posted July 24, 2014 10:32 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I can't be bothered to read it all, kinda tedious, but from the little she said (that I saw) she wants to be your friend and nothing else.

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posted July 24, 2014 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by deptic:
its really not that long, some it is repeats cuz i took the snap with the same paragraph again. n thats why i feeling heart broken but more disappointed

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As much as it's immature, sometimes reading between the lines will save you from developing gray hair prematurely!

1: she doesn't want to hurt your feelings so she's making unnessecary conversation about pretty much nothing of value.

2: she SAID that she doesn't want to lose you, among all that other nonsense.

And there you have it. Black on white.

posted July 24, 2014 11:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Aaaand another Gem moon/Pisces moon couple goes down in flames...

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posted July 24, 2014 12:24 PM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
Based on above messages: she does have feelings for you, but - they're not as strong as yours - and that's both scary and confusing for her (you know what you want - she doesn't). She's not on same page with you and your expectations - seem to take a tool on her, she feels pressured (emotionally speaking) - to make the next step and that scares her for more reason than one (unsure of the extent of her feelings, unsure of you and what you expect from her). You want to make a leap of faith - while she's looking for assurance that she's not doing a mistake. She's seems like a dreamer - one who expects love to sweep her off her feet (to be with one - without even knowing how she got there) - while you're more of a practical thinker (here are the steps - here's what we need to do - what we could try). Not the best combination - i give you that. And, it doesn't seem like a case of - a broken heart, more like - a disappointment in the search for love - "for both parties (she won't take this brake up so easy either)".

Just a thought - based on the given details.

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+1 +1 +1 +1 +1 +1 +1 +1 .. i love this!

posted July 24, 2014 12:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Aaaand another Gem moon/Pisces moon couple goes down in flames...

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why is this, if you don't mind? I know we had a post on this somewhere but refresh my memory

posted July 24, 2014 12:36 PM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
She's seems like a dreamer - one who expects love to sweep her off her feet (to be with one - without even knowing how she got there) - while you're more of a practical thinker (here are the steps - here's what we need to do - what we could try). Not the best combination - i give you that.

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Hmm I remember saying something about gem moon being too cerebral, and sag sun being too blunt for a pisces moon.. Loking at your synastry chart again, she does make contacts to all your relationship/attraction house rulers... And like I said before, Saturn craves venus, but being as young as she is, the level of devotion Saturn (you) demands from Venus (her) might just be too much for her to handle. Especially with her Pisces Moon there as well... To her, love should be uber dreamy and romantic.. We are talking white knight in shining armor type stuff here.. Jupiter loves to take things to their limit and then push a little more.. Kinda like your Sag sun The key thing is, she, like 7thguardian said, wants to be swept off her feet, in a HUGE way... I wouldnt say she doesnt have feelings for you, I just dont think it's what you were going for.

Im her opposite, Pisces Sun/Taurus Moon.. And while my pisces can make me a bit wishy-washy at times, my Moon is fixed as can be and if I say something (especially concerning how I feel) its true and binding. She said shes unsure in what way she feels for you, and doesnt want to lead you on... Imo, honesty is the first sign of loving someone. It may just not be the kind of love you were after.

Dont push her on the matter if you want to keep her in your life, pushing will only send her running for calmer waters..

posted July 24, 2014 12:52 PM            

He made a thread about this not long ago. Gemini moon and Pisces moon. It went quite a few pages.

Recipe for disaster if you ask me.

Dep,

posted July 24, 2014 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Charlie

He made a thread about this not long ago. Gemini moon and Pisces moon. It went quite a few pages.

Recipe for disaster if you ask me.

Dep,

Now, not having read it, but having been down this road before. I'd just chill and stay her friend. If she changes her mind, great, if not, you'll very likely have a very special friendship as she realizes how mature and trustworthy you are.

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posted July 24, 2014 01:08 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
why is this, if you don't mind? I know we had a post on this somewhere but refresh my memory

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Only guy who ever dumped me hard was a Gemini moon. Conversations were sorta like...

Him (Gem moon): "So, what's the answer, yes or no?"

Me (Pisces moon): "The answer is maybe."

Gem: "Why are you being evasive?"

Pisces: "Evasive? Huh? I just said maybe because I don't know..."

Gem: "When WILL you know?"

Pisces: "How should I know???"

LOL

posted July 24, 2014 01:10 PM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
Hmm I remember saying something about gem moon being too cerebral, and sag sun being too blunt for a pisces moon.. Loking at your synastry chart again, she does make contacts to all your relationship/attraction house rulers... And like I said before, Saturn craves venus, but being as young as she is, the level of devotion Saturn (you) demands from Venus (her) might just be too much for her to handle. Especially with her Pisces Moon there as well... To her, love should be uber dreamy and romantic.. We are talking white knight in shining armor type stuff here.. Jupiter loves to take things to their limit and then push a little more.. Kinda like your Sag sun The key thing is, she, like 7thguardian said, wants to be swept off her feet, in a HUGE way... I wouldnt say she doesnt have feelings for you, I just dont think it's what you were going for.

Im her opposite, Pisces Sun/Taurus Moon.. And while my pisces can make me a bit wishy-washy at times, my Moon is fixed as can be and if I say something (especially concerning how I feel) its true and binding. She said shes unsure in what way she feels for you, and doesnt want to lead you on... Imo, honesty is the first sign of loving someone. It may just not be the kind of love you were after.

Dont push her on the matter if you want to keep her in your life, pushing will only send her running for calmer waters..

Sorry deptic

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posted July 24, 2014 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Only guy who ever dumped me hard was a Gemini moon. Conversations were sorta like...

Him (Gem moon): "So, what's the answer, yes or no?"

Me (Pisces moon): "The answer is maybe."

Gem: "Why are you being evasive?"

Pisces: "Evasive? Huh? I just said maybe because I don't know..."

Gem: "When WILL you know?"

Pisces: "How should I know???"

LOL

Gemini moon motto is along the lines of "I think, therefore I am." Pisces moon motto is "I drift, therefore I drift."

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posted July 24, 2014 01:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Only guy who ever dumped me hard was a Gemini moon. Conversations were sorta like...

Him (Gem moon): "So, what's the answer, yes or no?"

Me (Pisces moon): "The answer is maybe."

Gem: "Why are you being evasive?"

Pisces: "Evasive? Huh? I just said maybe because I don't know..."

Gem: "When WILL you know?"

Pisces: "How should I know???"

LOL

Gemini moon motto is along the lines of "I think, therefore I am." Pisces moon motto is "I drift, therefore I drift."

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posted July 24, 2014 01:35 PM            

We drove each other nuts. And he *kept changing his mind* about things...so I would try and empathize with whatever he was up to that given day or hour, but he was so changeable...and I guess I am, too, but differently...it was like really bad dancing, stepping on each other's toes.

"Why are you moving THAT way?"
"Because you moved that way yesterday!"
"But I'm HERE now!"
"Right-o, I'm with you now!"
"Too close, back up!"
"Sorry, sorry...I thought you wanted me there?"
"Nooooo I want you to know where you want to be, can't you get it???"

posted July 24, 2014 01:38 PM            

lol

posted July 24, 2014 01:41 PM            

On the next episode of R&J , R finally makes up their mind. Will they love J? Find out next week folks

Okay, in all seriousness, you come across like a typical Taurus.

That part where you said "What do you want from me woman? You want me to move in next door?"LOL. I chuckled

Okay,but this is serious How about you just let the Pisces make up their mind about how they feel? When they are ready?

Its not easy for us Neptune people to really understand what goes on inside us. And this is speaking from a guy with Sun-Jupiter-Neptune conjunct.

We may "love" jelly ,but its not the same as the "love" we feel for some beggar in the street.We feel a lot of stuff- a lot of it very impersonal.

If your Pisces has Mercury also in Pisces,Mercury in 12th or Neptune aspecting it,it'll be a long road before they know what is going on.For now,just take what they say to you as enough.

posted July 24, 2014 01:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
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R: No, don't go. I love you

J: You love me? Are you saying that you really love me? (excited)

R:I don't know. I "want" to love you. Or maybe I do?

J: So you don't love me?

R: I don't know if I don't love you.

J: Then why did you say that you love me?

D R A M A !!!

On the next episode of R&J , R finally makes up their mind. Will they love J? Find out next week folks

Okay, in all seriousness, you come across like a typical Taurus.

That part where you said "What do you want from me woman? You want me to move in next door?"LOL. I chuckled

Okay,but this is serious How about you just let the Pisces make up their mind about how they feel? When they are ready?

Its not easy for us Neptune people to really understand what goes on inside us. And this is speaking from a guy with Sun-Jupiter-Neptune conjunct.

We may "love" jelly ,but its not the same as the "love" we feel for some beggar in the street.We feel a lot of stuff- a lot of it very impersonal.

If your Pisces has Mercury also in Pisces,Mercury in 12th or Neptune aspecting it,it'll be a long road before they know what is going on.For now,just take what they say to you as enough.

It may not be what you want to hear. But its what they want you to know.[/B]

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posted July 24, 2014 01:52 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Did you ever think he was "playing mind games" with you?

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No, I didn't think it was mind games, I knew he was sincere.

He knew I was sincere, too. We genuinely loved each other for a while. Alex Dern said it well on the other thread, about these moons seeing so much potential in each other at first, to communicate so many different feelings.

But there was always an emotional difference and communication divide, and it just widened over time until finally there was nothing.

Maybe other couples have better luck...I'd be interested in hearing their experiences.

*Planning to wait a long time, though*