posted July 25, 2014 01:47 PM            

And thanks again, I appreciate it.
Physically I definitely look like a Gem riser + Scorp. I think I'm the epitome of what a Mercurial Scorpio looks like.

I knew a guy who had the exact same ASC as myself, to the degree, and he had a Scorpio stellium with Venus in Libra just like me (all in the 6H too). But his chart ruler (Mercury) was in Sag in the 7H in aspect to Jupiter (while mine is in Scorp in the 6H). He was super tall, very talkative and charming; had an overall more elongated and gracious appearance while mine is more squarish and clumsy (mutable vs. fixed//Air vs. Earth house). He was definitely more social and chatty than me, too (but he had his issues as well, that I could see very well). But one thing we had in common was the expression of our eyes at times. He had those sparkly, mischevious, small brown eyes and I could sort of "see myself" in him at times. One day I saw a picture of myself with the exact same expression in my eyes as a picture of him. It was fascinating. Oh, he was super fidgety! So restless. Thank goodness I can sit still most of the time. Double mutable influence when it comes to the chart ruler seems to be quite hard on the nerves, really (thinks of her mother... *nods*. Yep, definitely).

All that to say... pay attention to the chart ruler, people. It's essential.

posted July 25, 2014 01:47 PM            

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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
@ imcappy: obviously u have a cap placement(Yeah i know in super smart lol) and libra? Moon in libra? U look good.
But water dominant? Maybe neptune conjuncts a personal planet? (Now is the right time for me to disappearrr)

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Geminigal, do you know her placements? Anw, you're really good

posted July 25, 2014 01:52 PM            

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Originally posted by MagnumJoe:
Cute

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posted July 25, 2014 01:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
They can be sparkly. But not often since I struggle with chronic depression (or whatever the hell it is).

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Aww. That's just Mercury Rx shaking its head at a crowded 6th House. Ask me how I know.

posted July 25, 2014 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Tss, that wasn't cute! You people-pleasing creature.

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posted July 25, 2014 02:14 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I have been curious about the chart ruler lately, but another topic, another time maybe.

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I wanted to make a thread about it, myself (but that was some time ago). It'd be cool if you could create one sometime.

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Thanks for all the info!
It was quite interesting!
Did you ever talk to or become friends with that guy?

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Ah, you're welcome. Yes, we were buddies and had a bit of a fling going on. In the beginning especially, we were quite attracted to each other. We'd look at each other and smile like idiots. I think it was the ASC/ASC conjunction + Scorpio stelliums conjunct. No deep feelings there though, it was ephemeral.

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Originally posted by Brontex:
Aww. That's just Mercury Rx shaking its head at a crowded 6th House. Ask me how I know.

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Sorry to hear. How do you deal?

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Originally posted by MagnumJoe:
I am not trying to please you, you just don't know what i am saying cute about. When you know, you will understand me

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posted July 25, 2014 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Sorry to hear. How do you deal?

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I ask myself if I'm genuinely sad, or just not happy for no reason whatsoever. Usually it's the latter. Then I ask myself if I have a problem with not being happy all the time for no good reason whatsoever, or if it's just the people around me who do. Then I wonder how much medication they're on.

Sometimes I decide that I am genuinely sad about something. And I choose to think about it and fully experience the emotion while it lasts. Because it's a natural part of growing as a human being.

Then I say $#@! it. I'm probably just a mental construct that thinks it's stuck in a flesh-suit so what difference does it really make anyways.
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ETA: for clarification "not happy/not being happy" = emotionally neutral, or not simply being happy all the time for the sake of being happy all the time. It does not = unhappy. I Just re-read this and realized the double meaning could be confusing.

posted July 25, 2014 02:44 PM            

Brontex, Holy smokes, that's a helluva process you go through. Do you intend to find a practical solution to it? Or are you completely resigned? I've been looking for answers for a long time. I believe I have an idea of what needs to be done, but it's the actual process of doing it that's terrifying. Like opening a huge can of worms you've desperately been trying to keep shut.

[Yeah, sorry for the off-topic.]

posted July 25, 2014 02:44 PM              

Ummmm....

posted July 25, 2014 02:50 PM            

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Brontex, Holy smokes, that's a helluva process you go through. Do you intend to find a practical solution to it? Or are you completely resigned? I've been looking for answers for a long time. I believe I have an idea of what needs to be done, but it's the actual process of doing it that's terrifying. Like opening a huge can of worms you've desperately been trying to keep shut.

[Yeah, sorry for the off-topic.]

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Honestly, now it all kind of happens in an instant. It's not so much that I've resigned myself to it as embraced it.

posted July 25, 2014 02:50 PM            

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Same eyes, same day; what a difference.

Dominants: Fire / Pluto / Aries. Cancer Sun, Scorpio rising. Neptune in 1st.

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posted July 25, 2014 02:53 PM            

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Honestly, now it all kind of happens in an instant. It's not so much that I've resigned myself to it as embraced it.

Probably not the path for everyone but it seems to work for me.

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posted July 25, 2014 02:57 PM            

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Errm... *confused face*

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posted July 25, 2014 03:52 PM              

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Is Barbiegirl an Aquarius ASC or has Aquarius in her chart?

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posted July 25, 2014 04:15 PM            

My most dominant planet is Uranus, right in Aquarius which is the ruler of my 1st house. I think that this speaks for itself.

I have a yellow ring around my eye, a brown spot around my iris which at different lights looks orange. Then I have blue on the left of my eye and green blends with the yellow ring on the right.
Some people tell me I have blue eyes... others say I have green ones. I don't know anymore.

I also have orange-yellow freckles which match my brown spot in my eye.... who even knows anymore?

posted July 25, 2014 04:16 PM            

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Barbiegirl19

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posted July 25, 2014 04:21 PM              

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Originally posted by ilunatique:
I have multicolored eyes ))))))

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Wow

posted July 25, 2014 05:14 PM            

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Originally posted by ilunatique:

guess what i am? i have alien genes everywhere. )))))) my ears are elf like too

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