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PrettyPisces
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From: Cambria heights,NY
Registered: Jun 2011

posted July 29, 2014 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PrettyPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been friends with a cancer for some years now / we are childhood friends . Other time we developed feelings for each other . He's very subtle with his comments with me and their are rare moments when his is straight forward . I have suspected he has feelings for him I know I have deep feelings for him but I have not build up the confidence to tell him what I think he already knows . ( we have a telepathic connection ) 2 nights ago his bestfriend ( a guy) mutual friend . Call me to chat . He proceed to say me and his friend need to stop playing games with each other . I asked him did he tell you anything or are you assuming things . He said he and him had a talk about me and he told him how he feels about me but he will not tell me being he told him in confidence but all I need to know is he needs to get over his heartbreak first.i then said to him when we have a disagreement he tells me I'm not his girlfriend . He said maybe that's him with his wall up . I know he hasn't been in a relationship in two years . I feel it's time I tell him but I don't know what to do with this info . Is there anyway I should go about . I can't say I like you ; I know you like me your bestfriend told me . He has venus in 12th house (like he had some bad relationships) so sad!

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Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012

posted July 30, 2014 05:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, true love

Its easier to tell someone that you have just met, that you like them.Much easier to go on the offensive and attack your "prey" lol

When they say "no". It is easier to get over it. You were not that attached

Much harder, however,to tell someone -with whom you slowly grew to like- that you have feelings for them.

Its harder when they reject you. Because you are so attached.

Venus inn 12th you say? Well, no wonder the skirting around. i don't think that he is even sure that it is romantic love or platonic love. Venus in 12th can get confused about how they feel.

You could "jump the gun" and tell him how you feel? Unless you are also weary of coming across "forward"?

But you two should know each others personalities by now. You should know what the other considers appropriate display of affection and what is not. Right?

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PrettyPisces
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From: Cambria heights,NY
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posted July 31, 2014 06:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PrettyPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know his bf called be yesterday and we were talking briefly and he says did you snitch on me . I said no I wouldn't tell on you . I just am having a hard time with this / well I'm confuse because when we have a disagreement he says you're not my gf . But just 3 weeks ago he told me their is something underlying with me and he feels I'm hiding something . A secret . And when I'm ready he's open and ready .

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