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Topic: Scorpios - Have you suddenly lost interest in relationships?
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MineAgain Knowflake Posts: 402 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 21, 2014 10:58 AM
For some reason, I just can't seem to be interested in meeting new men/dating anymore! I've become more ambitious and workaholic than ever. I've been trying to date but I'm just not interested. Not because I'm in pain or something, but just because I'm no longer interested all of the sudden! Work suddenly comes first.What is very strange is that I completely lost interest in rekindling with a man I had been dreaming of for the past year. I was so obsessed with him and suddenly, I no longer have any interest in dating him again or anyone else for that matter. I'm just career obsessed. Why is that? Chart: (My natal chart is the inner wheel) IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 1533 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 21, 2014 12:03 PM
Is Saturn transiting your 5th house? How about your progressions? How are they looking?IP: Logged |
babybull82 Knowflake Posts: 276 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 21, 2014 12:03 PM
Well for one Saturn has been in Scorpio for a long time now, and I believe as of Sunday it is now moving direct. I'm not a Scorpio, but I think everybody has been feeling the effects of Saturn in Scorpio. During the RX I was obsessed with thinking about past relationships. But now I could care less about them and ready to move on with life and haven't really given two thoughts to wanting to be in one either.IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 750 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 21, 2014 12:17 PM
Trans Saturn is currently sitting on my BF's moon in ScorpioHe got a promotion when Saturn was transiting Libra(his natal Sun)and now, closely aspecting his Moon,he has been very stressed and working late. So,I think you are not the only one who is "career focused" right now. I get out of his way and try to make the home life as comfortable as possible. IP: Logged |
ariestaurus Knowflake Posts: 362 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 21, 2014 12:48 PM
Lol my entire relationship with my scorp has been suffering for the past 6 months due to his work. Saturn in scorp had been transiting his 10th house. He has no time for anything. We met when saturn was conjunct his 10th house scorp venus and everything was great, but when it went on to conjunct his 10th house sun and square his mars, things went bad. He's so bogged down with work :-( IP: Logged |
Isa Newflake Posts: 18 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Feb 2011
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posted July 21, 2014 12:53 PM
I felt the need to be single when saturn was conjunct my sun and mars in libra. Now I have Tr saturn conjunct natal venus. Can't get over my last (really bad) relationship and i lost my job. No boyfriend, no job, no money. IP: Logged |
MineAgain Knowflake Posts: 402 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 21, 2014 01:17 PM
I did post a chart in case some of you are nice enough to help me interpret what's going on Thanks IP: Logged |
deptic Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Earth, Raised on Pluto Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 21, 2014 01:32 PM
i don't have Scorpio in my chart. does it affect me too? if so, how?IP: Logged |
ariestaurus Knowflake Posts: 362 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 21, 2014 03:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by MineAgain: I did post a chart in case some of you are nice enough to help me interpret what's going on Thanks
Can you post your chart using astro.com? The one you posted doesn't look very clear to me. It looks like Saturn is transiting your Pluto, and Pluto is transiting your Neptune (which would make sense given your workaholism- Neptune rules your 10th house of career, located in your 6th house of work, Saturn transiting your 5th house of romance and dating conjunct Pluto, the ruler of your 5th house), but want to make sure. IP: Logged |
MineAgain Knowflake Posts: 402 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 21, 2014 03:30 PM
Thank you ariestaurus. Here is the astro.com chart:
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posted July 21, 2014 04:10 PM
All the scorpios i know have been going through the same thing these past 3 years.IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee Knowflake Posts: 176 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted July 21, 2014 04:39 PM
MineAgain, While noting that 'workaholic' or 'obsessed' behaviors are out of balance and generally indicate avoidance of other things, I will acknowledge that your change in orientation is appropriate. Here is one reason astrologically: Your birth chart is getting hit by a Pluto transit that you cannot see in the flat wheel chart. It has both Mercury [19S10] and N.Node [19S51] between 19 & 20 degrees. Recently Pluto has transited that area and is now at 20S21. This shows that your mind and general orientation would be affected by the Pluto transit towards moving forward with your life and not tolerating anything that would hold you back. Also Saturn has recently transited conjunct and parallel Sun-Venus in your birth chart. This enhances the influence of Pluto even more sharply to drop attachments that no longer serve you and to conserve and direct your energy investment in a way better suited to you now. Jupiter [now 21N33] has also recently transited your birth Mars [22N40] in declination. This transit can expand your energy, desire for activity, heighten ambition and add to your sense of independence. ------------------ Expert rectification, professional astrology consults http://kannonmcafee.wordpress.com/ IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2566 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 21, 2014 04:47 PM
Saturn is in Scorpio. Any possibility that has something to do with it? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 750 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 21, 2014 04:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by Isa: I felt the need to be single when saturn was conjunct my sun and mars in libra. Now I have Tr saturn conjunct natal venus. Can't get over my last (really bad) relationship and i lost my job. No boyfriend, no job, no money.
Shut the door!!! Shut the freakin door!!! My situation exactly- except the boyfriend part.We seem to be solid(despite his current workaholic status). What is your Asc? And what house is Saturn transiting? I also have natal Venus conjunct transiting Saturn now. But I guess I am used to the energy because I do have the same conjunction natally.It's not that bad. I am coping very well. I have been doing a lot of introspection and "holistic health" reading, spiritual meditation etc. Its been very interesting indeed. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 1793 From: CO, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 21, 2014 05:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Isa: I felt the need to be single when saturn was conjunct my sun and mars in libra. Now I have Tr saturn conjunct natal venus. Can't get over my last (really bad) relationship and i lost my job. No boyfriend, no job, no money.
I'm sorry. T.Saturn has been over my Venus-NN-Jupiter in Scorpio and I have had a string of bad, traumatic relationships and issues with money. However, I've learned some lessons about myself, my self-worth and the meaning of love with these painful transits. I hope you can find the light at the end of the tunnel too, no matter how small the positives are. I also have been having a very hard time with getting a part-time job and I hope that changes soon. IP: Logged |
ariestaurus Knowflake Posts: 362 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 21, 2014 05:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by MineAgain: Thank you ariestaurus. Here is the astro.com chart:
Ok yes so what I said before stands. Neptune is your 10th house ruler and is located in the 6th house, your house of work. Pluto adds focus and singlemindedness. You are intensely focused in your career and it will undergo a transformation during this period. What do you do, by the way? And yes, saturn transiting your 5th house can col down one's desire for dating and romance. You find it un appealing at this time. You are in a serious time right now. The conjunction to your fifth house ruler, Pluto, adds to this. No time for fun and games for you. Also jupiter is conjunct your 1st house south node so you are focused in yourself right now. IP: Logged |
plutomercjup20 Knowflake Posts: 232 From: I live where you vacation Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 21, 2014 05:44 PM
I have been feeling exactly like that!!! Like I've always been one that would have loved to be in realtionships and I've been obssessed with some guy there for 2 years but since last week I've been feeling so uninterested in dating and anything to do with realtionships and even with the the guy , I just don't feel the same way anymore and it's just plain odd because this is very unlike me , Saturn is in my 6th house so I guess that's why I'm very career oriented lately but it still hasn't hit my Scorpio stellium (end of Scorpio) so idk I'm the same as you right now. IP: Logged |
MineAgain Knowflake Posts: 402 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 21, 2014 05:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by ariestaurus: Ok yes so what I said before stands.Neptune is your 10th house ruler and is located in the 6th house, your house of work. Pluto adds focus and singlemindedness. You are intensely focused in your career and it will undergo a transformation during this period. What do you do, by the way? And yes, saturn transiting your 5th house can col down one's desire for dating and romance. You find it un appealing at this time. You are in a serious time right now. The conjunction to your fifth house ruler, Pluto, adds to this. No time for fun and games for you. Also jupiter is conjunct your 1st house south node so you are focused in yourself right now.
Thank you very much! I just graduated from college and I'm trying to figure out what's the best move for me now. IP: Logged |
MineAgain Knowflake Posts: 402 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 21, 2014 05:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by plutomercjup20: I have been feeling exactly like that!!! Like I've always been one that would have loved to be in realtionships and I've been obssessed with some guy there for 2 years but since last week I've been feeling so uninterested in dating and anything to do with realtionships and even with the the guy , I just don't feel the same way anymore and it's just plain odd because this is very unlike me , Saturn is in my 6th house so I guess that's why I'm very career oriented lately but it still hasn't hit my Scorpio stellium (end of Scorpio) so idk I'm the same as you right now.
Oh man, it's exactly how I feel! I had been obsessed with the same man since April 2013 and it would usually take a guy to make me forget about another guy. However, since July 8th my life hasn't been the same. It's so sudden though. Believe me, I was so obsessed with him, I thought I'd never get over it! I woke up on that day and boom gone, no interest no more. First, I was secluded in my room until the 11th because I was too busy brainstorming. It never happens as I'm usually an active person. I've lost all interest in this man, men, dating, friendships and social interactions. I'm not interested in having fun and I'm suddenly finding myself thinking and creating plans for the months/years ahead. I used to like dating but now it's lost its spark. Meh. I want people to leave me alone so I can get to the top. Odd. I hadn't felt like this since wow ... 2008. From late 2008 until July 8th 2014, I couldn't deal with being single/dating. I would always long for dating even if I was single at times. Now, I just couldn't care less. Even if a man were to ask me out, I'd turn him down. No enthusiasm at all.
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Isa Newflake Posts: 18 From: Rio de Janeiro Registered: Feb 2011
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posted July 21, 2014 09:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Shut the door!!! Shut the freakin door!!!My situation exactly- except the boyfriend part.We seem to be solid(despite his current workaholic status). What is your Asc? And what house is Saturn transiting? I also have natal Venus conjunct transiting Saturn now. But I guess I am used to the energy because I do have the same conjunction natally.It's not that bad. I am coping very well. I have been doing a lot of introspection and "holistic health" reading, spiritual meditation etc. Its been very interesting indeed.
Hey Aries23degress I am a Pisces rising. Saturn is transiting my 8th house. It conjuncts my Venus and Pluto. Glad you are coping well with this hell. Everything feels so heavy and depressing to me. It's interesting reading you are getting into meditation and spirituality because i'm getting way more interested in astrology now. Even though I saved some money, i'm at least getting financial help from my parents, I think this symbolizes Saturn-Venus really well too.
quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: I'm sorry. T.Saturn has been over my Venus-NN-Jupiter in Scorpio and I have had a string of bad, traumatic relationships and issues with money. However, I've learned some lessons about myself, my self-worth and the meaning of love with these painful transits. I hope you can find the light at the end of the tunnel too, no matter how small the positives are. I also have been having a very hard time with getting a part-time job and I hope that changes soon.
Aww sweet-scorpion, thank you for your kind words. I hope to get out of this completely transformed, with more knowledge and self-respect, which i lack. I'm feeling so out of energy right now. To make matters worst, on my next SR i'll have saturn, moon and mars in the 8th house (with Saturn conjunct my natal venus as well) and i'm starting to feel it now. My grandmother and my mother are having some health issues and both will go through surgery. I also found a big ass lump on my right breast. Bad news keep on coming hahaha Anyway, thank you so much and I hope everything goes in the right direction for both of us! IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 517 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 21, 2014 09:52 PM
Saturn is currently transiting my 6th house.I have a Scorpio stellium in my 6th house (Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, and Pluto). Transit Saturn is currently conjunct my Sun, Mercury, and Pluto. I also have Sun conjunct Pluto natally along with a Scorpio descendant. Mars is also conjunct Pluto. Pluto and Mars both conjunct my descendant. Transit Saturn is also squaring my natal Saturn to make matters worse.. I've been in a weird place emotionally since Saturn im entered Scorpio! I have been swinging back and forth between obsessing over previous relationships and completely letting the past oh and completely isolating myself from intimacy and current relationships. I've been doing a lot of soul searching and healing within myself too. All of my intimate encounters and events have felt karmic in some way.. I wouldn't say I've lost interest in relationships.. I just lack enthusiasm or maybe I've just matured within this past year and a half and I know how much works it takes to maintain a committed relationship so there's no need to pursue anything with anyone. During this Saturn in Scorpio transit, I was deeply hurt by someone and looking back on old transits, the relationship was very Plutonian and karmic in nature. Although I am not yet completey healed (almost there), it taught a lot of valuable lessons about relationships. Did I mention I also have my True node in my 7th house? So.. I still deeply crave intimate relationships and love.. I'm just a lot more cautious and mature when it comes to my expectations and realities. The fantasy cloud has been popped and I am not transitioning into a mature adult when if comes to love. It's satisfying yet very lonely indeed. With Saturn entering my 7th house at the end of this year and conjuncting my pluto exact, I hope I enter into a deeply satisfying and committee relationship soon.. Either way, school and my career are my main focus and I'm not too concerned about love anymore. It will come in it's own time (Haha, is this Saturn talking?) IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 750 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 22, 2014 06:20 PM
@ IsaIt's interesting. When I left my previous job(JOB A) to come to the one that I was in(JOB B),I was really miserable and looking for change. I knew from the start that working at JOB A was going to be very testing.That I somehow had to make best of a stifling situation. At the time,Saturn was sextile natal Uranus-My independence was toned down a bit and I found myself living with my parents. When JOB B came,I couldn't wait to assert my independence again. At the time, trans Uranus was square Sun. When JOB B became monotonous and boring, I felt that I wanted to go. At the time trans Uranus trine natal Uranus. Trans Uranus is still forming a trine aspect with natal Uranus and I am still unemployed. I feel like I have fallen off the rat race,living in my own world,on my own clock. I even forget what day it is sometimes. It seems that Uranus is very important in my chart.I seem to like freedom and "breaking free" a lot. IP: Logged |
plutomercjup20 Knowflake Posts: 232 From: I live where you vacation Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 22, 2014 10:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by MineAgain: Oh man, it's exactly how I feel! I had been obsessed with the same man since April 2013 and it would usually take a guy to make me forget about another guy. However, since July 8th my life hasn't been the same. It's so sudden though. Believe me, I was so obsessed with him, I thought I'd never get over it! I woke up on that day and boom gone, no interest no more. First, I was secluded in my room until the 11th because I was too busy brainstorming. It never happens as I'm usually an active person. I've lost all interest in this man, men, dating, friendships and social interactions. I'm not interested in having fun and I'm suddenly finding myself thinking and creating plans for the months/years ahead. I used to like dating but now it's lost its spark. Meh. I want people to leave me alone so I can get to the top. Odd. I hadn't felt like this since wow ... 2008. From late 2008 until July 8th 2014, I couldn't deal with being single/dating. I would always long for dating even if I was single at times. Now, I just couldn't care less. Even if a man were to ask me out, I'd turn him down. No enthusiasm at all.
Wow you're just like me hahah it takes a new guy for me to get over someone as well haha!! But yeah it happened the same to me !! It was out of nowhere , like I got over him over night , it was just odd. I can't remember the dates I started feeling like this but I know it wasn't long ago at all , maybe two weeks ago but wow it's crazy how we are both in almost the exact same situations !!! I as well have no interest in meeting anyone new or just the whole relationship/dating deal , I just want to focus on myself and on my job, nothing else matters to me at this point, I've been feeling very I don't give a **** mood lately about most things that I thought were important to me , but everything that you said its exactly how I feel!!! Wow that's crazy.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 42888 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 24, 2014 04:24 PM
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