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Topic: what sign or aspect could this fit?
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hannaramaa
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posted July 26, 2014 10:19 PM
  
"I don't know what I want from relationships or if I want one at all. Getting along with people stresses me out. You either work with me or you don't."IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted July 26, 2014 10:20 PM
Moon opposite VenusIP: Logged |
7Grace
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posted July 26, 2014 10:34 PM
That's your Mars talking.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted July 26, 2014 10:42 PM
Yeah sounds like mars, maybe even an earth or fire mars. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 26, 2014 10:42 PM
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Originally posted by 7Grace:
That's your Mars talking.
Is it because its in the 12th? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 26, 2014 11:13 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Yeah sounds like mars, maybe even an earth or fire mars.
Why earth or fire? Mine is actually in Gemini IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 26, 2014 11:28 PM
It's an aries thing.
My mom has an aries moon and she is like that. She can't really keep friends, she is always burning bridges. And she always finds fault with the men she is dating and dumps them. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 26, 2014 11:57 PM
Always? 😃IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 27, 2014 12:37 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Always? 😃
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BellaFenice
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posted July 27, 2014 12:45 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Always? 😃
No. Unless you think the world is black and white.  One of my best friends is an Aries moon and she is very clear on what she is looking for in a relationship. Pretty agreeable person and is open minded. Yeah, she has the typical Aries impulsiveness at times, but she is not immature when it comes to relationships. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted July 27, 2014 03:08 AM
Why am I always responding to your posts? This is ridiculous.  Moon in 12th. Moon aspecting Neptune.
Neptune in 7th. Ruler of 7th in 12th IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 27, 2014 03:14 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Why am I always responding to your posts? This is ridiculous. Moon in 12th. Moon aspecting Neptune.
Neptune in 7th. Ruler of 7th in 12th
Because I'm inquisitive and you're knowledgable! I have all of those. If I use whole signs my Moon finally goes into the 12th. Otherwise I have Moon trine Neptune, Neptune in the 7th. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted July 27, 2014 03:24 AM
What caught my attention was the statement "I don't know what I want from relationships". That is Neptune-IMO.And also the statement:"You either work with me or don't." I had a friend who used to say "You either get with me or you just leave me the f** alone".  This was usually when he was really ****** with people pressuring him. He had Sun and Mars in Pisces. For Neptune in 7th, it takes effort for one to get along with people. Few notice it because they put on such a valiant effort. The tell-tale sign, however, is that they can be physically exhausted sometimes and a social atmosphere with lots of people can be stressful.
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7Grace
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posted July 27, 2014 06:56 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
"I don't know what I want from relationships or if I want one at all. Getting along with people stresses me out. You either work with me or you don't."
This read Mars to me. Because he is single, relationships well, getting along isn't what Mars likes to do. He's impatient. And it ends in a single minded focus. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 27, 2014 07:12 AM
Sounds like... South Node on the ASC or in the 1st house. Maybe even any combination of Nodes and ASC (and DSC).
Aries influence, and Mars influence, if we're taking rulerships into account (1st house = Aries = Mars).I also like Karka's comment about Moon opposing Venus. The hard aspects can work that way sometimes (usually after several frustrating experiences). I'd add Moon/Mars hard aspects in there as well.
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hannaramaa
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posted July 27, 2014 10:59 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Sounds like... South Node on the ASC or in the 1st house. Maybe even any combination of Nodes and ASC (and DSC).
Aries influence, and Mars influence, if we're taking rulerships into account (1st house = Aries = Mars).I also like Karka's comment about Moon opposing Venus. The hard aspects can work that way sometimes (usually after several frustrating experiences). I'd add Moon/Mars hard aspects in there as well.
Hm. Good points… I don't have SN on the ASC, but my SN is in Virgo while my ASC is in Gemini… so that's actually Mercury. Funny you bring that up while most think it's Mars. I don't have Moon opp. Venus, and I don't really know what it fits with honestly but it's good for brainstorming to see what everyone thinks. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted July 27, 2014 11:01 PM
Air placements can give off indecisive influences. Fire placements give off an "all or nothing" attitude.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted July 27, 2014 11:05 PM
^But air influenced people like people and relationships. We'll do anything to keep peace and friendships if they're meaningful to us. It sounds like a fire or earth mars to me. IP: Logged |
mercuranian
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posted July 27, 2014 11:15 PM
uranus perhaps??IP: Logged |
Geeky
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posted July 27, 2014 11:17 PM
This part - "You either work with me or you don't." It sounds like something I would say. I don't know what particular thing in my chart would point to that, but I have Venus in Scorpio & my Moon in Sagittarius. My grandmother, step-father and my ex-husband would state things very blunt like that too, and they were all Sun in Sagittarius. So my best guess is Moon in Sagittarius. ------------------
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DeepFreeze
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posted July 27, 2014 11:17 PM
Actually, going by what exactly you said I thought it to be more of a modality thing - fixed.
Meet me on my side or not at all. "my way or the highway". I don't know if I want a relationship because I'm not compromising/changing or giving up any freedoms. I like my options, etc. That's what popped into my head anyway. Example, my mom stayed basically single for 35 years so far. She's triple Aries, BUT, fixed Taurus Venus. She liked her way, her lifestyle, the way she decorated and arranged things. She loves moving her things around for new looks.
She couldn't bare the thought of anyone disrupting her OR her woman cave. lol Plus probably in large part for her kids also.
Or like Scorpio Venus MIGHT be like, "give me your WHOLE self, everything, your heart and soul, or give me nothing and go away."
Whereas my mutable Virgo Venus for MOST of my life was like, "I can make it work". IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 27, 2014 11:18 PM
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Originally posted by mercuranian:
uranus perhaps??
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Geeky
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posted July 27, 2014 11:21 PM
Side note: I also have a Moon - Neptune aspect. ------------------
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Geeky
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posted July 27, 2014 11:25 PM
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Actually, going by what exactly you said I thought it to be more of a modality thing - fixed.
Hmmmmm. Makes sense. I am more mutable than anything BUT my Venus is in Scorpio (fixed). Life with me is very much "my way or the highway" when it comes to relationships. My belief is this: If you aren't benefiting my life, I don't have time for you. ------------------
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BellaFenice
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posted July 27, 2014 11:27 PM
She couldn't bare the thought of anyone disrupting her OR her woman cave. lolUh, yeah guilty as charged lol. But air influenced people like people and relationships. We'll do anything to keep peace and friendships if they're meaningful to us. I think the second part of your statement is more of your Cancer Mars + ViS + Libra What caught my attention was the statement "I don't know what I want from relationships". That is Neptune-IMO. Cosigned, cosigned, and cosigned! Especially if we are talking hard aspects. uranus perhaps?? Good observation. For example, moon-uranus could lead to having a struggle between needing physical closeness and partnership, while another side of you fears being controlled and losing your freedom. IP: Logged |
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