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Topic: aspect that cause very few friends
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arcturiann
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From: Titan
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posted July 13, 2014 10:56 PM
  
lilith in 11th, 11th house cusp in scorpio. many acquaintances, not a lot of friends.IP: Logged |
AnastasiyaEnchanted
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From: Canada
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posted July 14, 2014 12:11 AM
I think venus in Capricorn would make a person careful to enter any time of relationship. I have it and I am careful of who I choose as my friend. IP: Logged |
florence
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posted July 14, 2014 07:42 AM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
Pluto in the 11th I think is another one. Its another quality over quantity aspect.
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next to neptune
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From: The Moon
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posted July 14, 2014 07:57 AM
Afflicted 11th house ruler = unpopular.I have my 11th house in Aries, the ruler is mars. I have my virgo mars in 4th house, square uranus and opposite moon, conjunction sun. I have troubles mostly with females, but in general just with everyone. And of course - not so many friends either, even though I'm not especially introverted.
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Mystic_Cat
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posted July 14, 2014 08:04 AM
Saturn in the ThirdMercury with Antares Moon with Deneb Algedi Mars with Pluto Moon in Scorpio Sun with Lucifer IP: Logged |
deptic
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From: Earth, Raised on Pluto
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posted July 14, 2014 09:09 AM
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Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:
I think venus in Capricorn would make a person careful to enter any time of relationship. I have it and I am careful of who I choose as my friend.
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yellowelevator
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From: Michigan, Neptune, and sometimes Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 14, 2014 04:10 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Afflicted 11th house ruler = unpopular.I have my 11th house in Aries, the ruler is mars. I have my virgo mars in 4th house, square uranus and opposite moon, conjunction sun. I have troubles mostly with females, but in general just with everyone. And of course - not so many friends either, even though I'm not especially introverted.
Same here, except my Mars is in the 12th, but it's still afflicted. And Aries is on 11th. I don't have many friends at all. And I used to get picked on by some girls in middle school. I don't feel comfortable being friends with females either. Most of my friends have always been males, and that's probably because Mars is the 11th house ruler. I act and dress feminine, but I don't always feel feminine on the inside, and I just seem to relate easier to men.
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From: The Moon
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posted July 14, 2014 04:24 PM
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Originally posted by yellowelevator:
Same here, except my Mars is in the 12th, but it's still afflicted. And Aries is on 11th. I don't have many friends at all. And I used to get picked on by some girls in middle school. I don't feel comfortable being friends with females either. Most of my friends have always been males, and that's probably because Mars is the 11th house ruler. I act and dress feminine, but I don't always feel feminine on the inside, and I just seem to relate easier to men.
Yeah, omg how this placement is a curse!
The problem with Aries on the 11th is also that it's a really sensual sign, so people often feel attracted, and especially males… I find that most males doesn't want friendships but something more than that, and all I want is just a friendship 
I also feel much more masculine than I look…I'm a tall blondie girl who looks really feminine on the outside, but on the inside I feel more like a guy lol IP: Logged |
yellowelevator
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From: Michigan, Neptune, and sometimes Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 14, 2014 09:10 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Yeah, omg how this placement is a curse!
The problem with Aries on the 11th is also that it's a really sensual sign, so people often feel attracted, and especially males… I find that most males doesn't want friendships but something more than that, and all I want is just a friendship
I also feel much more masculine than I look…I'm a tall blondie girl who looks really feminine on the outside, but on the inside I feel more like a guy lol
Oh boy I know it :/ Yep, I have to agree with you on the friendship thing. Sometimes I've been really just looking for a good companion and either it's them that just want a piece and end up seeming shallow/superficial, or sometimes it's actually me where I get confused whether I want to be friends or more. Ugh lol. Haha, yeah that's me too with feeling more masculine on the inside. It's funny. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted July 14, 2014 09:42 PM
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Originally posted by Mystic_Cat:
Saturn in the ThirdMercury with Antares Moon with Deneb Algedi Mars with Pluto Moon in Scorpio Sun with Lucifer
Interesting... I have like, FEW friends. Which I like it that way tbh. Less drama, less to keep up with. Saturn is so close to 11th but I do have sun conjunct Lucifer exact and Regulus conjunct also... In the 11th!
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Jessica2407
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posted July 15, 2014 03:26 AM
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Originally posted by mztiny:
My Sun,Mercury,Venus and Mars are in the 11th house. Venus opposite Jupiter 4 degrees and square Pluto 1 degree. Mercury square Pluto 4 degrees Mars square Uranus 3.5 degrees I'm guessing these are my problems.
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visions
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From: france
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posted July 15, 2014 04:01 AM
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Originally posted by Leorpio:
funny, I have jupiter in the 11th and I still don't have very many friends. Maybe because I'm not really interested in any superficial topics or people in my life but still, lol.
i have also jupiterin 11th in cancer and i do'nt have any friends...plus my jupiter make only good aspect with 3 trines lol... sometimes astrology is ******** .. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1772
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 15, 2014 04:17 AM
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Originally posted by visions:
i have also jupiterin 11th in cancer and i do'nt have any friends...plus my jupiter make only good aspect with 3 trines lol...sometimes astrology is ******** ..
Wtf, that is not bad? I think you misunderstood… a planet is only afflicted if it receives a lot more harsh aspect than good aspect. Your jupiter seems to only make good aspect?
And you should also check your moon, cause the ruler of your 11th would be the moon if it sits in cancer  IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1772
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 15, 2014 04:20 AM
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Originally posted by yellowelevator:
Oh boy I know it :/ Yep, I have to agree with you on the friendship thing. Sometimes I've been really just looking for a good companion and either it's them that just want a piece and end up seeming shallow/superficial, or sometimes it's actually me where I get confused whether I want to be friends or more. Ugh lol. Haha, yeah that's me too with feeling more masculine on the inside. It's funny.
Yes that is exactly me also I read that Aries on the 11th should make you really energetic too, and always trying to make new friends… but I just feel that the more energetic I am, the more I would constantly irritate people and somehow provoke their feelings because aries is such a "selfish" sign that doesn't always think about others… and so the more I would try to be energetic and loud, the more I would probably attract troubles and conflicts with people, so I don't want to go that way either:/ IP: Logged |
harleyniall1998
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From: canada
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 15, 2014 09:12 AM
I have a friend with saturn retrograde in 11th house aries and she's hated or disliked by many because of her always being unreliable.IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 15, 2014 09:45 AM
Hmm 
VIRGO 11H cusp makes me quite picky and critical of my friendships. If all my energy towards the friendship appears to go in vain, I'm outie with minimal effort to salvage it.
11H RULER -Capricorn Mercury square Aries Moon is where I usually rub females wrong. Aggressive opinions and deliverance, period! But I've never had anyone call me out on it, I've deduced this on my own.
PISCES 4H cusp is fitting because I thrive off solitude, and many friendships have waned naturally because I stand firm on being a homebody and won't tolerate anyone who can't understand and respect my many days of seclusion.
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Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 15, 2014 12:27 PM
Look at the overall chart.People with lots of challenging aspects; square, conjunction,opposition tend to be "all or nothing" when it comes to life. So, as a result,their relationships often mirror this "all or nothing" approach. Tolerance of another's point of view is difficult and, as such, they are likely not to associate with many people or have that many friends. People who have a very heavy 10th house-4th house emphasis in their chart tend to be self-sufficient and feel that they don't need others. When we get really personal, we look for Aries,Sagittarius,Capricorn,Aquarius,Pisces,Scorpio placements as well as their natural rulers-in social signs. Lots of Aquarius placements
Lots of Aries placements
Lots of Scorpio placements
Lots of Sagittarius placements
Lots of Capricorn placements
Lots of Pisces Placements Lots of 11th house placements
Lots of 1st house placements
Lots of 8th house placements
Lots of 9th house placements
Lots of 10th house placements
Lots of 12th house placements Sun in Aquarius
Sun in Aries
Sun in Sagittarius
Sun in Capricorn
Sun in Pisces
Sun in Scorpio IC in Aquarius
IC in Aries
IC in Sagittarius
IC in Capricorn
IC in Pisces
IC in Scorpio Moon in Aquarius
Moon in Aries
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in Pisces
Moon in Scorpio DC in Aquarius
DC in Aries
DC in Sagittarius
DC in Scorpio
DC in Capricorn
DC in Pisces Venus in Aquarius
Venus in Aries
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in Pisces
Venus in Scorpio Jupiter in Aquarius
Jupiter in Aries
Jupiter in Sagittarius
Jupiter in Capricorn
Jupiter in Pisces
Jupiter in Scorpio Saturn in Libra
Saturn in Taurus
Saturn in Aquarius
Saturn in Leo Uranus-Sun aspects-Square,opposition, conjunction. Mars-Sun aspects; square,opposition, conjunction. Jupiter-Sun aspects;square,opposition, conjunction. Saturn-Sun aspects;Square,opposition, ,conjunction. Neptune-Sun aspects;Square,opposition ,conjunction. Pluto-Sun aspects; Square, opposition, conjunction. Pluto,Neptune,Uranus,Saturn,Jupiter, Mars aspecting the IC in same aspects as above. Pluto,Neptune,Uranus,Saturn,Jupiter,Mars aspecting the DC in the same aspects as mentioned above. Pluto,Neptune,Uranus,Saturn,Jupiter,Mars aspecting the Moon by the same aspects as mentioned above. Pluto,Neptune,Uranus,Saturn,Jupiter,Mars aspecting Venus by the same aspects as mentioned above. So, all in all, we are all anti-social-to a certain extent. The key is to learn to allow people in and share our lives with them. But some people are blessed with more than 3 of the above aspects/positions in their charts; making it very challenging indeed.
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Leorpio
Knowflake Posts: 325
From: Cypress
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 16, 2014 06:23 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
You have Scorpio moon though right? Could be that. Scorpio doesn't like superficial. Unless I'm wrong about your placement. What is your 11th?
Yeah I am a scorp moon. Sagittarius is my 11th, jupiter in sag. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 17, 2014 12:26 AM
Interesting discussion. I have Jupiter conjunct Venus in the 11th in Scorpio. But I don't have many close friends. More 'come and go' acquaintances and fated encounters where the friendships are short lived but probably supposed to be like that for whatever reason. Hurts sometimes because I can get attached. It's important to look to the H11 ruler and 3H ruler to see what is up with how many friends you'll have. IP: Logged |
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