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Topic: What turns you on? and What's your style in bed?
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 784 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 08:11 AM
Hey guys.This thread is actually inspired by both the Mars in Cap and Mars in Cancer sexuality.I am curious of other placements too. What turns you on? Seriously. What gets you all hot and sweaty? All within appropriate expression-mindful of the nature of this forum of course. I have Libra Mars and,contrary to popular belief of the position not endowing an individual with a high sex drive,mine is pretty hectic. As a Mars in Libra, I prefer a good physical proportion more than just physical facial beauty- I find that attractive and alluring. But Mars is also in 6th house and I find that I am "organized" when it comes to sex. Spontaneity is definitely missing. I can be critical and hard on myself if I feel I haven't given my "best" in sex. I focus a lot on execution,technique and delivery(rather than ecstasy or emotion). Sex with me is never chaotic or sporadic, it's quite deliberate and I feel like I am at "work" and my duty is to "please" my mate. Mars forms a sextile with Jupiter and so,I guess that is where my big appetite for lovin' comes from. I'm not obsessed, but i like doing every night. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 8090 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 08:59 AM
quote: What turns you on? Seriously. What gets you all hot and sweaty? All within appropriate expression-mindful of the nature of this forum of course.
------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 339 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 26, 2014 10:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Wow that is so natural and ordinary
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 2154 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 10:27 AM
Turn on-hands Style-earthy. desire to be "one" with the otherVirgo Mars 12H Capricorn Moon 5H *bids this thread adieu before Randall beats me to it* IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 784 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 10:28 AM
Did I miss the boat here? I don't get it but I can't help cracking up. Lol IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 8090 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 10:42 AM
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Balloon_fetish ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Wild Horses Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 10:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Balloon_fetish
Seriously... I thought you just liked big balls. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 1073 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 26, 2014 11:18 AM
Mars in 9th opposite Neptune and Uranus in 3rd trine mercury. Anything and everything turns me on, it doesn't take much, imagination and creativity is good as well, I have Scorpio Eros and psyche im not afraid of sex at all and ill pretty much try everything, within safety. Conversations during sex and words are a turn on aswell. I view sex as a sacred and beautiful thing though, i dont do casual, it has to be special, have meaning and love. On another note, will this thread be closed quickly? IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 339 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 26, 2014 11:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Hmmm... I am a Mars in Libra in, but i think my Venus in Scorpio changes the game a lot. I have my Mars in 10th and Venus in 11th. What turns me on: •Looks: like you said, good proportions. In face, body, and between face and body. I am also picky. Actually very picky. And with these, the girl has to be a femme fatale, or at least has this depth and passion aura around her •Actions: Sweet words and being told "i love you" turn me on a lot. I feel like i am cross wired If someone talks nice to me i get turned on not feel loved, and if someone approaches me sexually i feel loved, but then turned on, because it made me feel love This is so 'F'ed up What's my style: •Sweetly seductive. Sexually charming. Gently controlling. Passionately poetic. Romantically alluring. Everything must go very smooth, very passionate, with flirtation, even in the act itself, with verbal stimulation and word play (Sex vs Romance puns and word play) lots and lots of teasing, with a flare of dark dominance and irresistible control. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 2154 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 12:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: Hmmm...I am a Mars in Libra in, but i think my Venus in Scorpio changes the game a lot. I have my Mars in 10th and Venus in 11th. What turns me on: •Looks: like you said, good proportions. In face, body, and between face and body. I am also picky. Actually very picky. And with these, the girl has to be a femme fatale, or at least has this depth and passion aura around her •Actions: Sweet words and being told "i love you" turn me on a lot. I feel like i am cross wired If someone talks nice to me i get turned on not feel loved, and if someone approaches me sexually i feel loved, but then turned on, because it made me feel love This is so 'F'ed up What's my style: •Sweetly seductive. Sexually charming. Gently controlling. Passionately poetic. Romantically alluring. Everything must go very smooth, very passionate, with flirtation, even in the act itself, with verbal stimulation and word play (Sex vs Romance puns and word play) lots and lots of teasing, with a flare of dark dominance and irresistible control.
*takes notes and will try to remember it all*..
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 2154 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 12:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Wild Horses: Seriously... I thought you just liked big balls.
I like 'em round, and big And when I'm throwin' a gig I just can't help myself, I'm actin' like an animal Now here's my scandal I wanna get you home And ugh, double-up, ugh, ugh I ain't talkin' bout Playboy 'Cause silicone parts are made for toys I want 'em real thick and juicy So find that juicy double I like big balls and I cannot lie...
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DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2616 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 26, 2014 12:36 PM
Virgo Mars (And Venus) in 12thTurn ons: - Intelligence - Very good hygiene (Smell!!) - Feminine body figure (bigger or smaller - no "sticks" and no "roundies") - easy going (not worrisome or anxious) Style in bed, well I don't want to get too descriptive and really it's just very simple, but I feel just the absolute best. - Passionate More the better! Being just completely lost. It could be Tuesday.... Friday... 2014 or 2020... I could be in Midwest USA, Middle East, Australia... who the heck knows!? IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 895 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 26, 2014 02:45 PM
Balloons? What do you do with them??? Seriously?All the men jumped in to answer and yes cappy and her balloons!
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DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2616 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 26, 2014 03:02 PM
Here you go cappy. Don't say that I never did anything for you! http://youtu.be/QUMx0urwVRo IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1809 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 26, 2014 03:38 PM
Mars in virgo in 4th house, opposite moon, conjunction sun, square uranusKind of everything turns me on lol, if the guy is hot and we cuddle, then that is enough for me… I don't need a long foreplay either, I don't even need to do experiments to be turned on, or have an obsession… I just like to get going, no matter where, and when lol! IP: Logged |
lvASTRO Knowflake Posts: 184 From: Las Vegas, NV Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 26, 2014 03:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: Hmmm...I am a Mars in Libra in, but i think my Venus in Scorpio changes the game a lot. I have my Mars in 10th and Venus in 11th. What turns me on: •Looks: like you said, good proportions. In face, body, and between face and body. I am also picky. Actually very picky. And with these, the girl has to be a femme fatale, or at least has this depth and passion aura around her •Actions: Sweet words and being told "i love you" turn me on a lot. I feel like i am cross wired If someone talks nice to me i get turned on not feel loved, and if someone approaches me sexually i feel loved, but then turned on, because it made me feel love This is so 'F'ed up What's my style: •Sweetly seductive. Sexually charming. Gently controlling. Passionately poetic. Romantically alluring. Everything must go very smooth, very passionate, with flirtation, even in the act itself, with verbal stimulation and word play (Sex vs Romance puns and word play) lots and lots of teasing, with a flare of dark dominance and irresistible control.
Ahhhhh, that whole entire part about being crosswired is the story of my life! My boyfriend always jokingly calls me a freak/monster or says, "you're sick," because he will be hugging me, or talking about wanting to have children/a family with me, and I get ready to go in 2.5 seconds flat. It's the weirdest thing. A small kiss, a squeeze of the hand--turns me on and arouses me. Straightforward sexual advances more so make me feel wanted, which makes me feel loved, which usually ends up to sex, but not as quickly. It's the sweet stuff that gets me all carnal. WTF?! I have mars in Capricorn conjunct Saturn-Uranus-Neptune in 3H with Venus in Aries conjunct Jupiter-Juno and opposite ASC in my 7H. Why am I like this?!? Also, public places, the idea of being caught/someone watching, being smacked around a little, smacking around a little, being rough then sweet, going for a long time, skipping foreplay and just going for it. ...yeah...
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 1551 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 26, 2014 04:02 PM
Mars in Libra here. I still don't understand where people get this stereotype that Mars in Libra isn't a sexual placement. In reality, I think it is highly sexual even though it's in detriment.The thought of me turning someone on will turn me on as much as the guy. I find that dirty talk and sexy pick-up lines turn me on. If the guy tells me how sexy I am, I get turned on. And.. guys who are just plain attractive and have nice-looking arms turn me on instantly (the typical manly man body type). But usually it depends on who's trying to turn me on. I think Venus still has something to do with sex. My Venus is in Virgo and if I have no interest in the guy whatsoever, I'd find it really hard to be turned on. If the guy looks unhygienic, I'd probably run away and go cover myself in winter clothing. I like spontaenous sex (5th house Mars) and roleplay (Mars square Neptune in the 8th). I like all that steam and passion and energy. Outdoor sex is my favorite especially in places where it is most likely to get caught (though I never really had this yet.. too young lol ). If the sex isn't that type of sex, then it is not good enough in my opinion. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 339 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 26, 2014 04:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by lvASTRO: Ahhhhh, that whole entire part about being crosswired is the story of my life! My boyfriend always jokingly calls me a freak/monster or says, "you're sick," because he will be hugging me, or talking about wanting to have children/a family with me, and I get ready to go in 2.5 seconds flat. It's the weirdest thing. A small kiss, a squeeze of the hand--turns me on and arouses me.Straightforward sexual advances more so make me feel wanted, which makes me feel loved, which usually ends up to sex, but not as quickly. It's the sweet stuff that gets me all carnal. WTF?! I have mars in Capricorn conjunct Saturn-Uranus-Neptune in 3H with Venus in Aries conjunct Jupiter-Juno and opposite ASC in my 7H. Why am I like this?!? Also, public places, the idea of being caught/someone watching, being smacked around a little, smacking around a little, being rough then sweet, going for a long time, skipping foreplay and just going for it. ...yeah...
Yeh i am just like that Maybe because of your mars conjunctions. It has an eccentric, responsible and romantic dreamy tones. Put these together, you will get turned on by something different, related to responsibility (marriage, children) and romantic I think it makes sense. Plus mars in cap in itself needs grounding and purpose to have sex with someone. quote: Originally posted by charlie: *takes notes and will try to remember it all*..
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MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 339 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 26, 2014 04:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen: Mars in Libra here. I still don't understand where people get this stereotype that Mars in Libra isn't a sexual placement. In reality, I think it is highly sexual even though it's in detriment.The thought of me turning someone on will turn me on as much as the guy. I find that dirty talk and sexy pick-up lines turn me on. If the guy tells me how sexy I am, I get turned on. And.. guys who are just plain attractive and have nice-looking arms turn me on instantly (the typical manly man body type). But usually it depends on who's trying to turn me on. I think Venus still has something to do with sex. My Venus is in Virgo and if I have no interest in the guy whatsoever, I'd find it really hard to be turned on. If the guy looks unhygienic, I'd probably run away and go cover myself in winter clothing. I like spontaenous sex (5th house Mars) and roleplay (Mars square Neptune in the 8th). I like all that steam and passion and energy. Outdoor sex is my favorite especially in places where it is most likely to get caught (though I never really had this yet.. too young lol ). If the sex isn't that type of sex, then it is not good enough in my opinion.
I hear you I think, mars being in libra, doesn't make the person less sexual. It just makes the person have sex without sex Like you said and i said (even me as a male), we get turned on by words, flirting and foreplay. Mars in libra is the foreplay Master! Unlike most of other signs. Mars in libra thinks that sex is about foreplay and flirting! It's like flirting can get you an orgasm We enjoy everything that is related to flirting, be it in words or physically, which pushes us a bit away from the actual act: it comes after we are truly satisfied by the 1st part IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 784 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 26, 2014 05:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: I hear you I think, mars being in libra, doesn't make the person less sexual. It just makes the person have sex without sex Like you said and i said (even me as a male), we get turned on by words, flirting and foreplay. Mars in libra is the foreplay Master! Unlike most of other signs. Mars in libra thinks that sex is about foreplay and flirting! It's like flirting can get you an orgasm We enjoy everything that is related to flirting, be it in words or physically, which pushes us a bit away from the actual act: it comes after we are truly satisfied by the 1st part
Nice very well put. I'm feeling a lot of love for my Mars in Libra. I love to flirt. My BF has Sun and Venus in Libra and so,I flirt a lot with him- even in public or when we are sitting in a restaurant. Most people think we just met are on a date because I treat him as if I have just met him. It's hard for me to stop not appreciating him or thinking he is just sex on legs. But,it takes a lot to get him to come off it though(he also has Saturn in Libra), and sometimes he'll say " you are so transparent. I know what you are after" I didn't do so well with people that were overly "physical" though. I find my Venus in Scorpio is deceptively so promising and seductive to them that when the "gentleman" shows up in bed(Mars in Libra), people are confused. Because the two are in mutual reception, sometimes they see the "gentleman" first and find a "sultry sultan" at the center. Thank goodness I met the Libra. Those were some really awkward early years
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MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 339 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 26, 2014 05:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: I love to flirt. My BF has Sun and Venus in Libra and so,I flirt a lot with him- even in public or when we are sitting in a restaurant.Most people think we just met are on a date because I treat him as if I have just met him. It's hard for me to stop not appreciating him or thinking he is just sex on legs. I find my Venus in Scorpio is deceptively so promising and seductive to them that when the "gentleman" shows up in bed(Mars in Libra), people are confused.
Because the two are in mutual reception, sometimes they see the "gentleman" first and find a "sultry sultan" at the center.
Yeh that is just me But i am kind of a mix. I vibe both energies a lot. I am instantly confusing. Girls find me talking sweetly, charmingly, but using sexual puns in a funny witty way Then i start sending these sexual subliminal messages and images inside their psyche, maybe even without words and with minimal body language implications So they actually find themselves laughing about sex and they take it easy, and still i don't come across as a perv I get away with it And then slowly, the more the charm increase, the more the seduction increases until they don't know which one am i ? And even in bed, i am BOTH! In a very confusing way because they can feel both of the energies, so they get overwhelmed. Hey i thought you were a guy all this time lol IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 5491 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted July 26, 2014 05:41 PM
A Libra Mars male sounds rather dull...Cancer Mars male are better even though Mars is actually worser there, but at least Cancer is the sign of emotions, defensiveness, and affectionsI really do prefer Mars in Taurus or Capricorn, endurance, strength, physical prowess, and love of sensual pleasures. My love style? I am really sensual and like to be the one to be dominated, I like for my lover to be very interested in body and really get off on the act of sex. ~Moon in Taurus, Mars in Cancer, Venus in Gemini
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MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 339 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 26, 2014 05:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: A Libra Mars male sounds rather dull...Cancer Mars male are better even though Mars is actually worser there, but at least Cancer is the sign of emotions, defensiveness, and affectionsI really do prefer Mars in Taurus or Capricorn, endurance, strength, physical prowess, and love of sensual pleasures. My love style? I am really sensual and like to be the one to be dominated, I like for my lover to be very interested in body and really get off on the act of sex. ~Moon in Taurus, Mars in Cancer, Venus in Gemini
Wooo We have Venus/Mars DW IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 5491 From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted July 26, 2014 05:46 PM
What degree is your Venus and Mars then, Joe? IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 339 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 26, 2014 05:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: What degree is your Venus and Mars then, Joe?
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