posted July 23, 2014 12:23 PM            

I need some help.
I met a Libra guy that is totally not my type but something about him I really like. I can't stop thinking about him and he responds to me exactly the way I was always hoping someone would.

I did get a basic chart and from what I have read it sounds like we could have some big issues down the road. I see a lot of little things that I think are cute now that I know would be annoying down the road. Can you take a look at our charts and let me know your thoughts. Thank you in advance and insight is welcomed.

Me

Sun Aquarius 17.29
Moon Leo 13.10
Mercury Pisces 5.18
Venus Capricorn 26.43 R
Mars Taurus 18.56
Jupiter Aquarius 22.54
Saturn Gemini 28.12 R
Uranus Libra 27.45 R
Neptune Sagittarius 9.19
Pluto Libra 6.36 R
Lilith Capricorn 19.30
Asc node Sagittarius 27.28

Him

posted July 23, 2014 12:47 PM            

This you do through personal experience and knowing yourself well.For example, if that planet is blocked or stifled, you "feel" it immediately.

If that planet is energized or encouraged, you also "feel" that immediately.

This is one way of certifying compatibility as the other aspects will not be hard work if the planet that you consider pivotal, is encouraged and satisfied to "shine".

I, for instance, need for Uranus in my chart to breathe. If there are awful aspect with Uranus involving squares and oppositions- I can feel myself "tense up" in relation to the individual concerned.

If there are encouraging aspects but some hard ones,I am more tolerant and willing to reconcile with the person.

You have sensual Venus/Mars trine aspect in earth(wide) and his Mars in Virgo completes that interaction by making a grand earth trine.

No wonder he "responds" the way you hope someone would, he touches both these sensual planets and you are charmed.

Your two Saturn placements are in wide conjunct of Gemini. This usually means you two were born around the same year.

I usually find that Saturn-Saturn connections have some "spunk" lacking. It seems that its just too familiar for me and we both are looking at things in a too conservative fashion and don't have an alternate point of view.