posted July 24, 2014 08:30 AM            

I have Saturn opposite Asc and in the 7th house.

I have Moon/Saturn trine as well as Moon/Mars square and Moon/Mercury opposition.

Often times, I'll be very parental in my interpersonal relationships but also swing the other position; want freedom and break free from such a role. It's very confusing for people who know me.

Like, for instance,i'll offer advice and a way to do something, but I DO NOT want to hold your hand all the way.

So, if you keep coming back with "what do I do now?" without first saying "I tried this, that and those. but nothing" I get irritated and bored.

posted July 25, 2014 05:17 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
^^ I'm not sure about your daughter since she's young, but I think for me, Saturn opposing my ASC (just by being in the 7th, not an actual aspect) gives ME some kind of Moon-ish, young vibe.

I was just thinking people try to show me they care by dictating my life, but I've recently decided "No, I don't like that. That rubs me the WRONG way." And then realized I had Saturn in the 7th therefore I attract people who are older and think they're "wiser." etc.

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I guess it can go both ways.You just helped me realize something.

The 7th house is what we project on others because we "disown" these qualities in ourselves.

What I meant by "parenting" people in my relationships is that,since my Moon is in Cancer,I am concerned about their welfare. I attributed this to Moon/Saturn trine -but I don't think that that is it.

When I examine this,I realize that it is not only people in interpersonal relationships that I think for in this way.It is with ALL people.

So my Saturn/Moon trine describes whom I attract to me: the "parental" sort with very cool emotions.The "Capricorn" type

The Moon/Mars square also describes who I attract to me; the assertive/aggressive sort with loads of passion.The "Aries/Scorpio" type.

The Moon/Mercury opposition is in the same breath. Although here,I can draw critical and/or very social and flighty individuals. The "Gemini/Virgo" types.

The Moon/Venus trine is responsible for the very good-looking people I attract.They are also very,very sweet.These are the "Taurus/Libra" types.

It seems I can't help avoid the Saturnine types,though:I have Venus conjunct Saturn(in Scorpio)and so,I think I'm supposed find them "sexy".

My good friend for many years has Asc in Cap conjunct my Sag Sun cusp:I find that I am a lot more inhibited with him.I don't spend a great deal of time with him and can find his company well..limiting!

posted July 25, 2014 05:43 AM            

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Originally posted by whaaat:
I don't attract older people per-say (most of my friends are younger) but they TREAT me like they're older/more authoritative than me (the brats) lol -_-

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posted July 25, 2014 05:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Is you Moon in aspect to Saturn? sextile, trine,conjunct?

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posted July 26, 2014 06:49 AM            

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Originally posted by whaaat:
Only in my relocation chart (current location).

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Hmmm...that's interesting. How does one calculate that?

In my observations, when Saturn aspects Moon, one attracts those who will have some type of "authority" over them.

When Saturn opposes,squares or conjuncts the Moon, there are fights and squabbles about how the other person is trying to "run" their life,that they should butt out etc.

The trine/sextile is not as intense, but there is some irritation there still.The difference is,however, that the Saturn person is willing to step back and shut up.

With the conjunction, square or opposition- its near impossible. They just can't help it.

But all these are projections of what the person has in their natal chart. There is no Saturn person "out there" trying to run your life and making your life difficult, it's just that the Moon/Saturn aspect individual is sensitive to anyone telling them what to do or how to do something.

So when you get in a relationships with them, they project the Saturn nature on to you and bite your head off when you make suggestions or try to tell them of a differing approach to how they do things.

posted July 26, 2014 09:10 AM            

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Originally posted by 4lifephrases:
I have seen following tendency in someone who has Saturn in 7th with North Node : Sagittarius. Just my observation.

1) Unable to form any marital relationship even though person might have several relationships.

2) The person like other input on decisions to make as they do not want to be solely be responsible for decision they make even though they make decisions based on where they would benefit most. I agree that they need lot of company. They ask for advice from wrong people on their love life.

3) They like to control other people's life and take decision for them as if it was there own life and take up responsibility of parenting when not needed. They give lots of advice too.

4) They are highly dependent on other people when it would all be solved if they took responsibility of their own life rather than getting too much meddled in other people's life.

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I have NN in Pisces, so same difference?

posted July 26, 2014 01:46 PM            

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Originally posted by 4lifephrases:
I have seen following tendency in someone who has Saturn in 7th with North Node : Sagittarius. Just my observation.
1) Unable to form any marital relationship even though person might have several relationships.
2) The person like other input on decisions to make as they do not want to be solely be responsible for decision they make even though they make decisions based on where they would benefit most. I agree that they need lot of company. They ask for advice from wrong people on their love life.
3) They like to control other people's life and take decision for them as if it was there own life and take up responsibility of parenting when not needed. They give lots of advice too.
4) They are highly dependent on other people when it would all be solved if they took responsibility of their own life rather than getting too much meddled in other people's life.

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Very little of that resonates with me.

Except that I like to make decisions as a couple and/or I like to get input on the decisions I'm about to make. But if I don't agree with someone I'll go with what I think is best.

I don't need "lots" of company. But I am happiest in a relationship. However, I would rather be alone than with someone I'm not completely into.

As for work, I've tried a few times to work on my own and I HATE it. Ideally, I'd love to start a business with a partner. Finding a partner I'd trust to do this with is extremely challenging.

I will give advice when asked. Not otherwise. If I do give advice I will tell what I really think and not just what I think they want to hear. Then they can decide if my point of view is valid for them or not.