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Topic: Water placements
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Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 406 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 20, 2014 03:45 PM
Does any one else get tired of there water placements? Iv been going through some problems in life and i really feel emotionally unstable lol its ridiculous my sun is in a water sign my moon is in my 1st house and i have super emotional mars in cancer and the trine to pluto just makes my emotions even stronger than i have moon square pluto! I cant get a break from all this water i mean when things are going good im very happy but when its not i feel things so deeply! I watched this old movie earlier and it put me in to tears lmao im not ashamed to say i cry i kind of need to cry sometimes just to let all my emotions out im sure its just alll the water in my chart to be honest i feel like all this water in a mans chart is annoying! I literally feel everything down to my core ! I feel like its a curse to feel so much and people who lack water just never understand that everything cant be expressed in words or from logical point of view and i really envy it i wish i could objectify everything and not be so emotional Does anybody else with a water dominant chart or alot of personal water placements feel the same? I think now that venus is in cancer im feeling even more emotional its very draining IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 2105 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 20, 2014 03:57 PM
I don't feel them until there's a transit and then I become near suicidal.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2477 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 20, 2014 04:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: I don't feel them until there's a transit and then I become near suicidal.
How about now? You've come across to me as particularly negative lately. Much more than you normally are. Just a serious question. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4237 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 20, 2014 04:19 PM
Despite all of of airiness in my chart I am water dominant. It's a blessing, not at all a curse. Sometimes, it gets really overwhelming. I feel everything and everyone all of the DAMN time. I read to deeply into a lot of things, but thankfully not everything. When I was younger I used to feel that way, I was pretty damn emotional, got upset and cried over the smallest things. I learned how to control it by ignoring it, and never facing it. So you can imagine how that worked out for me LOL. When DF and I first got together I swear I cried over everything, our smallest little milestone, Barbie cried. He's made me feel unlike anyone has before, ever. It's incredible the amount of love we have for each other. I'm able to love him completely, without any limits. I think the best distraction for us water dominants is love. We love so deeply, purely and freely. No one can beat our passion or selflessness. We were born to love and express our emotions. So if not in a relationship, find something else that you're really good at and master it. Love the hell out of it lol. Us water people are pretty darn creative so I'm sure you'll find something to love I think it's awesome that you're not afraid of your emotions and aren't afraid of crying. That's awesome. So many guys nowadays are so mute emotionally. It's annoying and weak as hell to me. You'll get through this, you'll just really have to control yourself. If that Cancer Mars is anything like mine then believe me with lots of control it'll submit. Talk with people and if you can't do that then write about it. Do something to get it out, don't keep it bottled up. Trust me that's not something you want to do, it creates even more problems. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 784 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 20, 2014 04:42 PM
Something I noticed as a water moon is that you are not only VERY receptive to your own feelings, but the feelings of others. Its one thing to get caught up in your own feelings but add on the energy of others and god can it feel overwhelming!I have had to learn not to absorb the energy of other people and not treat their problems as my own. Yes, you should be a good friend and help someone through a break up, but you shouldn't allow yourself to become depressed as well. You have to learn to psychically protect yourself from the energy of others, water signs tend to internalize them. As far as your own energies, it is so crucial to have some sort of outlet, otherwise we would go insane! Whatever it is that relieves your stress, makes you happy, etc., do it! It is totally okay to let yourself feel your emotions, but you cannot let yourself become totally absorbed in them. Nothing wrong with being emotional or crying either, it shows you care about people. It is a blessing- not everything in life should be expressed logically without feelings or emotions. Trust me, not enough people in this world are empathetic. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 2105 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 20, 2014 04:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: How about now? You've come across to me as particularly negative lately. Much more than you normally are. Just a serious question.
Yeah I am in a s hitty mood. Agitated. I literally cannot handle water transits! Or most people with water placements :-/ I only feel good during air and fire transits or with those people. My pMars has also progressed into Libra, conj Pluto in 1H. I am a pressure cooker! Oh and my angles are about to go all Cardinal so I guess I just have little to zero patience?
Sigh. I even cussed out the Board of Directors at work. I got saved by our GM....nice going, Charlie.
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Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 406 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 20, 2014 05:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Despite all of of airiness in my chart I am water dominant. It's a blessing, not at all a curse. Sometimes, it gets really overwhelming. I feel everything and everyone all of the DAMN time. I read to deeply into a lot of things, but thankfully not everything. When I was younger I used to feel that way, I was pretty damn emotional, got upset and cried over the smallest things. I learned how to control it by ignoring it, and never facing it. So you can imagine how that worked out for me LOL. When DF and I first got together I swear I cried over everything, our smallest little milestone, Barbie cried. He's made me feel unlike anyone has before, ever. It's incredible the amount of love we have for each other. I'm able to love him completely, without any limits. I think the best distraction for us water dominants is love. We love so deeply, purely and freely. No one can beat our passion or selflessness. We were born to love and express our emotions. So if not in a relationship, find something else that you're really good at and master it. Love the hell out of it lol. Us water people are pretty darn creative so I'm sure you'll find something to love I think it's awesome that you're not afraid of your emotions and aren't afraid of crying. That's awesome. So many guys nowadays are so mute emotionally. It's annoying and weak as hell to me. You'll get through this, you'll just really have to control yourself. If that Cancer Mars is anything like mine then believe me with lots of control it'll submit. Talk with people and if you can't do that then write about it. Do something to get it out, don't keep it bottled up. Trust me that's not something you want to do, it creates even more problems.
Wow barbie you hit everything exact! Lmao our cancer mars are alot alike it makes me feel weak at times because society is so hung up on men being tough, showing no emotion not crying and just pretty much being players with no heart i mean i tried that lifestyle and it really wasnt satisfying to me at all my boys are mad im still not over my ex but i cant help it when im with someone i truly bond with them and once thats done i cant just make the bond disappear i do need somebody else to connect with and now that i dont have that im focusing all my energy in the gym and thats still not enough lol it really is the struggle to be in love with someone and have cancer mars and you cant even love them its like torture! I just have so much emotions inside that i have to stay busy either im working or im out partying or atleast out the house, my parents are like your never home anymore lol i just cant stand to be in a house relaxing anymore its really hard but i see everyone else whos water dominant goes through the same thing so atleast im not alone lmao thanks for you reply it does make me feel a lot better to know im not the only one hahaa IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4237 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 20, 2014 05:59 PM
Keep it up!! Don't let it eat at you because once it does it feels almost impossible to stop obsessing over it. I really hope you get her back. If it weren't meant to be then she won't come back but when she does(which I'm almost certain she will) don't ever let her go!! Treat her the way you want to be treated, which is like a king and she your queen. Love her and tell her you love her, remind her every so often and she'll be liquid gold in your hands I'm rooting for you. Show all that water who's boss!! IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2477 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 20, 2014 06:17 PM
That's right! Show that water who's boss! "Get over here! Stop crying. Gimme some sugar." JK... I couldn't help that one. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 1737 From: CO, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 20, 2014 06:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by Supreme cT: Does any one else get tired of there water placements? Iv been going through some problems in life and i really feel emotionally unstable...Does anybody else with a water dominant chart or alot of personal water placements feel the same? I think now that venus is in cancer im feeling even more emotional its very draining
Hi Supreme. I'm sorry to see you feel overwhelmed by your Water signature. I am often easily overwhelmed by my Water signature, too. I have 5 planets in Scorpio, Moon-Neptune almost exact, Saturn in Pisces, Pluto in the 12th and Mars in Cancer the 8th. My life has been very difficult and filled with emotional roller coasters. I've been suicidal and had issues with SI... all because my feelings are often huge tidal waves that threaten to suck me up and destroy me. My Moon is in Virgo which can help me rationalize some of my feelings but it isn't easy. The best advice I can give is trying to write out your feelings, see a shrink [I'm working on this now], and count backwards from 10 when a strong angry feeling is coming on...when you're sad, try to write down or think out loud about where the source of your pain is and all you DO have control over to make it better. These are all logic-based tactics to help counter some of the issue you have with Water ruling your thinking. IP: Logged |
Comatoes Knowflake Posts: 184 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 21, 2014 12:14 AM
You sound heart-broken Supreme, nothing can help but time. I truly hope you find relief. I'm happy you are not succumbing to society's idea that we should all act like robots. Keep expressing yourself. People with Water tend to bond with people to the extreme, it takes a long time for them to get over people, it's just the nature of the beast. To be honest, I don't think they ever really get over people, they may not feel the same way about them, but they still have a place in their memories and heart.I am almost 50% Water and highly sensitive and a empath, I have always tried to block my emotions, and it only makes your body toxic. Water people try to adapt to a World that doesn't value instinct, emotions, and sensitivity. Society for the most part wants everyone to be tough and emotionless (women are not immune either, people view high femininity in women as bad, women today are suppose to act tough and put together and not too overtly feminine). But humans were not built for this type of way of being, that is why modern society is literally sick with physical and mental illness, we don't own our emotions. Last night, I was reading about this 50 year old elephant that was saved from being tortured ever since it was a baby elephant, on July 2nd it was rescued, and all the people who rescued it said the elephant started crying, and was weeping because it knew that it was being saved, even the people who was part of the rescue never saw anything like it. Just reading that made me so sad, my throat started hurting and my eyes were all watery, but like a Gemini Moon I just stuffed all my feelings away. I find it very hard to express myself, I'm really trying to work on it, just like you are. It's difficult, but I think it's important just for health reasons. Water people need a lot of sleep, and sleep and dreams can heal you. Even with all this difficulty, I would never give up any of my Water placements. Having Water in your chart makes life vivid, profound, raw, and alive. IP: Logged |
Bluejay Knowflake Posts: 143 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 21, 2014 02:56 AM
Supreme, it takes a real man that is in touch with his emotions to let them out and cry when you need to. If the world had more sensitive men, it would be a much better place to live, so never be ashamed of that! I'm curious if that full moon at 20 degrees Capricorn hit any of your planets? It squared my Moon/Pluto conjunction in the 8th and I've been having random crying spells for days. I cried for nearly an hour yesterday over an advertisement with cute kittens that reminded me of my cat that passed away. I couldn't help it. If you don't mind saying, what movie had you so emotional? IP: Logged | |