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Topic: 12th house, escapism, and... flakiness
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Liliya Knowflake Posts: 811 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 25, 2014 10:17 PM
Sorry, if I misspelled the last word.I do it all the time... I mean being flaky, and escaping with no reason... Is it my Moon conj Jupiter/Uranus... I think, its Sun/Venus in 12th, though. I live in my own World, and Im loving it... Sorry, my first post in 4 weeks or so, and its pretty much all over the place No question intended, but if anyone feels the same, please share IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2705 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 25, 2014 10:30 PM
Absolutely. The other thing I do, which may or may not be related is I'll just cut things completely. Big or small, doesn't matter. Example, kinda funny. I used to play the family feud game on my phone. It often didn't give me words even though I was close. Then one time I typed "check" and it didn't take it. It wanted "checks". F that... I uninstalled it and done. I'm not playing that crap. All kinds of things. Someone who's not TOO close, or even kind of close. If they slip too much and I get upset... Gone. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8854 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 12:25 AM
So what do you do to escape?IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 811 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 26, 2014 12:35 AM
Just ignore everyone/ For no reason. Sorry, typing off my phone, will reply properly later.Its hard to explain. I just stop contacting people, even if they did nothing wrong. I just ready crazy books... I dont know... Edit: Dostoevsky and Poe are my favourites! IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2705 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 26, 2014 01:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: So what do you do to escape?
Actually, The beauty of it is I can actually escape even if in a crowd of people. Chart ruler Venus in 12 and square Neptune. (merc and Mars in 12) My imagination is crazy. I can escape into a completely different world and just zone out. IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 811 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 26, 2014 01:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: My imagination is crazy. I can escape into a completely different world and just zone out.
This!!! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8854 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 01:24 AM
Yup I space out, too!IP: Logged |
yellowelevator Knowflake Posts: 172 From: Michigan, Neptune, and sometimes Pluto Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 26, 2014 01:34 AM
Same here IP: Logged |
7Grace Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 26, 2014 03:23 AM
12th house Venus trine Neptune. I tend to live in a dream. It's just better there! lolIP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 9773 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 03:37 AM
Hmm. I have a 12th house sun/saturn conjunction and I'm not flaky at all. I mean sure I have days where I may not feel like talking or doing anything so I will just sort of vegetate and avoid answering the door or the phone but I hardly call that disappearing or being flaky. But I do attract flaky people into my life. Oh God I could write a book about all the flaky people who have left me hanging. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 2184 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 03:43 AM
O/ Flaky Corn Flake IP: Logged |
Wild Horses Knowflake Posts: 338 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 04:11 AM
I don't have anything to add. I just wanted to jump in this thread to escape the rest of the board. Seriously, though, Sun-Venus, Mercury, and Mars in 12th for me. Sometimes I wish the world had a big pause button. IP: Logged |
ilunatique Knowflake Posts: 127 From: uranus Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 26, 2014 05:01 AM
Interesting Deepfreeze, I know someone which has moon in 12th in Aries together with his south node, and he has the talent to kill his emotions for specific people. He'll just cut you off emotionally and continue his life like nothing happened. IP: Logged |
Kibriana Knowflake Posts: 112 From: Zagreb, Croatia Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 27, 2014 05:16 PM
This sounds familiar. Escapism is actually what I do best. I've got 12th house Venus in Taurus, and Neptune opposition ASC, and Neptune square Moon, with Neptune being in the 6th (or - I don't feel like working and dealing with the ordinary world house) and Moon in the 4th, which is by itself and escapist position. Personally, I hate it. Daydreaming and escapism have been destroying my life ever since I started breathing. The real world has no flavour, and it's so difficult living in such a world. Hate it! IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2705 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 27, 2014 05:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by ilunatique: Interesting Deepfreeze, I know someone which has moon in 12th in Aries together with his south node, and he has the talent to kill his emotions for specific people. He'll just cut you off emotionally and continue his life like nothing happened.
Precisely what happens! Just, click, off... And carry on. There are some emotions there but man... They really get crushed into submission and any little bit left... Some of us are absolute masters at hiding it, no matter how someone may try to draw it out.
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bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 410 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 27, 2014 06:12 PM
I used to be an escape artist, very hard to pin down. Mercury is my chart ruler. My rising sign is Virgo but I still vibe pure nervous mercury pretty strongly. And my mercury is in Aquarius. Also got quite a few Neptune aspects.If I can't take it anymore, I mentally check out. If I can't shut off my mind, I physically run away. My life has been so chaotic because of my pattern to moving whenever my present situation got to be too much. For some reason actually physically getting away from your old life is the best escape. I used to be into drinking and drugs and other self destructive things but not so much anymore. I've calmed down a lot since meeting my boyfriend. And I funnily his escapist tendencies have calmed down too. I think sometimes you need to met someone just like you in order to stop your bad habits. I used to be a huge flake too but I'm trying to stop that. It's just that's how my mind works. I don't finish projects or thoughts. If something else is more immediate then I run to tend to that and forget everything else. Most of the time it's just because I get hurt very easily and if I act like I dont care, or force myself not to be involved, then I won't get hurt. I used to be the kind of person that would get really hurt if my friend canceled on me or didn't return a call. If I act flaky, then I can't be hurt because I am acting the same way, and I am uninvolved. IP: Logged |
Anisa Knowflake Posts: 87 From: United States Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 31, 2014 01:15 PM
So glad someone made this thread. I've got sun in 12th house, Neptune in 3rd house, and sun sq Neptune. Boy oh boy where do I start w my escapism tendencies and living in my own world...well I smoke a lot of weed(responsibly, every night before I go to sleep or meditate), very curious about drugs and spirituality. I have been a poor student all my life (sr in high school) because I always had trouble focusing cuz my head was in the clouds. I just hate traditional schooling. I daydream a lot. In fact, I can't remember the last time where I haven't played made up scenarios in my head. I come off as cold (Scorp moon and rising) but really I'm a huge softie who dreams of world peace and unity. I get so sensitive when I came across people in unfortunate situations (homeless, parentless, any Discomfort). IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 7610 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 31, 2014 04:49 PM
Sigh. With all my Neptune influences and Mars and Jupiter there, I feel like I basically operate from my 12th house. I'm in that mode right now! I don't feel like talking to any of my friends except for the Scorpio and her Aquarius boyfriend, and I deleted Facebook and my other tarot account, and can totally feel myself going into my own corner. IP: Logged |