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Topic: 1st house people
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elise11
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: deutschland
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 11, 2014 03:55 PM
  
Hi 
Someone I like has many planets in the 1st house: venus, neptune, uranus close to the AC in capricorn (his AC) and mars, sun, saturn farther away (but still in 1st) in acquarius.
how do you feel with such placements? are you only intrested in yourself? can you love deeply? and if so how? do you always need to flirt with other people? or at least need other people around? what s your self image? do you think a lot about how others see you?
i don t know him well yet. he has a pisces moon, though.
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Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 4156
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 11, 2014 04:07 PM
Look up Aries in love and you'll find your answer. 1st house is the house of Aries so on top of the Capricorn/Aqua he has there, it'll also have Aries traits. I would look up all of them as well as what each planets there mean and you should have your answer. With the Pisces moon he has, he's dreamy when in love, otherworldly even. Very loyal and expects to be treated the same way he treats the person he loves. He may be very secretive and with hold information. Definitely not for the faint hearted. I have 1st house Scorpio Venus and I see both. I'm also 12th house heavy, so I have a Pisces feel. I love whole heartedly, all or nothing. Not a selfish person at all. I don't flirt with anyone else other than my hubby, when not in relationships hell ya I flirted, without even meaning too. I don't care how people view me(when I was younger I absolutely cared), love me or hate me, I still love myself first. I'm confident, but not vain, and also a private when it comes to certain things. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 742
From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 11, 2014 04:23 PM
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Originally posted by elise11:
Hi
Someone I like has many planets in the 1st house: venus, neptune, uranus close to the AC in capricorn (his AC) and mars, sun, saturn farther away (but still in 1st) in acquarius.
how do you feel with such placements? are you only intrested in yourself? can you love deeply? and if so how? do you always need to flirt with other people? or at least need other people around? what s your self image? do you think a lot about how others see you?
i don t know him well yet. he has a pisces moon, though.
help me
WOW! I have his placements minus the mars and sun in 1st, but have Aqua Sun and Pisces Moon. Creepy. Are you the same poster that asked me about this a few days ago? I can definitely love thats for sure, its just hard to get me to commit. I wouldn't say I'm selfish but rather that I get self-absorbed in the sense I am fully focused on things I am doing and sometimes forget other people (i.e., I was supposed to call you but got absorbed into my work stuff). I am a notorious friendly person, and am probably guilty of flirting even when I intend not to. That being said, I respect boundaries so I'm not going to flirt with someone else's man. Self-image is for the most part good, its hard for me to pin it down with Neptune in 1st and conj ASC. I struggled at first with having Saturn in 1st as chart ruler, but I've slowly but surely have come into my own the last few years (or released the crazy? lol). Part of it is learning on how to handle all of the energies in the house. People tend to see what they want in me, so its funny to see one person saying 'you are so mercurian' and another 'I thought you were a Leo?!??!' I prefer to have a balance between socializing and being alone. My Pisces Moon needs a retreat from the world now and then. It kind of makes you stand out, even if you don't necessarily look for it. I like to joke that I have a different personality for every day of the week. I have to have my independence and able to express myself, otherwise I start to feel inhibited. I have to be my own boss or leader in some way, which is magnified by my Pluto in 10th lol. IP: Logged |
elise11
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: deutschland
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 11, 2014 04:59 PM
creepy in fact! so interesting.. and yes i m in fact the same poster, just because of this a few days ago (no one answered) i ve done this post here now!
more about love...you have a cappie AC so are you drawn to cancer placements because it s your DC? Or also to leo placements (it s interpected in his 7th?)
and what exactly do you mean you love and don t really want to commit? do you always need to flirt and easily feel attracted by other people than your boyfriend? do you rather like a partner for your whole life which you love deeply but more in an unconventional way ? or do you commit to a partner, eventually, which you feel you can build something stable with, you stay with the person although it s not your big love? do you forget people you ve once loved? IP: Logged |
elise11
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: deutschland
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 11, 2014 05:05 PM
my guy seems to be exactly the same incredible!!! he s also notoriously friendly, seems to me he s always flirting superficially but then when others think he s serious, for him it was just the moment and he actually keeps "the old people" in his heart, very duty-like, i don t know.. and also pluto in the 10th close to the MC. What does that all mean? Tell me more about your personality..please! Are you quickly in love with others just for one evening or so and only then think back about our actual "love'" at home? IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 742
From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 11, 2014 10:43 PM
Cancer placements? *throws self off a cliff*In all seriousness, no. Moon-like people? I would say yes. Moon is the ruler of my 2nd house so I am fatally attracted to people with Taurean qualities and placements. I do like Leos though (some of my 7th is leo) but it is typically hit or miss. But to be honest Leo is my 8th house so you know what that means..  giggity giggity. I don't want to commit to a relationship that limits my independence but more importantly isn't one I see going long-term. I will commit if I see it going somewhere, otherwise why tie myself down? For me it is quality and not quantity, and as a career-oriented person I have to be selective with my time. I wouldn't say that I have a need to flirt per se, but it is either friendliness interpreted as flirting or intentionally doing it. It depends on the situation and who I am talking to. Basically if I am in a relationship I wouldn't do anything to disrespect my man or be ott with friendliness. I don't date Stage 5 Clingers, so if a man gets easily jealous or insecure, f-k it I'm going to space! Otherwise, if the guy I am talking to is single and I am attracted, why not have some fun? I am very picky though, so there is the interesting part. It takes much more than being handsome and having money to attract me. You need to be interesting/different in some way, be intelligent, have goals and objectives, and help me to grow in some way. Never experienced love at first sight. I need someone who understands I need space once in a while and can spiritually, intellectually, and emotionally challenge me. I love me a good debate too! I'm an upfront and honest person, if I didn't love someone I wouldn't want to remain in the relationship (assuming you mean long-term) because it isn't fair to hurt them like that. Only thing you could consider unconventional in my relationships is that there are usually no defined gender roles or things 'we should do.' I never forget people I once loved. Once in a while I'll ask how they are doing, but that is as far as interactions go. Pluto in 10th: learning to be your own boss and having power struggles at work. I have to learn to balance maintaining independence without getting in trouble with authority (bosses, not cops lol). I have transformed myself significantly from work and expect this to continue. The quickly in love with others just for one evening or so and only then think back about our actual "love'" at home sounds like a mix of Aqua and Pisces. I do not fall quickly in love, as my nickname is Ice Princess. The second part is relevant because even if I'm not talking/calling every second doesn't mean you aren't on my mind. Goes back to needing a little space.
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leoloo
Newflake Posts: 2
From: Connecticut
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 12, 2014 12:13 AM
All planets I have in my first are Chiron sun Venus Jupiter and it basically for me just makes me seem really dynamic in conversation and appearance wise but deep down I'm exactly the same. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I hate hiding things because I attribute all my energies to the outside too. Being and expressing are one in the same so if you've got something to hide it makes it really weird until you embrace that part.IP: Logged |
lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 502
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 12, 2014 01:05 AM
Hey I am a person with alot of planets in the 1st house and alot of aspects to my first house . I'M 😨😨 gonna be honest Im very self absorbed people to think of me as conceited or arrogant but I litterally just can't help it its just me , I have uranus, moon, jupiter and neptune all aspecting eachother and other planets in my 1st along with alot of asteroids and the ruler of my first house is actually my first house ☺ not to my mention my relationship houses the 5th and 7th are empty my 8th house has mars though ...people tend to see what they want to see I agree with that It can make a person extremely selfish and in love with ones self its just very me me me IP: Logged |
elise11
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: deutschland
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 12, 2014 03:48 AM
Bellafenice ( and all the others) Thank you so much! It s uncredible this Guy is exactly like you!
I ve known him for a long Time and i know he s very honest and reliable. He says he Likes me and Even loves me and he Even Said from the Type i m the woman of his dreams ( he s known me for a long Time so he Must know). But i m committed to so else with whom i ve got a Kid, we had a huge Crisis but now we re getting along Better again. This guy said he doesn t want to destroy it because he s experienced the seperation of his Patents himself. First he Said he ll always be there for me but recently he suggested to Break ties because it s Better for us and Said i d know he won t forget me.
It s okay for me now of course i often think of him. Do you think i can believe him and he s still kept me in his heart? Maybe i just Don t want to know i Imagine him standing next to me and he doesn t feel Anything anymore. Horrible! Then Better keep my dreams.
He has the same moon as you. I have Lots of taurus placements and a leo ascendant. My taurus venus Hits his IC in taurus. But i have no cancer placements just many aspects from my moon to his planets and my moon in his 2nd house in synastry
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MagnumJoe
Knowflake Posts: 258
From: Cairo, Egypt
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 12, 2014 07:02 AM
I have sun, mercury, jupiter, neptune and psyche in 1st house.What do they specifically make me feel? I really don't know, lol. But i can answer your questions: Yes i am always focusing my energy on myself for many purposes, mainly for growing and improvement. I can't love except deeply, but my venus is in scorpio, and the 8th house ruler is the moon and it is in the 8th house, so it could be that. I flirt a lot, but only when i am single. But i have mars in libra, and it sextiles my ascendant so it could be that. A leo moon is also prone to flirting a little bit. I don't feel the need for people to be around me, but when it happens, i manage it very well and feels natural. But again, it could be my leo moon. My self image? Don't ask that question to a leo moon, lol. And yes i think a lot about how people see me. I like to keep a good image, and be true to it too, not a fake image. IP: Logged |
elise11
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: deutschland
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 13, 2014 05:08 PM
Bellafenice i ve got One more question i m really interested in: you have venus in the 1st close to the AC haven t you? I ve Been wondering: if someone hits your DC with a planet ( especially venus) he has at the same Time a close opposition to your venus and maybe other 1st house planets of yours. So i conclude you must be irresistibly attracted to that Guy?
How about the others here with planets in the 1st? IP: Logged |
Mystic_Cat
Knowflake Posts: 426
From: Tibet
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 14, 2014 01:23 PM
First House (I say Rising) Stellium of Sun, Mercury, Jupiter and Pluto, also Juno, Kaali, Eros, Hygeia, Ixion, Nymph and alot of other asteroids ... haha.Sun in the first aligned with Mercury, Mercury far reaches to Jupiter and Pluto on the ascendant The first thing i'd say about the first house is that physically it's the part of the sky that is your face and head, so the planets that are there are your personality, what you look like, your physical body, who you express yourself as, the basic fundamentals of your head, self expression, self image and personality. Think about Aries the Ram, the Head, all the planets in the first house go into that part of you. Once you understand what a planet physically and realistically is, say for example Mercury is your Arms, and the Sun is your heart you apply that to being part of your face and head. A first house Sun has his heart on show, the personality is your face, when you've got no clothes on you have an ego about your physical body and take good care of how you look. Your happiness depends on how good you look.. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 742
From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 14, 2014 01:53 PM
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Originally posted by elise11:
Bellafenice i ve got One more question i m really interested in: you have venus in the 1st close to the AC haven t you? I ve Been wondering: if someone hits your DC with a planet ( especially venus) he has at the same Time a close opposition to your venus and maybe other 1st house planets of yours. So i conclude you must be irresistibly attracted to that Guy?
How about the others here with planets in the 1st?
Kind of. My 1st house is Cap and a little bit of Aqua, so my Aqua Venus is near the end of the cusp. It doesn't make a strong aspect to my ASC (semisextile). My 7th house is mostly Cancer and a little bit of Leo. Honestly, I am not attracted to Cancer Venus because I find the energy too suffocating (no offense anyone, just not for me). Leo Venus on the other hand is great, especially since it might square my mars lol. I have Venus square Mars in my natal so I actually do well with this energy. As far as the other aspects go, depends on whether any of his 7th house planets touch them and what the sign of the planets are. I prefer planets touching my 5th and 8th house to be honest, fun and sensual. IP: Logged | |
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