourselves when no one else is around (even if just in our heads).Virgo and Gemini share Mercury so they relate. But they are a square to each other. Watch the... hmmm... critical style of speaking? Was that put delicately enough? IP: Logged |
VirgoMaiden
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posted July 12, 2014 12:13 PM
@Gemini BluesYes, it was put delicately enough. Thanks for your advice. I will try and speak less critically going forward. It's actually been a personal goal of mine for sometime now. IP: Logged |
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