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Topic: Aries moon
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Marandana
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posted July 29, 2014 10:32 PM
  
I'm in a doubt, does an aries moon man like to chase or to be chased?IP: Logged |
ReachingForTheStars
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posted July 29, 2014 10:47 PM
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I'm in a doubt, does an aries moon man like to chase or to be chased?
My husband and father have Aries moons. Definitely chasers! No shame in their game! Even the females I know stalk what they want! IP: Logged |
Selenite
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posted July 29, 2014 11:03 PM
^Yes. Being chased can scare them off. It can make them feel like you're demanding something of them before anything has even happened.I'm a girl w aries moon but conjunct 2 close guy friends' aries moons, and my dad's. o.o Aries moon does not like the sad-needy thing. (They don't even like to let themselves feel needy. Never asking for help even when they should.) And they can sniff it out from miles away, and *even if you don't mean to seem like it and genuinely are not needy* - chances are they've had an experience where the person chasing them did turn out to be overly demanding so they run from the possibility before it can happen.
But of course, it depends on the rest of the chart. I have a lot of scorpio so I like to embrace the emotional depths. The guys I know that I mentioned are all fire/air heavy.
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fishbull11
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posted July 30, 2014 11:31 AM
I would say it can go both ways from the male perspective, there have been more than a couple threads on here regarding Aries moons and its more likely the females are the chaser types more so than then male counterparts. I have this placement and don't mind being chased, it shows you have confidence and a strong individual both attractive qualities to an Aries moon person. I do have a couple of placements outside of a ram moon that lead to not mind being chased also though so I might be a bit partial, but again going back to Aries moons threads on here the women chase and the men can go either way. IP: Logged |
starrynight
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posted July 30, 2014 11:55 AM
But how do you make them aware of wanting to be chased?  Without coming off either as needy or chase-y?IP: Logged |
starrynight
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posted July 30, 2014 11:57 AM
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Originally posted by fishbull11:
the men can go either way.
It makes logical sense, actually, considering a man is supposed to seek the traits of his Moon in a woman. So, if a man likes a woman with a bit of Aries in her, she definitely wouldn't be a wallflower. Actually, this
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Originally posted by fishbull11:
I have this placement and don't mind being chased, it shows you have confidence and a strong individual both attractive qualities to an Aries moon person.
This is exactly what a friend of mine says, he is a Leo Sun with Aries Moon and Scorpio Venus. "I like a woman who radiates confidence, such a woman is prettier and sexier than a beautiful but shy one."At the same time, guys with Aries moon (or Aries Venus) often come off as... um a bit traditional gender-wise? to me. Like "I'm a real man, so be a real woman", you know.
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usc277
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posted July 30, 2014 12:42 PM
I like to be in control. I like the chase. If you chase me it means you have low self-esteem and it means I hate you. Aries moon Pisces sun. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted July 30, 2014 01:54 PM
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elise11
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posted July 30, 2014 02:07 PM
I m a taurus female with a leo rising, aries moon. If someone chases me i m completely turned off! I m not interested anymore , almost disgusted if the Person makes a game Out of it, thinks i want this or need this. I like romantic sensitive partners, Even needy ones in some way, i like a soul connection, and the Person can definitely be open with their weskness and expect me to be there.. But it defititely has to be a pereon who s somehow original , can live on his own, has his own friends, ideas, mind and needs some space in his own way. Be authentic, even if you are clingy. Of you have to Chase do it in an honest way, be yourself, show your feelings, but also show boundaries where necessarily. Never chase like a "Player"!IP: Logged |
ariestaurus
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posted July 30, 2014 02:09 PM
Very childish moon, indeed! very impatient, too.I have Moon in Aries square Venus in Capricorn, so I definitely like a challenge, but my Venus in Cap makes me a bit shy. the Moon rules my 8th house, so I'm very direct when it comes to sex and I STRONGLY prefer making the first sexual move, but when it comes to expressing feelings, I'm very reserved like a Cap. IP: Logged |
Marandana
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posted July 30, 2014 11:16 PM
Indeed, aries moon can be really impatient. So they dont' like clingy/needy people, they want strong confident woman, so what would be the difference between an aries moon man and a scorpio moon man?IP: Logged |
fishbull11
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posted July 30, 2014 11:42 PM
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Originally posted by Marandana:
Indeed, aries moon can be really impatient. So they dont' like clingy/needy people, they want strong confident woman, so what would be the difference between an aries moon man and a scorpio moon man?
There are quite a number of differences, an Aries moon is positive, upbeat, direct, forgives and forgets when you take shots at them so much as you make up for up. A scorpio moon from my experience has a hard time forgiving, never forgets, non-direct (passive aggressive) and honestly the toughest moon sign to have and one I don't wish on anybody. They both want to dominate, and are good placements for getting ahead career or otherwise in life, and have leadership qualities yet the scorpio moons tends towards self destructive habits and taking advantage of others. The scorpio moon roommate I had literally couldn't be anything but passive aggressive, turned to alcohol regularly and routinely and had these sob stories of how his ex wife lived in the house he bought, owner of company he worked for and built up kicked him to the curb, quite a bit of blaming others when he couldn't get out of his own way and was very much as responsible for his own demise. Not that an aries moon doesn't have its challenges and is considered a detriment for probably good reasons, its just having scorpio rule your emotional nature and moon sign is a steep challenge for many but not without tremendous power that can be used constructively i.e. Beyonce and Gisele to name a couple. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted July 31, 2014 12:14 AM
i am a female and definitely want to chase. i like games, and very bold aggressive people as well. if you tell me you like me that is good, now i know and can go after you if i want. be very bold and upfront, and let interest be known, but don't chase me. that takes all the fun away and i won't respect that. i have a serious dislike of 'weak' people or people who seem too shy. bold is better.IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
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posted July 31, 2014 01:44 AM
Chase. In my experience. IP: Logged |
usc277
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posted July 31, 2014 04:24 AM
My Aries moon moto "if anyone can have it, I don't want it"IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
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posted July 31, 2014 06:45 AM
I freakkin love Aries moons, especially if my sun makes a nice aspect with their moon. IP: Logged |
starrynight
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posted July 31, 2014 10:08 AM
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Originally posted by Marandana:
Indeed, aries moon can be really impatient. So they dont' like clingy/needy people, they want strong confident woman, so what would be the difference between an aries moon man and a scorpio moon man?
Scorpio Moons--okay this is IMHO, maybe someone has a totally different opinion--always seemed pretty gloomy to me. Like the Moon position makes that Scorpio tail strike itself much more often. Also, and this is probably the biggest difference, Aries Moon switches between moods rather easily and Scorpio Moon gets stuck. It's almost like being a Moon exaggerates the darkest, most introverted and melancholy traits of Scorpio.All this coming from a Scorpio Sun conjunction Pluto. But next to the majority of Scorpio Moons I feel just plain cheerful, upbeat and open.
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charlie
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posted July 31, 2014 11:48 AM
Hmmm the ones I have dated took the 1st step but then they pulled back and became cautious. My Mars conj Asc scared the daylight out of them lolIP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted July 31, 2014 05:25 PM
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usc277
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posted July 31, 2014 05:44 PM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
But they don't like rejection.
That is true unfortunately.. But I'm learning IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted August 02, 2014 05:29 AM
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usc277
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posted August 02, 2014 08:38 AM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I think the best for Aries moons would be someone who isn't hard to get but slightly out of reach. Someone who is open to the Aries moon person but doesn't give in all the way. Seems like Aries type people or people with prominent mars tend to lose interest if their prey shows any signs of rejecting them, however they value someone who was a hard own prize.
Not sure. I like a challenge. someone who is hard to get and out of reach falls under the umbrella of a "challenge" My moon creates a problem for my Pisces sun, I seem prone to having plenty of crushes and many short-lived yet intense desires...especially with Scorpio women. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted August 02, 2014 06:48 PM
I'm a libra moon and I knew a few, and been with a few Aries moons. They come off strong but also too "transparent".This one Aries moon guy I knew was so focused on appearing as the leader it used to tick me off. I actually had to confront him once if not twice because of it because I hate stuff like that. And as a libra moon who hates foolish competition, I had to strike some kind of balance. An Aries moon woman who was my ex had serious anger issues to deal with. But she was young at the time. I could always see right through her. Another Aries woman moon I knew was always chasing me lol we definitely had a connection. She was open about her fears and issues and I always supported her. She would want to hang out with me and she told others how much she liked and admired me (I guess this the good side of an Aries-Libra moon connection). All in all Aries moons from my experience can go either way like any other sign. They have a headstrong attitude, but they can also take it too far if someone doesn't step in and lay down sound ground rules. IP: Logged |
starrynight
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posted August 02, 2014 08:05 PM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I think the best for Aries moons would be someone who isn't hard to get but slightly out of reach. Someone who is open to the Aries moon person but doesn't give in all the way. Seems like Aries type people or people with prominent mars tend to lose interest if their prey shows any signs of rejecting them, however they value someone who was a hard own prize.
This seems like such a difficult balance... maybe because my own Mars is prominent and in Fire and it says "if you like them, chase them hard." I have a hard time not chasing but neither rejecting at the same time. The art of being elusive...
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bansheequeen
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posted August 02, 2014 08:17 PM
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