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Topic: Scorpio man, the strong, silent type?
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salonroquet Newflake Posts: 19 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 15, 2014 05:53 AM
Hi hi I am a Cancer sun (Libra moon, Pisces Rising) and I am currently dating a Scorpio sun. Naturally, I have had previous Scorpio friendships and relationships, so I went into the relationship thinking I knew kind of what to expect. Usually, it is that I go into a role of being a counselor for the Scorpio and we quickly become close (this happens with males and females). At least they open up and talk about their inner feelings/moods, or I can quickly gauge what is going on.However, this particular guy is very different. I actually adore him, but he is a bit of a mystery, even after three months. I don't know if he is "unemotional", for lack of a better word, but he isn't very forthcoming with his feelings. (i.e., introduced me to his parents and friends early on, says he "really likes me", but also that I am "fun", and that he just decided I was his gf without asking lol) He is caring and it feels like he is protective of me, but I don't really get a "let's talk about my feelings, as I am troubled by something" vibe from him that I have almost always experienced with Scorpio natives. I feel a little lost by it, to be honest. I wanted to ask you all if this is a typical Scorpio thing that I am just NOW seeing, or is this a fluke. For more info: His Mercury is in Libra, Venus is in Sagittarius, Mars is in Virgo. I don't know what his moon sign is, it can either be in Scorpio or Sagittarius (because I don't know the time that he was born). IP: Logged |
babybull82 Knowflake Posts: 907 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 15, 2014 07:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by salonroquet: Hi hi I am a Cancer sun (Libra moon, Pisces Rising) and I am currently dating a Scorpio sun. Naturally, I have had previous Scorpio friendships and relationships, so I went into the relationship thinking I knew kind of what to expect. Usually, it is that I go into a role of being a counselor for the Scorpio and we quickly become close (this happens with males and females). At least they open up and talk about their inner feelings/moods, or I can quickly gauge what is going on.However, this particular guy is very different. I actually adore him, but he is a bit of a mystery, even after three months. I don't know if he is "unemotional", for lack of a better word, but he isn't very forthcoming with his feelings. (i.e., introduced me to his parents and friends early on, says he "really likes me", but also that I am "fun", and that he just decided I was his gf without asking lol) He is caring and it feels like he is protective of me, but I don't really get a "let's talk about my feelings, as I am troubled by something" vibe from him that I have almost always experienced with Scorpio natives. I feel a little lost by it, to be honest. I wanted to ask you all if this is a typical Scorpio thing that I am just NOW seeing, or is this a fluke. For more info: His Mercury is in Libra, Venus is in Sagittarius, Mars is in Virgo. I don't know what his moon sign is, it can either be in Scorpio or Sagittarius (because I don't know the time that he was born).
First and foremost we are talking about a man and in general men aren't really all that interested in talking about their feelings..unless asked directly and even then..it's like pulling teeth. Also even if he does have a Scorpio moon and you can vibe with them really well, he may have an afflicted moon causing him to not be the type all up in his feelings and things of that nature. Now if he's a Sag moon then he def won't be down for that, because they like to keep things fun..not heavy. Actually that just ties into what you just said, he thinks you're "fun". If I were you I wouldn't do the typical female thing of looking to deep into it and go with the flow. Quit looking for something to be wrong when there may not be! Also another piece of advice, I see you put emphasis on what he said about you. Don't do that, you want him to express his feelings thru words but what needs to be watched are his actions. Him taking you to meet his family and all that says he's serious about you..all that other stuff is just to placate you and it's really not needed in the grand scheme of things. Good luck! IP: Logged |
starrynight Knowflake Posts: 322 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 15, 2014 07:13 PM
Maybe it's the Moon placement affecting things. I'm a girl, but I have Gemini Moon--I'm not likely to talk about my feelings much. Though sometimes I can't shut up about other things. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 1492 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 15, 2014 07:36 PM
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salonroquet Newflake Posts: 19 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 15, 2014 09:23 PM
Yeah, I think what I am seeing is a Sag moon. It is very interesting. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 1492 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 16, 2014 02:44 AM
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Leorpio Knowflake Posts: 695 From: Cypress Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 16, 2014 07:49 AM
A bit of info: If he has Scorpio moon, he will probably never ever reveal his deepest emotions to you and will absolutely never actually cry or show an overt sign of emotion unless he completely and 100% trusts you. If he does this and you show even the slightest bit of judgement, he will shut you out forever and you're better off just leaving at that point. IP: Logged | |