posted July 14, 2014 03:20 PM            

My 11th house is in Aries and my virgo Mars in 4th house is hardly aspected by squaring uranus, conjunction sun and opposite moon. The sign Taurus is also intercepted in the 11th house, so I understand why I'm always so unpopular, especially according to females. All females really seems to not give a damn about me.

On the other hand my 5th house ruler Venus sits in Scorpio, also in the 5th house. And my venus is only nice aspected by trine jupiter, sextile saturn, uranus and neptune and conjunction pluto, biquintile moon and trine MC. My scorpio pluto also sits in that house, and lilith. I feel I have a lot of love to GIVE to people. I feel that I'm mostly really nice, always treat strangers kindly and I would never be mean or cold towards anyone.

But that is what I always get in return from people… no matter how nice I treat people they really seem to not really care about it. I cannot get through to people, people always treat me not so nice, and I can feel the anger building up inside me and making me depressed. It makes me don't believe in real love anymore, cause of that stupid 11th house ruler….

posted July 14, 2014 04:10 PM            

I never had a group of "girlfriends" growing up, not even to this day, and have only managed to maintain one or two close female friendships at a time. I can converse and relate to pretty much any female I encounter (including my co-workers) but it never seems to go any deeper than that. It's hard to foster friendships with those that "get" me. I have always been one to prefer the company of my significant other anyways, so it is partially my fault since I have been in consecutive relationships most of my adult life.

On that note, I feel as though I am always the one to give and give in my personal relationships - and I genuinely want to to make them happy - but I guess a selfish part of me, at least on some level, expects a little reciprocation. I, like you, feel as though they don't really "care" enough to put that much thought into what I want or need or what would make me happy. Of course they do nice things for me once in a while, but never with the same passion or thought as me.

posted July 14, 2014 04:15 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
This is interesting. I have always felt very similarly to you/have had a similar experience in my life.

I never had a group of "girlfriends" growing up, not even to this day, and have only managed to maintain one or two close female friendships at a time. I can converse and relate to pretty much any female I encounter (including my co-workers) but it never seems to go any deeper than that. It's hard to foster friendships with those that "get" me. I have always been one to prefer the company of my significant other anyways, so it is partially my fault since I have been in consecutive relationships most of my adult life.

On that note, I feel as though I am always the one to give and give in my personal relationships - and I genuinely want to to make them happy - but I guess a selfish part of me, at least on some level, expects a little reciprocation. I, like you, feel as though they don't really "care" enough to put that much thought into what I want or need or what would make me happy. Of course they do nice things for me once in a while, but never with the same passion or thought as me.

This could just be the type of people I attract, or is it something in my natal?

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Check your 11th house ruler and also the 5th! And maybe even your chiron? I got chiron in cancer in the 12th, closely conjunct my ascendant on top of that… this is also a trait of people being bullied, and though I never suffered from serious bullying, I always felt I had to walk on eggshells from keeping some situations for happening… and it was always about girls that was mean to me in my childhood.