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Topic: Is it possible to meet your soulmate in public?
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NeptunianSag
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From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 29, 2014 10:48 AM
  
It's really strange, to just pass a stranger but you both have this weird attraction to one another, like you already know eachother, but really you havent met, you both look at eachother immedietly and you get this familiar feeling. This has happened to me a few times. I have my neptune in 3rd - jupiter rules my 3rd and jupiter in 12th. Anyone else had this feeling before? IP: Logged |
deptic
Knowflake Posts: 149
From: Earth, Raised on Pluto
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 29, 2014 11:20 AM
Yeah u can meet your soul mate anywhere. Even online. At a basked ball game. At the coffee shop. Even next door. On the bus. In a business meeting ect.. u get the drift lol. And yeah sometimes I'm walking and I'll see someone n my heart just makes a big pound with a warm feeling inside. Idk if that's the same tho. But like u said u feel like u know the person already, well unluckily for me that never happened to me  IP: Logged |
mareaire
Knowflake Posts: 138
From: avalon
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 29, 2014 02:26 PM
it seems like there are varying interpretations of soul mate and twin flames out there.i don't know exactly what my partner is, definitely feels like a soul mate, true love and twin flame. we met at a huge music festival in the dark, unexpectedly. and when our eyes met it was instant recognition. it seemed like our vision lined up geometrically, creating this beautiful scene before us, like the whole world lit up. we both instantly felt it and acknowledged it. pretty crazy. love at first sight. definitely a lot of ancient memories to be unlocked. we had a lot of neptune transits going on then....haha. it's been 7 years now, and the fantasy of ourselves has faded....only to bring deeper love as we embrace the light and dark of eachother. such a journey! anyways, i don't know if there are certain placements that make someone more likely to find a soul mate. it might depend on past life karma. and whether or not you'll be able to coexist with a soul mate depends on synastry, i guess. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 4997
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 29, 2014 03:38 PM
I have, rarely. Though just to be clear the attraction wasn't in anyway romantic, it was a familiarity like our spirits recognized each other and there was an instant connection, and I could believe we knew each other in another life. IP: Logged |
m.blade
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted July 29, 2014 04:49 PM
why not?IP: Logged |
theunknown
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 29, 2014 09:21 PM
Well, honestly I always know the person either has pluto or north node contact with meIP: Logged |
MagnumJoe
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From: Cairo, Egypt
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 29, 2014 09:40 PM
Damn i have no idea what you guys are talkin about  IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 4997
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 29, 2014 09:44 PM
quote:
Originally posted by m.blade:
why not?
Is this meant to be rhetorical as a reply to the thread title itself?  IP: Logged |
Gabby
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 29, 2014 09:50 PM
I've met a soulmate in a club once, we saw each other at the same time. I was heading the opposite direction when I saw him, he was just starting to sit down and he stood in between sitting n standing staring at me, I stood half way inbetween still walking the opposite direction but staring back at him.
I knew I knew him, I stumbled into someone else so I stopped walking and just turned n stared at him staring at me, he still had not sat down but wasn't standing either. He had the most confused look on his face n I came back to reality enough to step out of the way of everyone and try to figure out how I knew him. I looked away from him and got this feeling to walk away, do not go over to him. So I started thinking about another place to go, I'd lost my friends by then, I was a little disoriented and he was still staring at me like a lost puppy dog.
So I walked over to him and sat down. We just stared at each other, eventually we said hi, he said how do I know you? I said I don't know....
We went on to have an insane, fun, traumatic, intense, crazy, roller coaster relationship that lasted about 6months....now we are great friends and more like brother n sister than anything else! But we had a lot of karma to work through and we came out on the other end healthier n happier but we didn't want to be together. I helped him n he helped me but we had enough of each other after awhile! LolEdit-Anyone who knows my posts, he's the pisces Mars in 12th t-squared his gemini Venus and saggy Neptune. The poor guy, he feeds his own issues and that gets on my nerves, which I can't hold back in telling him! Lol, I don't know why he still wants to hang around me!
My Karma is on his Pluto, his Karma opposed my Saturn....
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Geeky
Knowflake Posts: 821
From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 29, 2014 11:03 PM
quote:
Originally posted by mareaire:
it seems like there are varying interpretations of soul mate and twin flames out there.
Yes there are (this is a long explanation). I met a soul mate, I believe. And I remember a past life experience with this person. We met because I had posted some concert tickets up on craigslist and he was the first to message me. When I gave him my number and he called, I remember hearing his voice on he phone and thinking he sounded annoying (lol) but when I met him, I felt like my heart stopped for a second. I had called my cousin to have her on the phone the whole time (because there was a stranger coming by from craigslist, of course!) and when he pulled up and got out of the car I said, "Oh my gawd! The hottest guy I have ever seen is walking up to my door and I didn't even bother to do my hair or take a shower!" Anyway, we chatted intently outside on my doorstep as it lightly sprinkled (I will never forget this day...it was 11/1/2010). I was selling two tickets so he invited me to go with him. I declined and then kicked myself for the rest of the day. So I e-mailed him casually the next day to ask "How was the show? I hope you liked it..." and a very odd and sexually awkward (but sweet) friendship formed. As an example, we would sleep in the same bed and give each other back massages but not be sexual. We never "dated" either as he was awkward. The last time I saw him in an intimate way was Thanksgiving night 2011. I invited him to Thanksgiving at my house and when he was leaving, he had issues with his brake lights. So again, we were standing in the rain trying to get it situated. I was always the one to hold the flashlight. As he was about to drive away, he rolled down the window and called my name. Since it was raining hard at this point, I poked my head into the window which made us very close. He kissed me and drove away. I ran into him once after that around the new year 2012/2013. I was already with my fiancé at the time and he was there with a girl but it was fine. We hugged and sat with our arms tightly squeezed around each other while showing each other pictures of what we had been doing in life over that past year of silence. It was a sweet moment. My last contact with him was July 25, 2013 (his birthday). I sent him a card but he never replied. he told a mutual friend he missed me and thought it was very sweet, but he never thanked me directly. I really wanted to get him another card this year but I wondered why. What is this attachment? We don't really talk or hang out anymore. ??? But I did fall in love with him and I do love him as a human being. It just wasn't right for us to be together. That feeling is so hard to explain. I believe we saved each other's lives though. When we met, we were both going through very difficult times (as a hint, it was right at the tail end of my Saturn return). I never did the astrology on him but maybe I should have to help figure out why we needed each other. --- Ok, so during all of that (above), I realized my lovely soul mate was not a romantic interest, so I moved on in my dating life. I had decent luck on craiglist finding such a sweet friend that I went there looking through the personals. No one was really standing out to me but this one ad I would come back to week after week (he kept reposting). He talked about being a musician and I had told myself, "stay away" but I couldn't. I wrote him but he didn't respond for two weeks. Then, we texted and chatted online for a little more than a month before we decided to meet. Our first date was set for 12/26/2010 but I lived 29 miles from him so he decided on Christmas night that he would drive out to make sure he wouldn't get lost. When I saw him, I met someone who I absolutely believed was a soul mate but then I learned what a twin flame is. When he got to the parking lot where I live that Christmas night in 2010, I ran down the steps as he jumped from his car and I literally jumped in his arms to greet him. It was that picture perfect. And, the first 2 weeks was intense like that. AMAZING. And then he pulled away and said he needed time to process everything. He said, "trust me" and I did. Stupidly. Anyway, I will spare everyone the heart wrenching nastiness but I will say this. Relationships with twin flames aren't always easy or positive and ours surely wasn't!! He shredded my heart & it was the worst heartbreak I've ever experienced because I loved him, but he didn't love me back. The only thing to keep me sane today is to believe the relationship was there to teach me to release some old patterns. I can appreciate that. But he left me with a broken heart that truthfully hasn't healed (and I am happily married now). --- In my next message, I will write about how my "earth partner" came to be.  However, I have work to do that has a tight deadline, so it may not be right away. ------------------
“Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 17, 2014 02:45 PM
just met a guy at a music festival, saw him smoking in the river in a funny hat. I hung around the river for a while and made myself go talk to him cause he was too attractive not to...I sat down and we started chatting, turns out, we're both half of the same nationality, both on our dad's side and they're both from the same city, we read the same books, we both write, his birthday is 6 months minus two days opposite of mine, etc. etc. I've obviously done the astro homework so I understand the number of squares we have so I'm cool with that tension...he seemed less comfortable with that and at the moment it feels one sided, but we live in different cities so the communication is just beginning now. He is everything I've ever wanted and been attracted to in a partner....so we'll see...... IP: Logged |
mareaire
Knowflake Posts: 138
From: avalon
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 17, 2014 06:43 PM
what music festival was it?? quote:
Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
just met a guy at a music festival, saw him smoking in the river in a funny hat. I hung around the river for a while and made myself go talk to him cause he was too attractive not to...I sat down and we started chatting, turns out, we're both half of the same nationality, both on our dad's side and they're both from the same city, we read the same books, we both write, his birthday is 6 months minus two days opposite of mine, etc. etc. I've obviously done the astro homework so I understand the number of squares we have so I'm cool with that tension...he seemed less comfortable with that and at the moment it feels one sided, but we live in different cities so the communication is just beginning now. He is everything I've ever wanted and been attracted to in a partner....so we'll see......
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mamawolf
Knowflake Posts: 119
From: the universe
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 17, 2014 08:23 PM
Haha I was wondering the same ^I had a very calming and familiar experience with this guy three years ago. I went to my friend's apartment at the time and one of her roommate's friend was in town visiting. We didn't get to talk until everyone went to bed and by the end we were cuddling face to face on the couch. I wouldn't call it romantic but I opened up to him and it's like he saw right through me and I had complete trust in him. He even mentioned that he felt as if he's known me for a very long time and boy did it.
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freebrainstorms
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 17, 2014 10:17 PM
quote:
Originally posted by mareaire:
what music festival was it??
I'd rather not say, it was somewhat of a small one compared to others - it was in North America, I'll say that much.  IP: Logged |
Bohemiangirl
Newflake Posts: 15
From: NSW Australia
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 18, 2014 06:17 AM
Ok...I need to tell someone. I caught his eye and he caught mine. Very briefly. We worked at the same place but he's sort of in a managerial position-to him I'm nothing really. We move in different circles, although if my career in the arts would develop we'd be equals. He then left for overseas work but in that time I looked him up on google and developed a deep attraction having a silly fantasy since then. After a break of three years, he's back. I hadn't seen him and had not been working the days he was. However, we saw each other last week. I was turning to leave the building and saw him entering from a distance. I looked away but as he passed I felt I could take a small peek. Keep in mind the first glance three years ago was so brief to be almost nothing. As we passed each other, he was looking straight at me and nodded as if he knew me. I couldn't help but acknowledge back..I was so thrown I haven't been able to think of anything since. I am in a long term relationship of over 20 years as he is and he lives overseas. I have since learned that his venus conjs mine in pisces but opposes my mars and pluto conjunct in virgo. His presence has really kick-started an interest in my career which I had almost shelved but it's also made me admit that having never experienced a satisfactory sexual/spiritual life as my partner is only my second (Mars in virgo=mixed up/fearful sexuality) and I had no experience when we met and thought that was as good as it got, that I have an almost raw need for a spiritual/sexual union with a man. I have to admit that my partner and I, despite being the best of friends have never physically clicked and I don't want to die feeling this empty. I am so lost and needing something but I can't/don't know what it is. I don't even know if it's this man-Help!IP: Logged | |
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