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Topic: Male Cap and Female Sag: never lovers?
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MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 365 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 27, 2014 07:09 AM
I have seen all kinds of combinations, but this one, i have never seen!I know good couples with male sag and female cap, but never the other way around. I am a cap sun, but very much sag influenced, and i really get along with sag girls, and i even get attracted to them often but i just NEVER attracted any of them! With them it always stops progressing beyond some point.Even if the synastry is wow! Sometimes even beyond wow! If you are a female sag, have you ever been with a male cap? Or never would you be? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8816 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 27, 2014 07:13 AM
I know one couple. They're happy and it seems to work for them.There's hope. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 365 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 27, 2014 07:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I know one couple. They're happy and it seems to work for them.There's hope.
Nah they are all taken I was just thinking about the past, and reexploring sags as potential lovers, so i had to ask first... IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 8816 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 27, 2014 08:02 AM
Find someone whose Venus conjuncts yours. That would make for some common ground. Or Moon/Venus conjunct. Actually look for conjunctions in general, between personals especially, to compensate for the differences and lack of similarities/attraction.IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 365 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 27, 2014 08:09 AM
In general, until now, i have never had a relationship with someone with good synastry. Don't know why. I rarely meet a Cap venus. I only knew 2, and i met them only twice.I only knew one venus in Leo and she got married. I only know one venus in scorpio and she is taken. I only know one cap moon, and she rejected me, lol. I only know one venus in libra and she is married... Someone is conspiring on me Now that's so "cappy" IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 899 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 27, 2014 08:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: In general, until now, i have never had a relationship with someone with good synastry.....Someone is conspiring on me Now that's so "cappy"
The stars above you : D Do you have too many hard interaspects btwn personal planets?
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MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 365 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 27, 2014 09:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by geminigal2805:
The stars above you : D Do you have too many hard interaspects btwn personal planets?
For a while, i thought so. But then i realized that i REALLY don't even meet these people I meet online people with much better synastry than in real life. I meet soul mates online but not around me! But then again, who am i kidding I do have a lot of hard aspects. Moon square Venus Moon square Saturn Mercury Square Mars Venus conjunct Saturn But not so bad, isn't it? IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 8095 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 27, 2014 12:50 PM
I have everything except the Mercury square, there's a quincunx instead. One can live with them ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2643 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 27, 2014 12:56 PM
LOL@WHYTHISTHREADWASREALLYMADE This isn't pof, okcupid, match, or eharmony. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 1240 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 27, 2014 01:12 PM
Oh boy, Leo Sun pointing fingers at Leo Moon..
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: LOL@WHYTHISTHREADWASREALLYMADE This isn't pof, okcupid, match, or eharmony.
And yet quite a few people found (life) partners here, yourself included. Let the dude vent, wtf.
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DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 2643 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 27, 2014 01:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: Oh boy, Leo Sun pointing fingers at Leo Moon.. And yet quite a few people found (life) partners here, yourself included.
Let the dude vent, wtf.
There's those who "fall" into it, and most of you had no idea it was happening - natural. Then there's those who run around like a dog sniffing out every behind that crosses their path. Secondly, I'm not moaning or complaining but I'll sure as hell laugh at the dude! I know you have a dislike for me. You never address me unless it's to ***** about something I said. Moving on... I was laughing. I laugh at ANYONE who does things like this, uses cheesy lines, etc... Anyone. Edit: I decided to edit rather than post and kick this all back up again. If people catch the edit, fine, if not, fine. Firstly, there's patterns of behavior. Secondly, he's having a conversation with a sag woman last night, discussing some very "inappropriate for LL" sexual things. That thread gets closed. Today, a new thread asking about male caps (which he is) and female sag (which she is). TOTALLY trying to reopen a door for this woman to talk to him again. It's the most obvious thing... And as myself. I just like to call people out. Whether anyone thinks it's uncalled for or driven by some jealousy or what have you. I don't really care. When I see such things it's like an itch that I have to scratch. If we were in person I'd have to leave the room so that I could laugh. I guess I just have always had a much different approach to these things which is PART of why barbie and I caught so many people off guard. These things seem so silly and laughable. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 1240 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 27, 2014 01:41 PM
I don't have a dislike for you, personally, but for the type of behavior you express every now and then. I don't see the necessity for us knowing you were laughing your ass off at someone pouring out his troubles, next time laugh on the inside. Edit: There's been hundreds of people flirting here, discreetly or not, people "fishing" upfront or not, people complaining about their love lives (thousands!), their bad luck or their bad aspects - they were all tolerated, supported and encouraged as per each case. He deserves the same treatment. We get it, you don't like him - you can safely not respond in his threads and not cause a scene, how about that?
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MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 365 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 27, 2014 01:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: LOL@WHYTHISTHREADWASREALLYMADE This isn't pof, okcupid, match, or eharmony.
Ummmm... do you think this "I have seen all kinds of combinations, but this one, i have never seen! I know good couples with male sag and female cap, but never the other way around. I am a cap sun, but very much sag influenced, and i really get along with sag girls, and i even get attracted to them often but i just NEVER attracted any of them! With them it always stops progressing beyond some point.Even if the synastry is wow! Sometimes even beyond wow! If you are a female sag, have you ever been with a male cap? Or never would you be?" Should be on the sites you have mentioned? Having some posts of venting off doesn't mean the whole thread should be there. Basically just like any thread ever. Try to be sensible. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 899 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 27, 2014 02:05 PM
MJ,have you posted your chart in LeeLeo's thread? It is in IA Forum. Thread name is Ideal partner. She guessed my husband's placements!! She doesnt match personal placements. She believes in pattern completion. Ofcourse we cant pick a partner based on their natal chart. Still Im sure u wont lose anything in trying to get her insights.Take care and All the best : ) IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 806 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 27, 2014 02:15 PM
I haven't seen Sag woman and Cap man either.But I've noticed that Gemini and Leo energy is drawn to that dignified Cap energy. So perhaps a Sag with Leo Asc/Moon won't be indifferent to Capricorn? Or a Sag with Gem Asc/Moon will perhaps love breaking down those Cap defenses? A Cap with Cancer Asc/Moon may soften the edges and perhaps attract the Sag. Sag is also drawn to Cancer energy.Don't get why,but they are.
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MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 365 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 27, 2014 02:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: I haven't seen Sag woman and Cap man either.But I've noticed that Gemini and Leo energy is drawn to that dignified Cap energy. So perhaps a Sag with Leo Asc/Moon won't be indifferent to Capricorn? Or a Sag with Gem Asc/Moon will perhaps love breaking down those Cap defenses? A Cap with Cancer Asc/Moon may soften the edges and perhaps attract the Sag. Sag is also drawn to Cancer energy.Don't get why,but they are.
Very TRUE I have seen Cap and Gem and Cap and Leo more than i would have expected. And my grand mother was a Sag and my grand father was Cancer, so i definitely know what you're talking about I have known a Sag with a cancer moon, and another with a Gem moon. The one with Gem moon had read quite a bit into astrology, and she is the one who pointed out this to me, that i will never find a Sag girl with a Cap guy, and she would never fall for a Cap guy, no matter what his placements were. And this was like around 8 years ago, and i thought she was just being all "Proud" And "Saggy" But it is actually true! I remember back then when i asked her why? She said: too much different energy: no energy communication. So i thought it's time to share this thought with you guys IP: Logged |
PisceanDream Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Alexandria, VA, USA Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 27, 2014 02:40 PM
That's very funny actually! I'm thinking about all the Sag gals and Cap guys I know... And I know a Cap guy who has pursued both of my best friends, one with Sag Sun and the other with Sag ascendant and it does always stop at one point. I can think of another Cap sun friend who liked my Sag lady friend and there was something of a sparking relationship between them but she shut it down out of nowhere. What do you reckon it has to do with?IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4341 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 27, 2014 02:44 PM
Obviously a synastry and composite chart would be the mold of the relationship and would give an idea of what it could possibly be like, but since we're generalizing on just suns a Capricorn man wouldn't be enough for a Sagittarius woman. It'd be like mixing hot and cold water, dull, and full of power trips and struggles.It's more difficult for the women(of a different sign) involved if it's with a Capricorn man than it is with man(of a different sign) and a Capricorn female. Capricorn is a feminine sign therefore making it easier to express itself in females. This is why I think it's not as common but obviously happens. There's always unusual combos out there but they aren't based on just the sun IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl Knowflake Posts: 791 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 27, 2014 02:47 PM
LOL, my Dad is a Cap and my Mom is a Sag so the combo *does* happen. In fact, they just celebrated 35th wedding anniversary!IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 365 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 27, 2014 03:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by PisceanDream: I can think of another Cap sun friend who liked my Sag lady friend and there was something of a sparking relationship between them but she shut it down out of nowhere.What do you reckon it has to do with?
That's EXACTLY what i am talking about! They tend to come to disinterest at one point. Since i have a Sag asc, so Jupiter rules my 1st house, and it conjuncts my ascendant (lol) and my sun is on the cusp, i think i am qualified to tell you why. I think, at one point in the relationship, a Cap man, thinks that they need to sort of "rest". Not rest from the relation, but just have some time on the ground. Whereas fire signs in general, want to move forward all the time. Think of it this way. Imagine such a couple out all day, doing various stuff. Sports, hiking, fun, playing, Everything! Then at one point, the Cap will say:"Ok that's enough for today." Not because he has something to do, but because... this is just how he is Caps will have to sort of "stop" at one point! And this is exactly what Sag doesn't like. They want everything to keep moving forward, and Caps hold them back because they need to feel grounded every now and then. quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Obviously a synastry and composite chart would be the mold of the relationship and would give an idea of what it could possibly be like, but since we're generalizing on just suns a Capricorn man wouldn't be enough for a Sagittarius woman. It'd be like mixing hot and cold water, dull, and full of power trips and struggles.It's more difficult for the women(of a different sign) involved if it's with a Capricorn man than it is with man(of a different sign) and a Capricorn female. Capricorn is a feminine sign therefore making it easier to express itself in females.
You said exactly what my Sag friend said:"Not enough." They are very open to everything, and Caps, kinda closes everything quote: Originally posted by Canadiangirl: LOL, my Dad is a Cap and my Mom is a Sag so the combo *does* happen. In fact, they just celebrated 35th wedding anniversary!
WOW! That's cool That's impressive! In general, i REALLY love Sag girls, but they just don't love me I wanna settle, they don't. They don't wanna stop roaming around, i need to stop for a while. IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl Knowflake Posts: 791 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 27, 2014 03:20 PM
You will find the right girl, don't worry. Maybe try a Cancer? I'm with a Cap guy who is wonderfulIP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 365 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 27, 2014 03:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by Canadiangirl: You will find the right girl, don't worry. Maybe try a Cancer? I'm with a Cap guy who is wonderful
Why does everyone thinks that i am desperate to find someone ? Lol. Why is this happening right now ? I don't believe in sticking with a specific sign All options are open because synastry is just uncontrollable. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 871 From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 27, 2014 03:25 PM
Answer: yes.I think LeeLoo's advice for your chart was pretty good, not saying you should only look for those aspects/planets, but fits you really well. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe Knowflake Posts: 365 From: Cairo, Egypt Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 27, 2014 03:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: Answer: yes.I think LeeLoo's advice for your chart was pretty good, not saying you should only look for those aspects/planets, but fits you really well.
Please people stay on topic lol Not intending to be mean or dismissive Bella believe me, i just want to talk about this now It's really intriguing me and i want others' opinions. And... as much as i respect her opinion, but she chose exactly the 2 signs that i can't feel close to. I don't know... Maybe i am narrow minded? But that's not what i can see for myself at all. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 4341 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted July 27, 2014 03:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by MagnumJoe: You said exactly what my Sag friend said:"Not enough." They are very open to everything, and Caps, kinda closes everything .
Well at least now you know from generalizing lol but luckily there's more to it than that. Find a girl you like, don't judge her on what her zodiac sign is, don't pinpoint to just one. That never works out for anyone. IP: Logged |